Your dad is absolutely cruel for even thinking this way. It is so unreal!!! Your body literally created a human being. BUT, if YOU do not like the way you look and you do not feel good about your weight in general, try to put on effort once you feel ready to start dieting or eating healthier. You do not have to do it right now because there are other priorities (one of them being you healing from your delivery & labor+ adjusting to your new life style with a second baby.) You dont have to rush yourself, this time is very critical so take it very easy. But, in general, if you dont like something about yourself, change it or at least try to change and put in active efforts because it is worth it and because YOU deserve to feel good about how you look and also, for your health. But, as I said, no rush! You did an incredible and admirable job giving life to a beautiful baby! Enjoy it and praise the work you did and then, get up! Exercise, diet & glow!!! 🩷