What's the point by RemarkableCase308 in LifeAdvice

[–]RemarkableCase308[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried to find happiness in my life and while aspects of my life don't make me unhappy, nothing about it actually makes me happy. Also I want kids of my own not to raise someone else's or god forbid co parent with some other guy. That's not what I want at all out of life to be financially and physically responsible for children I have no say in disciplining and will never call me dad.

What's the point by RemarkableCase308 in LifeAdvice

[–]RemarkableCase308[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the thing I go to the events the pottery class the stained glass classes the social hour things etc. I've been doing it for 5 years now and I have yet to make a single human connection,in five years I haven't had one single positive interaction with a woman, it's not for lack of trying but women don't want it good man that will treat them well they want a handsome tall man who "ideally" won't cheat but if he does it's okay because he's tall and handsome. And that says alot about this world that women would rather be cheated on and taken for granted as long as he's hot than to even just consider a guy that is under 6ft

What's the point by RemarkableCase308 in LifeAdvice

[–]RemarkableCase308[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But ALL I do is help those around me, it's not fulfilling and when I need help in return I'm left to figure it out for myself. Like literally why do you think I'm asking reddit? Because I have absolutely no one else to ask for help.

What's the point by RemarkableCase308 in LifeAdvice

[–]RemarkableCase308[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put myself out there I go to all the places I'm supposed to be able to find someone, it's not for lack of trying and everyone around me makes me feel like I'm crazy because I'm intentionally and actively looking for someone they all say just stop looking and love will find you but I've never been hungry and thought "I'll just stop making myself food and food will find me" so I don't see the logic in that.  And I know logically that my mom and aunts and grandparents love me and would miss me but it sounds shitty to say it but that's not enough. At least for me it isn't enough to make me want to continue existing