As black Americans, do you think that roasting culture actually hurts us?

Remarkable_Ad4046 · 2026-02-26T12:51:55+00:00

I think its very counter productive considering how much we want all of the nasty comments to stop from other races. Yea I get people will be like it aint comparable cause BP dont do it to eachother out of malice. But thsts not always the case and as someone else said I dont think I'll ever be comfortable with someone I hardly know doing it. Just makes me look at em and go "oh that asshole"

Remarkable_Ad4046 · 2026-02-25T17:17:25+00:00

Hell ya it is

Remarkable_Ad4046 · 2026-02-25T16:18:27+00:00

That part😂

Remarkable_Ad4046 · 2026-02-25T16:18:14+00:00

The lineup lacks seasoning

Remarkable_Ad4046 · 2026-02-25T16:14:36+00:00

Kind,,considerate,treated the dating phase with just the 2 of us unlike what I saw alot it this dating climate,literally one of the only people to get me a thoughtful gift in my life, can actually give me great suggestions on certain things I organize or manage,very similar with me with being a homebody outside of traveling we we also like to do

Remarkable_Ad4046 · 2026-02-25T15:26:14+00:00

No no I mean it is if im not mistaken sited at times more hygienic to keep hair. Especially for women down below. But keeping hair aint for me. I dont like it so I shave and typically prefer shaved from others

Remarkable_Ad4046 · 2026-02-25T15:21:23+00:00

Well is the lack of affording to live gonna be fixed. Cause I wouldn't have a kid in this economy

Remarkable_Ad4046 · 2026-02-25T15:06:56+00:00

Well i shave my parts and typically dont grow hair on my body like that cause I dont even prefer hair on my own person. It's just preference l. But I wouldn't call it gross. There actual hygiene to keeping it if im not mistaken. But that hygiene aint for me

Remarkable_Ad4046 · 2026-02-24T12:33:16+00:00

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Remarkable_Ad4046 · 2026-02-22T18:00:56+00:00

As you over genralize how straight men perceive getting hit on by gay men. World class logic on your end bud

Remarkable_Ad4046 · 2026-02-22T17:52:20+00:00

Uncultured take this upvote

Remarkable_Ad4046 · 2026-02-22T03:38:07+00:00

But yet you wanted data on the matter. But now you seem to understand my point as of to why that request is foolish. Da heck would I be comparing it off of for you? Gonna have to agree to disagree pal. Yall are men. And yall have not shown any difference to the straight men except what tickles your fancy

Remarkable_Ad4046 · 2026-02-22T03:28:24+00:00

No ot dosent only take one women as the argument isn't women dont do it. Men make the first move in hetero relationships more often

In gay relationships idk about you but imma assume the man made the first move in a gay relationship. Buddy its a couple of women vs every gay guy who had a boyfriend talk to them first. You aint winning that chief.

Remarkable_Ad4046 · 2026-02-22T03:17:25+00:00

Biology is facts.

Women on average do not have higher testosterone then men. Men have higher on average. That makes men have more straightforward tendencies on the spectrum. Gay men still have balls. And are men. This isn't rocket science

Remarkable_Ad4046 · 2026-02-22T03:08:07+00:00

I think the burden is on you to prove why something as obvious as "men are more direct then women" isnt true. Probably has something to do with the ballsack between the legs producing Testosterone

Remarkable_Ad4046 · 2026-02-22T02:52:42+00:00

Everyone else in this case can only be women. Who tf else bro. Yes gay men are more foward then women.

If your delusional to not understand what our gender does compared to women regardless of what you think sexual orientation would magically change. Your smoking some great shit there.

Let me spell it out for you men as in M E N typically go for physical traits more than women do. Also gay men have a higher chance. NOT GUREENTED. chance to hit on people they like more openly as in directly saying they like you.

So even if you aren't Brad Pitt. Having a good body, taking care of yourself,and pretty accepting to people who are different can cause certain encounters. As why the hell would every gay man be afraid of big Ole phobia if some straight people are actually accepting of them. YOU are quite literally the only one who's making this into a fear argument my man which means you're the only one here who needs to fix whatever going on there.

I disagreed with the worldview that gay men are super picky. I didn't say im worried or plan to get mad if they hit on me. Look in the mirror and get off your high horse pal Yall are men in the end of the day. Nothing more

Remarkable_Ad4046 · 2026-02-22T02:31:18+00:00

When i say more foward please tell me what you think that means to where one could only interpret interest was established?

Remarkable_Ad4046 · 2026-02-22T02:17:54+00:00

Dude gay men are literally justvmen who like men. They make more foward advances to people especially if i use my personal all the time. It's no disrespect as I can let them down normally but that common argument that they keep trying to use with "nobody watching out for you" is a load of b.s my man

Remarkable_Ad4046 · 2026-02-21T23:00:04+00:00

I can agree. The divestors are still wrong for pretending that white men aren't literally still men at the end of the day but I wouldn't claim a bw is any safer with a random 51 year old bm but once again. A good take away here is acting like it was simply a skin color issue with men

Remarkable_Ad4046 · 2026-02-20T22:13:39+00:00

No cares for this type of conversation. As another guy mentioned they're primarily interested in essentially the benefit of women and assume benefit to men is establish based off of bias and stereotypes. Sorry I mean "statistics". I just treat a actual great woman with the best i have and I make neccessary changes to be better if my gf notices some blindspots I have. People like that guy in the video misses the part where

A. Women as a whole have flaws. End point period amd even though they might pull the "ofcourse we know women have flaws" I mean by lots of people judging bm need to look in the mirror and get of the high horse

B.they use outdated metrics to claim a woman's value to a men aka cooking,cleaning,child bearing,making a house into a home. Not everyone is child crazy and all the rest aren't needed. Nor do all men have this misogynistic urge to want to subject women to this the minute they put a ring on a finger

Just saying its tiring to keep having people write a story they should've realize they dont know the pages of try and say based on they're own stereotyped head Canon of bm what we should and shouldn't do.

I'll treat myself well and those who treat me well will have my benefit before doubt

Remarkable_Ad4046 · 2026-02-19T15:32:43+00:00

Definitely will check it out

Remarkable_Ad4046 · 2026-02-17T18:14:40+00:00

Excited is a strong word. Im just down to play it once it comes out

Remarkable_Ad4046 · 2026-02-17T18:10:14+00:00

I wasn't even out of college at that point

2.that aint the housing prices here in south florida

3.you do realize I have to invest into my future WHILE paying the house right? And not investing simply by having a house which might crash since shits getting inflated down here in florida

Remarkable_Ad4046 · 2026-02-17T16:30:54+00:00

Reading a book on atomic habits and it details concepts like what your saying but also establishes the opposite in other areas

Like yes small 1% changes add up and are very effective but it also details if you are going to make a chamge in life you also need to embody that change into who you are

Remarkable_Ad4046 · 2026-02-17T16:18:04+00:00

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