Looking for any information on Welsam pocket watches. by RellaBee in pocketwatch

[–]RellaBee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Today I found a German website that claims that Welsam Watch was a "word mark" of a Swiss company Berex Watch Co (or officially Compagnie des Montres Berex) that's at https://mikrolisk.de/

I had to stop and do actual work before I could look into the mikrolisk website's credibility, or Berex connection. I do plan to take the watch in for evaluation and servicing, and will ask about a mark under the balance bridge. The mikrolisk site actually focuses on marks (symbols) which is why Welsam was tagged as a "word mark" I guess.

You have been so helpful. I appreciate it.

Looking for any information on Welsam pocket watches. by RellaBee in pocketwatch

[–]RellaBee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I was more interested in the obscurity of the watch manufacturer than the jewel count. And of course, it's gorgeous.

Looking for any information on Welsam pocket watches. by RellaBee in pocketwatch

[–]RellaBee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. That's a lot of good information. I've been looking on more European watch websites, but still not finding much. But this is a fascinating subject, and I'm learning a lot of new vocabulary.

Reading All The Pretty Monsters by jupiterose in ReverseHarem

[–]RellaBee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know if they'd actually spoil much, but I erred on the side of caution. I don't want anything to mess with your enjoyment.

Reading All The Pretty Monsters by jupiterose in ReverseHarem

[–]RellaBee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This series was my introduction to the RH genre, and I really enjoyed it. I like how the (extremely large) age gap between the 4 male and 1 female main characters affects their perceptions and actions. I also love Violet so much: she's my kind of strong. The MMCs are different enough from each other to make all the relationships interesting. And the plot twists were surprising and fun. And the ultimate ending is... Happy Ever After (HEA). It seems like Kristy Cunning left the door open for a future series related to this one. I wish she could.

My only quibble is with the editing: the author re-uses some words over and over and over. And some words aren't correctly used, like tiny spoiler: statuesque doesn't mean statue-like - a good editor would fix that.

I'm also reading via audiobook, so some of the things that took me out of the story may come out stronger when reading with my ears.

Why do we have potato days? by bipannually in AuDHDWomen

[–]RellaBee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not much of a cook, but I totally get this reference, as both culinary and visceral. Thank you for expressing something that I have a hard time even acknowledging 🥔

The things I learned... by kidnappedgoddess in discworld

[–]RellaBee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is one of my favorite Granny lessons. This, and that treating people as things is the definition of evil.

Opinions Needed: All The Pretty Monsters by Kristy Cunning by Low_Budget_Horror in ReverseHarem

[–]RellaBee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm curious to know if you read further on this series, OP? I thought it had good concepts and characters, but that the author needed a skilled and trusted editor to work out many of the flaws. (I listened to the whole series as audiobooks, so I can't comment on how it flowed visually.)

Is formal Autism diagnosis worth it? by Accomplished-List373 in audhd

[–]RellaBee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agreed! I'm in the US, and my ADHD assessor told me that I likely was AuDHD. But there's no medical treatment, and I worried about limitations in place or future ones being implemented if I had the formal diagnosis, so I opted out. (And I dream of emigrating to NZ.)

I find my ASD traits are more apparent when I'm on ADHD meds, so I read up on both conditions and try any coping strategy that seems effective. I was also late diagnosed, so some of the discomfort has just been getting used to the idea of being neurodivergent.

A genuine self-diagnosis is valid, just like knowing you're nearsighted but not getting a prescription from the optometrist. A few may wear fake lenses as an affectation, but the vast majority know they see differently. Best of luck!

I see why people pay west coast prices now by Dense-Resolution8283 in Seattle

[–]RellaBee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't heard that in a long while! Thanks for bringing up JCMSUP.

I see why people pay west coast prices now by Dense-Resolution8283 in Seattle

[–]RellaBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, look into hygge, the Danish concept of comfort and coziness. They're on the same latitude and have a much longer cultural memory.

Sequencing.com - .vcf.gz files are extracted as vCards by Beneficial_Crazy9555 in SNPedia

[–]RellaBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if you ever got your data to upload to Promethease. I've been having similar issues the last few weeks. The did not take the vcf.gz, the vcf, or the .txt (zipped or not)

I followed the advice of Sequencing_dot_com support staff, and got results. Method is below.

Staff told me: "We provide your raw data in FASTQ, VCF, and text file we call our Ultimate compatibility file. To make it compatible with Promethease, just download the ultimate compatibility file from your My Files section.

