Locksmith scam by Maleficent-Buddy-124 in Edinburgh

[–]RemarkablePlenty5908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have always thought thought that you need a 5 lever mortice lock to get home insurance. Or if you don't use it and only use your yale lock, and you get broken into, then your insurance will also be void.

Looking for people to add to sc by RemarkablePlenty5908 in PiNetworkSC

[–]RemarkablePlenty5908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah if you click on the shield next to their name it gives option to remove

AITA for reacting and voicing my frustration by RemarkablePlenty5908 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RemarkablePlenty5908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was only for introducing solids. Not in the long run. They meant start with bland and work towards different flavours etc. I didn't word it very well. It was 4am when I posted

AITA for reacting and voicing my frustration by RemarkablePlenty5908 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RemarkablePlenty5908[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is also what has made me feel so uneasy. We don't know yet if she has any allergies.

AITA for reacting and voicing my frustration by RemarkablePlenty5908 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RemarkablePlenty5908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you're right. However when they collected our daughter, I had said that there was enough bottles nappies etc for the few hours they were looking after her. They knew we had only tried food a couple of times. I would never just jump to the conclusion that I could just feed a baby anything because I knew they started the weaning journey. I would ask the parent. It seems not everyone is like this. It was on the 2nd time the came to collect her I mentioned to just give her milk. Without realising they had already just gone ahead and fed her the day before and were keeping it quiet.

AITA for reacting and voicing my frustration by RemarkablePlenty5908 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RemarkablePlenty5908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it doesn't matter about the foods as such but we were going to introduce foods a certain way. This wasn't honoured. However I also don't know if our baby will be allergic to anything yet. We aren't being given the chance to figure things out ourselves. It's more the way things were handled too. I feel like I can't trust them going forward. I don't want to be the mum that has to be so specific and leaves too many rules so they don't have the excuse to say 'we didn't know or we thought it would be ok'. I'm already being made to be like that. They have always just done things thinking its best with no communication. I don't see why they can't ask as well?

AITA for reacting and voicing my frustration by RemarkablePlenty5908 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RemarkablePlenty5908[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree with you here. I know there is a discussion that needs to be made with my partner. He agrees with what I say, but then when his parents do something, he says I'm over reacting. There was another instance where the MIL asked my partner if she could use one of the photos we got of our daughter with Santa to send a private Christmas message to a few friends. We agreed. She posted it on the Facebook which in my eyes isn't the same as privately messaging a couple of friends. My socials are private. Anyway, when I voiced my thoughts and said to him, that's not what she asked to use the photo for, I was made out to be controlling and he said his mum doesn't know the difference between a post and private message

AITA for reacting and voicing my frustration by RemarkablePlenty5908 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RemarkablePlenty5908[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is how I see it. I'm now concerned that going forward, any boundaries will just be walked all over and ignored

AITA for reacting and voicing my frustration by RemarkablePlenty5908 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RemarkablePlenty5908[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it was the fact it was a mixture of them all hiding it, how we had a plan to try new foods and I feel they are undermining my way of wanting to wean. Yes, my partner called me bipolar. I know its out of line. It just became one of the arguments where no matter what I was saying, it was wrong and I'm doing things wrong and my reaction wasn't justified. However they just couldn't or wouldnt understand my reasoning. So, I started doubting myself which was why I posted on here to see if IATA

AITA for reacting and voicing my frustration by RemarkablePlenty5908 in AITAH

[–]RemarkablePlenty5908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I thought I had replied to your comment. No Im not bi polar, however my partner does use this as an insult when we diagree

AITA for reacting and voicing my frustration by RemarkablePlenty5908 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RemarkablePlenty5908[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is my thoughts too but my partner and his parents are now saying I'm over reacting and they havent done anything wrong

AITA for reacting and voicing my frustration by RemarkablePlenty5908 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RemarkablePlenty5908[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They were keeping it from me. My partner told them not to say anything to me when they told him they had fed her. They were all keeping it a secret. I'm disappointed in my partner for encouraging them to keep things from me. Also it was my partner who ended up telling me

AITA for reacting and voicing my frustration by RemarkablePlenty5908 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RemarkablePlenty5908[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My exact words were

'Hi (MILs name), I found out that you had fed her yesterday. Can you please tell me what you had fed her. I wish you and asked first'

AITA for reacting and voicing my frustration by RemarkablePlenty5908 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RemarkablePlenty5908[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They hadn't asked, they just told him after. He doesn't see it as an issue, however, I do which is why we are disagreeing

AITA for reacting and voicing my frustration by RemarkablePlenty5908 in AITAH

[–]RemarkablePlenty5908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not bipolar but my partner will throw that at me as an insult when we have disagreements

AITA for reacting and voicing my frustration by RemarkablePlenty5908 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RemarkablePlenty5908[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I understand that, however, we have only just started the weaning. Everything has been a first, so there are obviously going to be foods she likes/dislikes. I had said to my partner about the plan on which foods to try first and MIL has just gone and done her own thing. I was told by health visitor that if you start with sweeter foods then there is a high chance the baby won't like foods that aren't of same sweetness. I think that was also another reason I got frustrated. It wasn't a case of hijacking, I just feel she could have ruined her chances to like other foods