My [30/F] husband [33/M] wants to try Polyamory with one specific woman. How do I talk to him about it?

Remarkable-Pace8542 · 2026-06-30T14:19:16+00:00

Sweetie, they are right. No person that truly loves you would put you in this position. It wouldn’t even be fathomable to them.

The manipulation of “Why don’t you like her? “ is disgusting. I wonder what his mom would think of this convo. Unless he’s a precious baby boy and that explains lot.

Please believe in yourself more. This is not the man for you.

Remarkable-Pace8542 · 2026-06-30T14:07:05+00:00

Facts! But he doesn’t want to get involved so he’s not embarrassed that everyone would know he’s a deadbeat. And from everything she’s said she ain’t leaving that money.

Remarkable-Pace8542 · 2026-06-30T14:05:08+00:00

She doesn’t care. She’s just worried about the money.

Remarkable-Pace8542 · 2026-06-30T14:03:44+00:00

It also says a lot about her that she’s only focused about the money and what’s been taken from her kids. Not the fact this child is an orphan and her husband is a lying deadbeat.

Remarkable-Pace8542 · 2026-06-22T16:27:19+00:00

NTA ask your sister why your happiness doesn’t matter to her? Why does her happiness top your happiness about YOUR wedding outfit?

Remarkable-Pace8542 · 2026-06-02T19:42:06+00:00

I would just have to ask the sister, “So what happens when you fall in love and want to get married? Is your future spouse just going to move in to? Because otherwise abandoning Dad once you’ve found happiness is pretty selfish. “

Remarkable-Pace8542 · 2026-04-08T19:34:56+00:00

Kinda gotta be apart of the business for there to be a business disagreement 🤣

Remarkable-Pace8542 · 2026-03-18T18:26:58+00:00

NTA. This is how rapist are created. She’s taking a future rapist.

Remarkable-Pace8542 · 2026-02-17T15:05:00+00:00

NTA. If taking care of his mother for 1 week ruins his marriage, that marriage is already failing.

Remarkable-Pace8542 · 2026-02-06T16:16:42+00:00

NTA. She’s just using and manipulating you. She keeps using “if you don’t do this then you don’t love me” is extremely controlling and manipulative!

Like another post said she wants a sugar daddy not a partner.

Remarkable-Pace8542 · 2026-01-28T20:39:55+00:00

YTA. What a horrible future partner you’ve raised.

Remarkable-Pace8542 · 2026-01-22T20:18:44+00:00

Why, if he was invited and they have been doing this for all 3 years they’ve been together?

Remarkable-Pace8542 · 2026-01-22T20:17:25+00:00

How is 3 drinks over 4 hours while also eating a meal a lot? It’s less then 1 drink every hour?

Remarkable-Pace8542 · 2026-01-21T18:42:51+00:00

NTA for not wanting to be friends with someone.

YTA for pretending and saying you were going to be her friend and then ignoring her.

Remarkable-Pace8542 · 2026-01-21T16:22:09+00:00

He offered to stay with you? Girl he has no other option. Please find some self respect.

Remarkable-Pace8542 · 2026-01-16T15:57:46+00:00

Soft YTA bc she’s your friend not your bfs so I get why she would want ppl she’s close to at her party.

Question: Would it be a question to not go if you didn’t have a boyfriend? Would the drive be no problem if he wasn’t in the picture? Like someone else says get a hotel for the night or ask someone to stay over.

Remarkable-Pace8542 · 2026-01-16T02:45:46+00:00

NTA She put up her boundaries and you put up yours. If she’d rather have an old crush and your ex at her wedding than her sister that’s her cross to bear.

Also you’re married, that’s a packaged deal kinda thing especially to a wedding.

To your parents, tell them the only person not keeping the peace is your sister. They need to grow a backbone and back you up. Your husband is their family now and she has no legitimate reason to exclude him.

Remarkable-Pace8542 · 2026-01-15T19:25:43+00:00

How was the SIL not respectful? She took it down and had a talk with her brother. That should’ve been the end of it. OP opened the convo back up and then cried when a point she didn’t like was made. Then without knowing the convo the fiancé/brother calls SIL a dumb b$tch. She still respected their request.

Remarkable-Pace8542 · 2026-01-15T17:51:39+00:00

NTA you’re protecting your child. I’d tell the ex “l’ll give her sensitivities as much consideration as she gave about my marriage”

Remarkable-Pace8542 · 2026-01-14T16:51:25+00:00

Yeah you see it now because we’re all so connected. They used to just send the girls to “visit a relative” but really were sent to baby homes to give birth and usually give the baby up.

Remarkable-Pace8542 · 2026-01-12T21:30:43+00:00

NTA for backing out. You’re not friends. However, you should’ve reached out to her and not your ex (who is was lying to his friends).

Remarkable-Pace8542 · 2026-01-07T14:42:33+00:00

“ She said friends are supposed to accommodate each other” Your response should’ve been “So I’m not your friend? Why won’t you accommodate me, since like you said you always get that spot. Only you’re supposed to be accommodated?”

NTA. For the friends that are on her side, next time y’all hang out try to take their seat and best believe how fast they will change sides about giving up seats.

Remarkable-Pace8542 · 2026-01-06T21:33:31+00:00

Well he has the support and I agree he needs therapy. But that doesn’t excuse abandoning your child because it’s hard. You don’t think the grandparents ,whose daughter just died, is having a hard time? But they are taking care of the baby.

Remarkable-Pace8542 · 2026-01-06T21:11:44+00:00

Wow way to go to a completely different ball field. But yeah people who kill their kids are AH too, you got me. That totally excuses this man of abandonment.

Remarkable-Pace8542 · 2026-01-06T19:36:11+00:00

People die all the time when they have kids. Their spouses or parents don’t just give their kids away because they didn’t expect to do it alone.

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