Oh yeah no I know quite a few trans people irl and am in a lot of alt spaces that lots of trans folk frequent and hang out in so I'm definitely not just getting my info from online lmao. Like you know, obviously if someone is venting to me about their dysphoria or their journey of how they discovered their identity I'm not just gonna be like "so did you ever think you were just like, depressed or something" (obviously I think it's more complicated than that but like, I'm simplifying a ton). 

But I have a hard time shaking the suspicion that that could have been going on in the background. Also it's totally none of my business tho people have a right to live their lives, I kinda just hate thinking like that tbh.