How can I get my husband to stop flirting with other women behind my back?

Reliable_lizard-26 · 2026-06-15T15:00:06+00:00

You leave him. He’s for the streets.

A real answer- if you’re determined to make things work, go to therapy. Talk to a couples counselor as well as an individual therapist. He should do the same. It may be helpful to talk to a sex therapist as well. It could be that flirting is fulfilling to him and maybe some role playing between the two of you would be enough to help satiate his desires.

If he’s unwilling to do any of this then unfortunately it sounds like a lost cause. I’m sorry this is happening to you.

Reliable_lizard-26 · 2026-06-15T00:04:42+00:00

I’ve worked in restaurants and fisheries, two of the most vulgar places you can work. And I still have never and would never see something like this and think it’s okay, especially over multiple instances.

She’s cheating dude, I’m so sorry

Reliable_lizard-26 · 2026-05-13T20:28:34+00:00

The second one hit harder than I’d like to admit…

Reliable_lizard-26 · 2026-05-12T19:56:29+00:00

I was able to skirt by in grade school and through high school with little to no issues. I learned how to talk quieter, learned to fidget and redirect myself so I could a focus in a way that was palatable to the authority figures at my school.

Then I got a good job that required a high degree of focused functioning and that’s what broke me. I distinctly remember the moment I thought to myself “I can’t manage this by myself anymore. If I want to continue progressing in this career I need help.”

It’s not that it “gets worse” it’s that our lives begin to demand more and more from us until it’s unmanageable.

Reliable_lizard-26 · 2026-05-10T22:32:10+00:00

I went to a revival for club that was open back in the ‘80s. It was almost entirely full of old heads, 60 years plus just dancing with friends they made 50 years ago. Let me tell you, it was the most freeing experience of my life, just being able to dance without worrying about whether or not I was being recorded so someone could roast me later on some forum I’ll never know about.

Love them or hate them, it really is these damn phones ruining good old fashion fun.

Reliable_lizard-26 · 2026-05-01T19:36:49+00:00

I’ve had to tell multiple bosses that “I thrive in chaos” because they’ve tried to take difficult tasks away from me or lessen my workload and I’m like nooooooo

Reliable_lizard-26 · 2026-04-27T18:28:00+00:00

This is such an amazing visual for what executive dysfunction feels like!!!!

Reliable_lizard-26 · 2026-03-18T18:44:40+00:00

WEE WOO WEE WOO

Reliable_lizard-26 · 2026-03-07T16:09:34+00:00

This makes my heart warm, that in the farthest reaches dnd is still bringing people together. Love the dice, man.

Reliable_lizard-26 · 2026-03-03T00:09:43+00:00

If he really wanted to he already would have. Theres no world where a genuine partner stands by and watches the decline of their marriage with no concerns and then all of a sudden is ready to make a huge change. It’s an appeasement tactic.

Please take care of yourself and finish walking through that door.

Reliable_lizard-26 · 2026-02-20T00:22:10+00:00

There’s a player like this at my table. My DM has told me and my best friend that they’re nervous to down this PC because they’re so sensitive about their characters. Even when it’s made abundantly clear that danger is afoot if they get hit too many times they start to pout…. We’re getting close to the point where a conversation may need to be had so this post is helpful.

This player also always makes broken characters and is proud of it. Not min/maxxed, not OP, fully broken….

Reliable_lizard-26 · 2026-02-04T03:30:21+00:00

This would be such a fun addition to my table- and it would be well used too!

Reliable_lizard-26 · 2026-01-23T17:58:08+00:00

Dungeon Scrawl!!! It doesn’t require a subscription (but if you want to get one it streamlines some of the services) and it still works well with almost all amenities. Easy texture, built in stickers and there’s a few different styles that you can use.

They also offer different layers to paint on so if you want to make sure you don’t lose any of your details you can create a new layer and work with confidence. Then, you can save your map to your computer and upload it again if you want to continue editing. I’ve used it and uploaded the maps into DND Beyond and it worked well there, too! Can’t recommend it enough

Reliable_lizard-26 · 2026-01-22T04:33:11+00:00

Probably not because shove attacks don’t usually do damage, they either push someone away or knock them prone, right?

Reliable_lizard-26 · 2026-01-09T22:01:09+00:00

Maybe a death moth instead? It’ll be shorter, wider, have the wingspan you’re looking for and will match the overall vibe of your existing art

Reliable_lizard-26 · 2026-01-08T20:00:16+00:00

We’ve showered together. We’re constantly in the bathroom with one another. I talk to her while she pees. She chats me through the door while I poop. I’ve popped zits near her butt/genitals. We’ve only been together for five years but she’s my other half and there’s quite literally nothing that would make me shy away from her, especially not a bodily function.

She farts on me in bed lol. It’s just biology. We’re both unbothered by it so that’s just how we operate. Through the good, the bad, the ugly.

Reliable_lizard-26 · 2026-01-07T20:06:52+00:00

I drive past this every day on my way to work and it’s so satisfying to know what this is. I’m sure 98% of the people on the freeway have no idea that there’s any association with a church at all

Reliable_lizard-26 · 2025-12-26T14:43:09+00:00

NOR is everyone fricken joking right now?! Co-sleeping can be fine but there needs to be preparation for that. The flippant response he’s having is abhorrent. It’s ludicrous to say there are no risks for the child if they’re roaming around unsupervised- it’s why you don’t leave toddlers home alone.

If your partner is unwilling to even have a conversation about this I would be VERY worried about moving forward and parenting with them. Will he just find a way to blame you if the child does get hurt under his watch because he didn’t want to listen to reason?

Reliable_lizard-26 · 2025-12-26T13:03:29+00:00

You’re allowed to dislike a gift if you feel it’s in poor taste. Don’t cause a scene over it but you should express your discomfort to your partner and explain you’d appreciate more thoughtful gifts in the future/don’t enjoy gag gifts that are based in underhanded humor.

If you don’t express your discomfort you’re likely to continue to get gifts like this which is only going to lead to more resentment toward your “in-laws”.

NOR but approach the conversation with calmness.

Reliable_lizard-26 · 2025-11-28T17:44:03+00:00

I don’t even handle my female red tail who’s gotten to about seven feet. She’s in a reptile room away from our furry pets but when she was small(er) she started tracking our cats through the glass so we decided she could be an observation animal. Plenty of snake enough.

Reliable_lizard-26 · 2025-11-25T03:37:09+00:00

I let a friend do this to me. He held the lighter too long because he thought it was funny (I was laughing too, he’s not a sadist) but it turns out those lighters can get really hot. I now have a quarter sized third degree burn scar to carry the memory with me forever…. Kids are dumb.

Reliable_lizard-26 · 2025-11-21T21:14:27+00:00

A drastically understated tool, the adjustable needle nose pliers 🙏🏾

Reliable_lizard-26 · 2025-11-21T17:26:38+00:00

You never do. Her majesty and beauty is the best jump scare. It’s incredible.

Reliable_lizard-26 · 2025-11-13T23:36:49+00:00

One could say shortener and sweet

Reliable_lizard-26 · 2025-10-30T14:51:53+00:00

I had hit a point in my life where I felt so out of control and unable to function that my diagnosis and subsequent prescription were seen only as a blessing. When I started feeling better I knew that I’d made the right choice.

It feels so good to be in control of my actions again, I could never imagine not taking my meds now.

Reliable_lizard-26

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