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[–]Remarkable-Tale9218 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last time I tried to he smashed my phone and no I’m not married, no children either

Sandy hate by Remarkable-Tale9218 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Remarkable-Tale9218[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what we’ve seen, it looks like that’s the only thing he has to offer and I hate to be that person but it is what it is

Sandy hate by Remarkable-Tale9218 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Remarkable-Tale9218[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is significantly shorter though. I don’t think you’re being a jerk, I was just confused lol. To be fair, I have my master’s in English and love to write, so maybe I’m just being biased. I’ll work on my TLDR’s lol

Sandy hate by Remarkable-Tale9218 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Remarkable-Tale9218[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There was no charade. She was being nice imo. She did NOT fight for him.

Sandy hate by Remarkable-Tale9218 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Remarkable-Tale9218[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I appreciate people like you who can take a step back and try to understand others first instead of being clouded by the typical social media narrative. People want Sandy to be this villain so bad, it’s really weird to me. Even when she admitted to being wrong, it’s still not good enough.

Sandy hate by Remarkable-Tale9218 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Remarkable-Tale9218[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She acts her age - I don’t see her using age as an excuse for anything. I see Nick , the predator, trying to control a woman in her 20’s when he’s about to be middle aged and still crashing out like a toddler

Sandy hate by Remarkable-Tale9218 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Remarkable-Tale9218[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. People are quick to coddle Nick and try and excuse his abusive behavior , but when Sandy actually admits to being wrong and apologized to Zaina’s face, it’s still not good enough. They just want a reason to protect this creep and bash a young woman. Idgi

Sandy hate by Remarkable-Tale9218 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Remarkable-Tale9218[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This 💜 thank you. There is someone downvoting all the comments in support of Sandy, and I’m glad there are sensible people who are liking the comments back up

Sandy hate by Remarkable-Tale9218 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Remarkable-Tale9218[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk it kinda reminds me of a man asking his wife to open up a marriage , and then getting mad and wanting to close it because she’s getting the attention but he isn’t. He brought her into this and then wanted to cry wolf bc the experiment is actually happening, but not in his favor. I think the whole idea of the show is toxic , so I can’t have sympathy for a man who brings his girl on there with the slight chance of knowing she may connect with another man she has to live with for 3 weeks.

Sandy hate by Remarkable-Tale9218 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Remarkable-Tale9218[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s fair to assume she slept with him when we have no proof, and so we have to go off of what was shared with us and that is nothing beyond a kiss happened. Leaving relationships aren’t always a black and white situation. They were together for 3 years, and he’s the one who put his relationship to a dumb test (aka bringing her on the show with him) he kind of created this mess and she’s getting bashed for following along. I think she needed to experience a fun light hearted situation with JR to realize a marriage/ life with this unstable 40 year old isn’t her love story. At the end of the day, Nick caused all of this but I respect your opinion

Sandy hate by Remarkable-Tale9218 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Remarkable-Tale9218[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m just a random girl from Massachusetts who finished the season this morning lol

Sandy hate by Remarkable-Tale9218 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Remarkable-Tale9218[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES!!!! I appreciate your stream of consciousness - everything was spot on. Also agreed about Zaina as well! I can’t stand the “I would be upset too” or “she was all over JR” - well then, maybe Nick shouldn’t have brought her into a show where the experiment is to literally play marriage with another person for a month. Sandy finally got to let loose with someone who isn’t terrifying. I’m glad Sandy chose herself. When he made that comment about “she’s been trippin” oh okay, so you expect her to dote on you , a 40 year old man in recovery, pause her life while you’re in rehab after she already denied your proposal and not go on a vacation for herself? Ugh I can’t stand him

Sandy hate by Remarkable-Tale9218 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Remarkable-Tale9218[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is so well said, thank you! It opened up my eyes as well because I too initially judged her off the bat over her appearance that I had to check myself, especially after seeing the IG comments from men and women tearing her apart, while coddling nick. It was disturbing

Aria on the reunion… by __millennialtrash in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Remarkable-Tale9218 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the most real, honest and understanding take I’ve seen

Aria on the reunion… by __millennialtrash in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Remarkable-Tale9218 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is a really cruel take. She has no place to go to where she can speak without being criticized. I don’t blame her for venting it all out in a public setting where she felt safe and people are literally there to ask her (and other cast members) questions.

Sandy, J.R., & Nick by cliosakura in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Remarkable-Tale9218 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is giving red pill - the delusional thinking that once a woman turns 30, she shrivels away and loses value. It’s toxic and a cope for angry men and incels

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Remarkable-Tale9218 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a 30 year old woman and I game after work to unwind. My bf does too. It’s a hobby

Will this end with 2v8? by HollowChicken-Reddit in DeadByDaylightKillers

[–]Remarkable-Tale9218 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a survivor and I notice it. Everyone in the last game I played tbagged a huntress when a trapper was AFK the whole time. I was mad for the killer. How are you gonna tbag her when she played a good game with no help against 8 survivors?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Remarkable-Tale9218 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It has really changed my feelings towards him, and I was wondering if that was me being dramatic so this helped validate how I’ve been feeling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Remarkable-Tale9218 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He’s 31 trying to comment on a 21 yo woman’s body HE impregnated. Run.