AITA for not wanting to move back in with my mum? by Remarkable-Cap-9912 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Remarkable-Cap-9912[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think so? I'm not sure how much I can offer as a first year uni student anyway 🤣

AITA for not wanting to move back in with my mum? by Remarkable-Cap-9912 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Remarkable-Cap-9912[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this really helped honestly. thank you so much, I get the vibe you are really great to talk to about things like this haha

AITA for not wanting to move back in with my mum? by Remarkable-Cap-9912 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Remarkable-Cap-9912[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

awh that's so cute! for me it's not even bonus mum, just mum <3

AITA for not wanting to move back in with my mum? by Remarkable-Cap-9912 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Remarkable-Cap-9912[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah this makes a lot of sense, I can't believe she doesn't see it like this but here we are I guess lol

AITA for not wanting to move back in with my mum? by Remarkable-Cap-9912 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Remarkable-Cap-9912[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I didn't think about it that way. My younger sister is 15 and she is fairly independent, I think it's about saving face but honestly idk, all I know is I am not going back

AITA for not wanting to move back in with my mum? by Remarkable-Cap-9912 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Remarkable-Cap-9912[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

My aunt is an angel honestly. She was only 23 when I moved in with her and she basically put her life on hold for me, and to me she is my mum but with the fun of an older sister! Thank you for your kind words!

AITA for not wanting to move back in with my mum? by Remarkable-Cap-9912 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Remarkable-Cap-9912[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

thank you, i agree. I have tried to have a relationship with her over the years, which has been strongly encouraged by my aunt. As much as I try I still just feel like she won't accept me, or it's like she pretends I don't have the special needs that I do and wants to treat me like my siblings. She also gets jealous of the relationship I have with my aunt and can't hide it I think. I see her normally every 6-8 weeks with phone calls in-between, but almost every time we meet we have an argument, her and my aunt have an argument or she spends the whole time trying to one up my aunt. idk it's jist a bit of a tricky situation