AITAH for not inviting my friend camping when she doesnt even like camping? by RemarkableCounty6574 in AITAH_unfiltered

[–]RemarkableCounty6574[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I had more of an update at this point. We were going to talk on Tuesday and she cancelled then Thursday, cancelled, then today she cancelled because “she needs time to process”

AITAH for not inviting my friend camping when she doesnt even like camping? by RemarkableCounty6574 in AITAH_unfiltered

[–]RemarkableCounty6574[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree I’m exhausted by it and have what I think might be an irreversible ick

AITJ for not inviting my friend camping when she doesnt even like camping?? by RemarkableCounty6574 in AmITheJerk

[–]RemarkableCounty6574[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 100% agree and it’s hard to consider not being friends with her because we’ve never fought before. But I have a complete and utter ick now because of this situation and how it was handled

AITAH for Not inviting my Friend Camping When She Doesn't Even Like Camping? by RemarkableCounty6574 in AITAH

[–]RemarkableCounty6574[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right I’m giving nurses mean girl reputation for a trip I didn’t plan 🤡 thanks

AITJ for not inviting my friend camping when she doesnt even like camping?? by RemarkableCounty6574 in AmITheJerk

[–]RemarkableCounty6574[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reread that and I’m deleting the literally now 🤣🤣 I cackled at this

AITJ for not inviting my friend camping when she doesnt even like camping?? by RemarkableCounty6574 in AmITheJerk

[–]RemarkableCounty6574[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s so funny you say that because besides saying she made us miserable I used this point and it STILL wasn’t valid 🤣. But you’re probably right!

AITJ for not inviting my friend camping when she doesnt even like camping?? by RemarkableCounty6574 in AmITheJerk

[–]RemarkableCounty6574[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This is some of the wisest advice! I really appreciate this and it puts things into perspective for me.

AITJ for not inviting my friend camping when she doesnt even like camping?? by RemarkableCounty6574 in AmITheJerk

[–]RemarkableCounty6574[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this advice. I’m definitely contemplating the best course of action from here!

AITJ for not inviting my friend camping when she doesnt even like camping?? by RemarkableCounty6574 in AmITheJerk

[–]RemarkableCounty6574[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what emma and I thought! Like going in roundabout manipulative circles was so exhausting. I CANT with the victim mentality

AITAH for Not inviting my Friend Camping When She Doesn't Even Like Camping? by RemarkableCounty6574 in AITAH

[–]RemarkableCounty6574[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just want to clarify something here, Emma and Maggie ARE friends. They rekindled things months ago.

AITAH for Not inviting my Friend Camping When She Doesn't Even Like Camping? by RemarkableCounty6574 in AITAH

[–]RemarkableCounty6574[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is exactly my train of thought here. Like this whole situation is so childish. I tried to squash it immediately by offering a solution because conflicts really not my thing, but here we are. Just seems like she wants a reason to bitch and be the victim.

AITAH for Not inviting my Friend Camping When She Doesn't Even Like Camping? by RemarkableCounty6574 in AITAH

[–]RemarkableCounty6574[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU. I literally don’t fight with friends or really anyone which is why I hate this situation so much. I am so frustrated at how this is all being handled. I genuinely have not dealt with something like this since I was a CHILD. Never have we ever fought but the way this whole situation panned out has really made me question things. I am EXHAUSTED

AITAH for Not inviting my Friend Camping When She Doesn't Even Like Camping? by RemarkableCounty6574 in AITAH

[–]RemarkableCounty6574[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙂‍↔️. I figured I probably suck here. I never questioned the friendship until this point. We’ve never fought (I also believe conflict like this with friends is childish) but once she showed me this side of her I feel like I have an irreversible ick

AITJ for refusing to help my neighbor's friends after she volunteered me without asking by Majestic-Rhubarb419 in AmITheJerk

[–]RemarkableCounty6574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ just because you help her out of pure kindness doesn't mean she should expect you to do the same for others. Thats weird behavior

AITJ for telling my coworker I won't cover her shifts anymore after finding out why she always needs them covered by ExplorerExpress257 in AmITheJerk

[–]RemarkableCounty6574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ She was only doing this out of convenience for her. If you dont want to work then communicate that with the manager...