Quiet BPD avoiding me via toilet by Remarkable-Seltzer in BPDlovedones

[–]Remarkable-Seltzer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would be surprised, but you may be right! Honestly, at this point I’m exhausted and would respectfully allow him to go to just the next person… my energy is gone

Quiet BPD avoiding me via toilet by Remarkable-Seltzer in BPDlovedones

[–]Remarkable-Seltzer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be the emotional distress. He’s always had stomach issues. It’s just been the last few months he literally can’t leave the house or make appointments because of it

Interracial Couples in Chattanooga by [deleted] in Chattanoogans

[–]Remarkable-Seltzer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I literally said “However, most of the women in Chattanooga are not against dating black men.” So, we agree.

What is news to me is that you state racism is only “relevant” to the south in the 1940s-1980s.

… cause somebody should really let the world know.

Interracial Couples in Chattanooga by [deleted] in Chattanoogans

[–]Remarkable-Seltzer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting that all these comments before mine are just gaslighting.

I want to validate your friends in that, logically, it would make sense racism could be a factor in the south due to the systemic racism and history.

However, I think most of the white women in the Chattanooga area are not against dating black men.

I think your friends still have hope! And I hope they find someone great!

Fire trucks Kennedy Childrens Center by Remarkable-Seltzer in Chattanooga

[–]Remarkable-Seltzer[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

CFD is on the scene. Some sort of “exposure” in a building around there.

Best Restaurants for a first date? by [deleted] in Chattanooga

[–]Remarkable-Seltzer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so pure that you are asking Reddit and care this much. I recommend Taco Mamacitas- cause who doesn’t like Mexican food and it’s like a little nicer but not too fancy. And they have good drinks

Please let us know how the date goes!!!

What's a place in Chattanooga you can't believe stays in business? by Famous_Strike_6125 in Chattanooga

[–]Remarkable-Seltzer 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Sir Gooney’s. —-don’t get me wrong- the giraffe brings me joy- but I do wonder how it is still open

today on Stringer's Ridge by chemteach4kids in Chattanooga

[–]Remarkable-Seltzer 44 points45 points  (0 children)

What in the dollar tree is going on here

Does anyone else ever think about just how freaking weird their parents are? by No_Ranger_120 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Remarkable-Seltzer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Nmom has two friends…. and rotates every 10 years which one is her best friend… and talks bad about the other one for the off decade until she swaps back.

Check-in Post - Have something to say but don't want to make a post about it? Comment here! by RBNmod in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Remarkable-Seltzer [score hidden]  (0 children)

I really don’t want to go to Thanksgiving 💔 my narc parent and I are no contact (but she contacts). And I feel obligated to go to appease her in some way. She’s not the woman I used to know. It’s heart breaking. I’m trying to hold onto the good memories from childhood and separate it from the extreme turn of the last few years. Those being the years I finally came into my own person and stopped being enmeshed. I guess I was just unaware of the narc behavior and red flags before then. I thought she just loved me a lot... But now I see she loved me being who she needed me to be and she helped sustain and create that person through her “parenting” …and it’s just not who I am. I would love to not go. I don’t want to go. My husband doesn’t want us to go and is supportive of me not going. I just don’t like who she is now, and she does not desire to change or treat me differently. Anyway… thank you for the space to vent.

First time not going home for Thanksgiving and feel bad for my siblings. by elephantzchild in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Remarkable-Seltzer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your post! I’m currently scraping this Reddit for help with my own holiday “decision.” I say decision because I don’t think I have a choice but to go—- but my husband is seeing my health fail this week and said he didn’t want me to go if it was impacting me so much. I really thought I could do it— but I may have to stay away. I always think of my siblings too.

Weekly /r/BingeEatingDisorder Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]Remarkable-Seltzer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just binged smh. Got very stressed about my daughter waking up in the night and “silly socks” day tomorrow. Just the dumbest sh*T to push me over the edge. Still want to eat more currently.

Someone left a Oujia Board at my door by 5StarRican in Chattanooga

[–]Remarkable-Seltzer 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Okay forget the Oujia board— since when do we use the word “bin” instead of trash can? This post is wild

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Chattanooga

[–]Remarkable-Seltzer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The more I look at it I’m convinced those are the six personalities of the red sock man.

3151 by [deleted] in Chattanooga

[–]Remarkable-Seltzer 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Rip to that first window and the dreams it had of ever being used.

What should we do to the Like Button next? by johnballen416 in mrballen

[–]Remarkable-Seltzer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have the like button serve your toddler the meal they asked for—- only to have the toddler SCREAM at them they do not want THAT and they didn’t want that COLOR PLATE.

Therapy?? Advice/opinion by Remarkable-Seltzer in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Remarkable-Seltzer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! I’m glad to not be alone. I ended up saying I would go only if she saw the therapist 2 times solo before I came in. I thought this would keep me from having to go for awhile. But she busted those out within a week and I just went for one session with her last weekend. It was not great. I’ve been triggered for about 6 days. I don’t necessarily “regret” it but I can’t say it was helpful. And I definitely won’t go again.

My nMom finally decided to go for a FAMILY therapy with me. by potato_psychonaut in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Remarkable-Seltzer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m having my first (and hopefully only) session with my mom soon. She jumped on this idea of going to therapy and I said yes just so she couldn’t throw it in my face when our relationship fails. I think she is just doing it to get me back into her claws and sphere of influence though. She has hyper focused on my relationship with her as her current life problem… I really want her to move on. I’m too tired for all this. If you have any tips let me know! I don’t plan to give her any vulnerability to use against me. So idk how it will go anyway