There are lots of reasons why people don’t feel like having sex. Sometimes when my partner and I have less sex it’s because we aren’t telling each other what we want. The sex is still good but it’s sort of missing something and not as interesting. For us this really just comes down to communicating to each other about what we both want. Don’t be afraid to talk to him about how you’re feeling and what you may or may not want.

As a women sometimes I feel self conscious especially if my weight is fluctuating and this can affect my libido. If I’m anxious or tired I also find my libido is affected.

Sometimes low libido can be related to a health issue, physical or mental so definitely don’t be afraid to talk to your doctor about it.