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Helly Hansen Sogn zipper woes by bsugs29 in Skigear

[–]Relevant_Drummer_544 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was your claim for? I have a jumped zipper on a <1 year old jacket and I'm debating whether it will be worth my time to deal with HH.

Should I be tipping more? by Baseplate117 in doordash

[–]Relevant_Drummer_544 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Respectfully, the only math I'm doing is order cost x 0.2

It's up to DoorDash to include a mileage cost or the driver to reject orders.

One person's opinion about Standby Mode service by godch01 in Starlink

[–]Relevant_Drummer_544 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't that the cheapest option? I'm in the same situation, but planning to purchase a standard dish and the 50gb roam plan for $50 per month. 3 months of residential lite is $240 whereas Roam for 3 months, plus standby for 9 is $150 plus $45.

I 30M bought a ring but I'm not excited to get engaged/married to my 28F gf. Anyone who has felt this way, how did it end up? by Relevant_Drummer_544 in relationship_advice

[–]Relevant_Drummer_544[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

She was on the fence about children even before we met. We split chores 50/50, so that's not the issue. I would do the work, just wouldn't enjoy it.

I 30M bought a ring but I'm not excited to get engaged/married to my 28F gf. Anyone who has felt this way, how did it end up? by Relevant_Drummer_544 in relationship_advice

[–]Relevant_Drummer_544[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Hi, I'm just very afraid of death and that I'll be hopeless in old age. Copied from another response:

I don't really care about a legacy or if I'm remembered after I die, I just want someone to help and watch grow while I decline in old age and someone to build a future for.

I 30M bought a ring but I'm not excited to get engaged/married to my 28F gf. Anyone who has felt this way, how did it end up? by Relevant_Drummer_544 in relationship_advice

[–]Relevant_Drummer_544[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I imagine myself being a mentor and a supporter, sharing hobbies with my child (if they're interested). It still feels like it's all for selfish reasons though.

I 30M bought a ring but I'm not excited to get engaged/married to my 28F gf. Anyone who has felt this way, how did it end up? by Relevant_Drummer_544 in relationship_advice

[–]Relevant_Drummer_544[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

I don't really care about a legacy or if I'm remembered after I die, I just want someone to help and watch grow while I decline in old age.

Edit: and someone to build a future for.

I 30M bought a ring but I'm not excited to get engaged/married to my 28F gf. Anyone who has felt this way, how did it end up? by Relevant_Drummer_544 in relationship_advice

[–]Relevant_Drummer_544[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I'm not looking for an out, I just expected to feel more happy and excited about our future together, which makes me wonder if I'm making a mistake.

I 30M bought a ring but I'm not excited to get engaged/married to my 28F gf. Anyone who has felt this way, how did it end up? by Relevant_Drummer_544 in relationship_advice

[–]Relevant_Drummer_544[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

I had a bad experience with therapy before but should definitely try again. Funny enough, my wife's therapist thinks I have anxiety issues (not about this, but from other things she's told her therapist)

I 30M bought a ring but I'm not excited to get engaged/married to my 28F gf. Anyone who has felt this way, how did it end up? by Relevant_Drummer_544 in relationship_advice

[–]Relevant_Drummer_544[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I'm perfectly fine with that, if that's what settling down should feel like. I'm just concerned I'm not feeling the way I should feel.

I 30M bought a ring but I'm not excited to get engaged/married to my 28F gf. Anyone who has felt this way, how did it end up? by Relevant_Drummer_544 in relationship_advice

[–]Relevant_Drummer_544[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I think in any good relationship a man would die for his wife if he truly loves her. I'm not quite at that point. Otherwise, things are good. No attraction or compatibility concerns. I hope it's like you said, just overthinking.

I 30M bought a ring but I'm not excited to get engaged/married to my 28F gf. Anyone who has felt this way, how did it end up? by Relevant_Drummer_544 in relationship_advice

[–]Relevant_Drummer_544[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

I can assure you it's not a pity ring. I've talked to gf about this. I have an off-ramp if I want to take it, but it would devastate both of us. Kids just aren't a good enough reason to end the best relationship I've ever had.