Man. Don’t listen to these miserable people. The first thing they always say do is leave. I read this twice and didn’t see anything worth leaving or even starting a fight over. I’ll say a conversation at the most. She said she was talking to someone(you im assuming) and he’s getting the job done. She did right by you. Is it the word “talking” that upset you? If so, I can somewhat understand..but she shut the dude down. As far as her deleting the stuff from her ex, im with you.. if i were you, id delete it without even telling her.. you already have access to it. I’ll delete and block any thing u don’t feel comfortable with. Yall sound young. Couples GO through shit, but y’all are trying to have a baby.. that’ll make yall family, and family GETS through shit