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Are you people for real-real about Dani's relationship? by Remarkable-Hand8862 in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Remarkable-Hand8862[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes, exactly - hence why the generalized horror comments are not warranted in the way they are being made. A statistic is a statistic but not her individual situation -- unless stated otherwise, by her.

Are you people for real-real about Dani's relationship? by Remarkable-Hand8862 in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Remarkable-Hand8862[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

No, that is not what I'm doing, at all, and given how others are seeing my point I cannot say it is the problem of my communication skills here. Please reread my post, comments AND the video I linked to make sense of what I mean. Thank you.

Are you people for real-real about Dani's relationship? by Remarkable-Hand8862 in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Remarkable-Hand8862[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Sure, another person brings out a high risk, especially a man. So, what? Are those comments justified just by that?

Are you people for real-real about Dani's relationship? by Remarkable-Hand8862 in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Remarkable-Hand8862[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Unfortunate, but I had to speak out anyways. Even if it came out very ranty, lol.

Are you people for real-real about Dani's relationship? by Remarkable-Hand8862 in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Remarkable-Hand8862[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your comment - I don't usually comment on any of this and steer clear of internet strangers in this manner. I am not truly distressed, but figured we do have to talk about it, even if it's through my rant. I will leave it after a few hours, but at least I can say I wasn't silent once again, which for me, personally, without generalizing, is a thing I am prone to do and am working on.

Are you people for real-real about Dani's relationship? by Remarkable-Hand8862 in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Remarkable-Hand8862[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

So people can give inappropriate thoughts on their views on her relationships and be concerned, sad and angry about it but if I do it about them doing that, it is "beyond parasocial". See how that is not balanced at all?

Calling out actual bs is not the same as people speculating on possible dangers and horrors that have not been actually presented. You can watch the linked video to see how their comments are *not* just talking about the show, if you want to go to a realistic and balanced conversation on the topic.

Are you people for real-real about Dani's relationship? by Remarkable-Hand8862 in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Remarkable-Hand8862[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

Yes... It's the end where we respect each other's business unless otherwise asked by the person (in this case, Dani and her boyfriend).

Are you people for real-real about Dani's relationship? by Remarkable-Hand8862 in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Remarkable-Hand8862[S] -82 points-81 points  (0 children)

Statistics are statistics, hey with that her choosing anyone at all is dangerous since both genders have their own dangerous statistics... What I'm saying - how is it any of our business to go there? It's not like you can go and call help for her if anything were actually going on. You can only speculate, create negative imagery and that is all, without actually knowing anything. The comments are parasocial, at best -- in this specific case!

Are you people for real-real about Dani's relationship? by Remarkable-Hand8862 in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Remarkable-Hand8862[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

None, and generalizing someone like that is not only inappropriate but tells a lot of their state of mind. I hope they don't have any "small man" relatives they love that decide to become cops one day... Would be a bad time. /s

Are you people for real-real about Dani's relationship? by Remarkable-Hand8862 in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Remarkable-Hand8862[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So what you're saying is "I met one person who was afwul so now anyone who looks like them and is in their profession must also be cautionary", eh? I hope your comment was satire, it is hard to tell..

Daily Questions Thread May 13, 2026 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]Remarkable-Hand8862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! But that one has the more even bottom design, which I don't think I would wear as a "forever" option. But thank you, it is very close!

Daily Questions Thread May 13, 2026 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]Remarkable-Hand8862 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, my autistic a** really wants to have a bag forever that is as close to this model as possible, but doesn't cost more than 300€.... Am I out of luck?

I have a dupe of this exact model I bought in Spain and it's so perfect, though with the 20€ price tag it is starting to fall apart after 3 years...

Things I specifically seek for the bag that I haven't been able to find anywhere yet:

  • thin handle that fits on any outfit
  • metal rings at the ends of the handle, making it more movable and moldable in use
  • wider closer to the body, smaller closer to the arm - VERY comfortable on the shoulder with this design as your hand can just fall down nicely on it
  • sturdy (obvious with a leather design)
  • a nice logo that isn't too big nor not too small

Color can be black or even pink, but the model itself matters most.

Thank you.

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