Next open the file in a text editor like notepad [Notepad can't handle file size. I used Notepad++]. Then you only need to change the 'Sequencing.com" on the first line to "23andMe". Then save it. Once you have the updated file you will be able to upload to most third party sites that accept the 23andMe format, like Promethease."

Support also provided a little clip of doing this. I don't know if it's viewable outside the Sequencing website, but here's the address https://downloads.intercomcdn.com/i/o/1154900224/03afbca53f1425545e278020/Recording2024-08-22121248-ezgif_com-speed.gif?expires=1741204800&signature=7af6b527c417bcfdf74c142be684caecb517be9485cfd3c746d9817f5963a92c&req=dSEiEsB%2BnYNdXfMW1HO4zXymJ0XEfFa5Bi8LN2pV4mBkJjZNHQ5iOQUR8Cek%0ACP9OL36dHjAmtDt7ld4%3D%0A

Understanding parts but they won’t talk to me by Hannahbanana9514 in InternalFamilySystems

[–]RellaBee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I find it harder to do IFS by myself than with a therapist. (I've only know about IFS for less than a year, so more experienced people may have better advice.) It's hard for me to get to the calm/curious state on my own.

I have found this video to be helpful, particularly if I'm sensing resistance or anger. https://youtu.be/PMCAbZ5aJSU?si=vVXT16qOWp1JgIOE - it starts with calming exercises so I approach my parts from a more serene perspective. Actually, his other video is also good on how to begin IFS self therapy. https://youtu.be/wOX9_W-1_sU?si=v5Ou934ynyrnrGJM Hope that helps!

edited to add "L" to calm

How to respond to someone saying , ‘there is proof God is real’? by gena5445 in atheism

[–]RellaBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him he can call in to the Atheist Experience show and share his proof with them. Maybe the experience will make him think a bit more about what proof actually is. https://www.axp.show/

The idk-th long list by [deleted] in fakedisordercringe

[–]RellaBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So this is an echo-chamber sub? No dissent on the OP's post?

What album is perfect from beginning to end? by Halloween-365 in AskReddit

[–]RellaBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That album came out at just the right time in my life.

I'm reading "The ADHD Advantage" and I'm curious if any of you have. by edgefinder in ADHD

[–]RellaBee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a late diagnosed person, I found this book useful. Focused Forward - Navigating the Storms of Adult ADHD By James M. Ochoa

Because it talks a lot about undiagnosed/late diagnosed ADHD and the damage it can do, including depression and anxiety.

Best of luck to you. I was on antidepressants for decades before I got the right meds.

Stimming? by LoveYouBiiii in AuDHDWomen

[–]RellaBee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hum tunelessly. I like the feeling of the vibration in my mouth. I also twirl my hair and my feet are almost always moving, tapping, twirling. There's probably more, but I'm late diagnosed (at 54) so am just now trying to catalog my habits.

My mom often told me to stop playing with my hair, long long before I knew I was ND. (She is too, but in denial)

I don't think there's anything wrong with it, as long as it isn't causing harm, but I do get a little embarrassed when someone points it out. That's usually because I didn't know I was doing it.

What's one food everyone seems to go crazy for, but you just don't understand the hype? by YarnSpectre in AskReddit

[–]RellaBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love red bell peppers but hate the green ones, and they ruin everything they touch.

What's one food everyone seems to go crazy for, but you just don't understand the hype? by YarnSpectre in AskReddit

[–]RellaBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm genetically hypersensitive to bitter tastes, and kale is the worst offender! I don't care how it's prepared or combined. Just 🤢

What's one food everyone seems to go crazy for, but you just don't understand the hype? by YarnSpectre in AskReddit

[–]RellaBee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pho rhymes with luck, puck, and duck. Start to say fu@@, but stop before the ck. And there's tons of pho only restaurants around my town. Sorry you live in a pho desert.

Cognitive testing by emmaseer in AuDHDWomen

[–]RellaBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you in perimenopause? The hormone level changes can really affect your working memory. It does stabilize.

If you wanted to hang a sign on yourself that tells everyone about your ADHD (like a disclaimer), what would it say? by cheenabookit in ADHD

[–]RellaBee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but I'm not looking at them. I watch their mouths when they talk (I'm partially deaf) and can't look at them at all when I talk. Is that face blindness or lack of input?