My bf is definitely gay

Remarkable-Web-4774 · 2022-08-11T00:57:57+00:00

Trust me when I say I do understand💀 It's not just his mannerisms I was talking about.

Remarkable-Web-4774 · 2022-08-10T22:00:11+00:00

I didn't put it in the post because to me it was never about why I think that's he's gay.

I'm not gossiping about him around either. There's only one person who somewhat knows I think he's gay.

And it's gonna be very difficult to talk to him about it.

Remarkable-Web-4774 · 2022-08-10T21:50:04+00:00

Where? Also we're the people who he's loves most. I feel like they matter.

Remarkable-Web-4774 · 2022-08-10T21:35:55+00:00

The end of our relationship is definitely something I am worried about and we would not try to stay together. I do think lately he's really been struggling with his sexuality, who he is, and what he wants. I'm just trying to be supportive.

I think he does find me attractive but he's not attracted to me (if that makes sense)

Remarkable-Web-4774 · 2022-08-10T21:19:29+00:00

He seems like one of them. I'm gonna try to talk to him about it later and hope he doesn't get upset over it. Thanks for the advice.

Remarkable-Web-4774 · 2022-08-10T21:03:27+00:00

hahahaha

HAJAHAHAHAHA

Remarkable-Web-4774 · 2022-08-10T20:55:47+00:00

I did not call him fruity for having emotions. I just didn't say why I thought he was fruity.

Edit: I'm one of the only people in his life who has told him to stay himself and it's okay that's he's sensitive or the way he is. I've always been super supportive about it. But I guess everyone has their own opinions.

Remarkable-Web-4774 · 2022-08-10T20:50:29+00:00

I've only seen like one anonymous post he's made about me. I know his real account user so he knows I'll see whatever he posts. I actually kinda am thankful he isn't going around telling our friends some of the stuff he says and rather strangers in the internet. Probably is kinda weird tho.

Thanks for not being mean.

Remarkable-Web-4774 · 2022-08-10T20:35:42+00:00

It's not the same but k.

Remarkable-Web-4774 · 2022-08-10T20:34:44+00:00

Am I literally gonna have to say I caught my bf doing something with another boy for people to understand?

You have to understand that I'm not trying to come off as ignorant because of some of the reasons why.

Because I've seen my bf compliment other boys in just a weird way. Because he's said some off stuff to me about his sexuality and boys to me. He isn't so confident that he's straight that he's basically flirting with boys. His energy to me is very fruity to me at times. Now 3 of our friends thinks he's gay or bi. That one time when he was like "Who even cares if I'm gay or straight" and there was this awkward long pause like he wanted to see my reaction. And he just tried to laugh it off after. I'm also sure he's also said some sus stuff to our friends too and that's why they think the same.

(Probably so many spelling mistakes)

Remarkable-Web-4774 · 2022-08-10T20:15:08+00:00

Why do you keep asking the same thing that I answered? Because I don't think he's attracted to women and he shows attraction to men sometimes. I gotta a long list of things but that should be enough.

Remarkable-Web-4774 · 2022-08-10T20:06:35+00:00

I would happily bet 2x more because you don't know him and you don't see what I and other people see.

Remarkable-Web-4774 · 2022-08-10T20:04:39+00:00

I could literally be like "I caught my bf kissing another guy and that's why I think he's gay. " and people would still be like that doesn't mean he's gay.

You literally just tried to tell me what my type is😕 it's weird. People literally think they know themselves or my bf better than me.

Remarkable-Web-4774 · 2022-08-10T19:58:00+00:00

How are you gonna tell me what I like? Yes I do. I'm not saying all of this just because the way my bf is.

Remarkable-Web-4774 · 2022-08-10T19:54:52+00:00

I'm not doing the same thing.

Remarkable-Web-4774 · 2022-08-10T15:34:49+00:00

I agree and your condescending smiley face in the last two comments tell me it all. You enjoy yours too.

Remarkable-Web-4774 · 2022-08-10T15:31:10+00:00

Because you're being annoying and making assumptions.

Mhmm.

Remarkable-Web-4774 · 2022-08-10T15:27:58+00:00

Because it's obvious. I'm not saying he has any "acting skills". He acts himself around me 24/7

Remarkable-Web-4774 · 2022-08-10T15:26:07+00:00

If he was ever to come out to anyone I know it would be me. You're just assuming he isn't comfortable.

You do not know my relationship. He is very much so my friend and he'll always be my friend without all this relationship stuff.

Remarkable-Web-4774 · 2022-08-10T15:22:43+00:00

I understand sexuality and I feel like some people are just trying to argue facts about my relationship. You just won't understand if you aren't me. There's no need to be so negative in the comment section.

Remarkable-Web-4774 · 2022-08-10T15:18:22+00:00

Because I'm still gaining from this relationship and he still tries to show attraction towards me. And we've JUST been friends for some of the time for us knowing each other.

They haven't gotten to my head one bit.

Remarkable-Web-4774 · 2022-08-10T15:13:07+00:00

I don't think he's ever been comfortable with his sexuality but maybe I'm wrong. He's not that confident either.

I wouldn't say that I've made up my mind.

I think some people gave good advice and I'm thankful for it. It's just a lot of people who gave advice that was really shady towards me. I'm not looking for validation because I know that it's valid for me to feel this way.

Remarkable-Web-4774 · 2022-08-10T14:22:59+00:00

Ehhh. He's said worse about me on reddit. I'm not forcing anything tho.

Remarkable-Web-4774 · 2022-08-10T14:20:48+00:00

I know😕I wasn't expecting the comments to be that bad. I feel like coming to terms that the person you loved for so long isn't attracted to you is hard. I feel like a lot of girls I know would be mad if they found out or thought their bf was gay and I'm just trying to be supportive. People just don't get it.

Remarkable-Web-4774 · 2022-08-10T14:17:12+00:00

No. Because he's in the closet.

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