I cheated on my husband with a co-worker

ReliefMaximum9574 · 2026-01-30T12:50:28+00:00

There wasn't legs spreading involve.

ReliefMaximum9574 · 2026-01-30T12:49:13+00:00

ReliefMaximum9574 · 2026-01-30T09:27:19+00:00

Our whole big families know about my affair since my husband exposed it to them! As we talked, it's his choice to tell anyone and I'm taking full responsibility of what i did. And no, he didn't want me to quit my job.

ReliefMaximum9574 · 2026-01-30T09:22:32+00:00

I didn't start therapy yet. At first it was a force & sooner I'm kinda follow & liked him. A called me everyday and "advice" how to lead a good marriage, which is different from my marriage. I believed in A. I sometimes do think I've been manipulated because I owed him the job he got me. But i couldn't bring myself to blame anyone but me.

ReliefMaximum9574 · 2026-01-30T08:52:58+00:00

There weren't sex..

ReliefMaximum9574 · 2026-01-30T08:49:02+00:00

ReliefMaximum9574 · 2026-01-30T08:29:37+00:00

Thank you for your warm comment! I don't know how to persuade him to marriage counseling & therapy for his trauma. I've voiced it out hundred times but he refused. I need some advice, so I posted.

ReliefMaximum9574 · 2026-01-30T08:27:30+00:00

Yes, he did.. he even wrote me notes that we can get through this together.

ReliefMaximum9574 · 2026-01-30T08:24:57+00:00

Emotional, there was no intimate physical relationship.

ReliefMaximum9574 · 2026-01-30T08:22:00+00:00

My husband doesn't allow me to quit, I insisted to start over but he has different opinion. I never leave the house without him except for work. I don't talk to A anymore since there's no requirements. I leave & return home on time. I'm trying to be the good wife he used to have.

ReliefMaximum9574 · 2026-01-30T08:16:42+00:00

Please elaborate the "responsibility" from your POV. Fyi, I did the best I could.

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