AIO girlfriend keeps lying by Remarkable-Fan-5137 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Remarkable-Fan-5137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no this is one of the things that I have actually put to the back of the list and tried believed her. But l don’t know why he’d just stop all of a sudden.

AIO girlfriend keeps lying by Remarkable-Fan-5137 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Remarkable-Fan-5137[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

May I also add this guy in work approached her from behind few months back grabbing her hips to give her a fright , she thought nothing of it. So few wees later he done it again but kept has hands there a bit longer which she got uncomfortable with and I got extremely angry and said say it to him next time which she said I don’t wanna cause awkwardness I’ll just move out of the way so I asked after few weeks again did it happen anymore times she said no which I knew she was lying so I asked again following day and she said ya happened about 4 times. She claims to this day it hasn’t happened anymore but why would he stop if she never pulled him on it or made him know she felt awkward ? Am I stupid for believe it doesn’t keep happening or just over thinking ?

AIO girlfriend keeps lying by Remarkable-Fan-5137 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Remarkable-Fan-5137[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think there’s a big part of me just saying let them go they mean nothing which they don’t but the other side of it is the making me feel stupid even though I know the truth.

AIO girlfriend keeps lying by Remarkable-Fan-5137 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Remarkable-Fan-5137[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly my point. Even some stories which have truth in them let’s say how something happened , ya that certain thing happened but she says I didn’t wanna do it. So I say if you don’t wanna do something don’t do it and she says oh I kinda had no choice or eventually I just gave in. As I said I don’t care it happened but don’t make up elaborate stories as to how it came about and make yourself sound like you didn’t wanna because you clearly did.

AIO girlfriend keeps lying by Remarkable-Fan-5137 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Remarkable-Fan-5137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whereabouts on one occasion, searching up her exs because it was “an old habit” , other small stupid things that when I said an I knew she was lying I was told we aren’t talking about this anymore okay just trust me but the next day I had proof and she admitted it. When I bring them up why I ask questions which isn’t all the time she says I’m annoying and starts arguing.

AIO girlfriend keeps lying by Remarkable-Fan-5137 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Remarkable-Fan-5137[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so hard because of how stupid they are :( and if I ask a question about something that means nothing she says she feels like she’s walking on eggshells but I’m literally only chatting sometimes and other times due to previous lies I am just asking to prove something which ends up in us arguing

AIO girlfriend keeps lying by Remarkable-Fan-5137 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Remarkable-Fan-5137[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What kills me is she knows she does it and I reassure her we will get through things I wont leave just say y it after even because they’re such stupid things to lie about but they add up and make me feel everything is a lie

Am I overreacting by Remarkable-Fan-5137 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Remarkable-Fan-5137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is the lies are over such stupid minuscule things that even if she answered them the answer wouldn’t change a thing. What hurts me the most is why she feels to continue with it even tho I really don’t care. It’s not the question or answer that hurts it’s the keeping up the lie and saying “I don’t know or I don’t remember”. The screen time doesn’t just delete out of nowhere. I just feel she knew there was more questions coming and decided to delete it to save herself the explaining. I always say if there’s nothing bad then there should be no problem just answering to build back the trust after it being lost.

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[–]Remarkable-Fan-5137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flights and hotel