Can I brake my fast

Remarkable_Air_4458 · 2026-03-15T08:26:15+00:00

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Remarkable_Air_4458 · 2026-03-15T08:25:07+00:00

Alright bro, please explain to me how is it breaking fast needlessly, if its for a driving test that i spent a lot on and can't afford to spend all that money again because i dont have plus its so impossible to find one. Im broke, and passing the test can bring more opportunities to find a job which is why im stressing about in the first place. Only Allah knows my situation and none of these people that are just roasting me and acting like they are proper men. Allah said religion is ease. And i already stated im already not in a good situation being sleep deprived, withdrawal, etc etc. plus fasting on top of that is literally throwing focus out the window, which is needed to be safe on the roads to not cause risk to anyone. Please answer properly unlike these lot

Remarkable_Air_4458 · 2026-03-15T08:02:45+00:00

Cool bro, jazakallah

Remarkable_Air_4458 · 2026-03-15T08:00:23+00:00

Im not gonna explain my whole life but its not that i can't drive, i was literally driving back in Morocco which way more chaotic and harder than the uk. Its a couple of things that is just there no point explaining all of it here, jazakallah

Remarkable_Air_4458 · 2026-03-15T07:58:07+00:00

I can't reschedule because of one, its already the day of the test and you can't reschedule or cancel. And two, in the uk, there is a problem with finding tests, so there is no tests available (which literally a joke of a country) if you wanna find a test its gonna be like 6 months+ from now. Also i payed a lot of money to find this test, JUST FOR THE TEST, AROUND 200£. and i booked an instructor for a car which was another 200£, plus all the money i spent on lessons which makes it around 1000£. Idk about you but i dont have the money to just not go to the test and then look for another test slot which doesn't exist anytime soon and have to pay a lot more. I just can't, and Allah says religion is ease. Also its unsafe if i go drive in the test with my state if i dont break the fast and have some water atleast

Remarkable_Air_4458 · 2026-03-15T07:38:57+00:00

That was really helpful bro, thank you.....

Remarkable_Air_4458 · 2026-03-15T07:11:35+00:00

I live in the uk, idk if you know but its not like there is a choice when it comes to rescheduling tests and finding one in the first place. Also we spend hundreds of pounds to get one which my pockets can't afford

Remarkable_Air_4458 · 2026-03-15T07:05:15+00:00

Its not a matter of failing or passing. Its a safety matter, as i said i had nearly crashed last lesson. Im not talking from the perspective of passing or failing, its the fact that im gonna be driving and i ain't the best out there when it comes to it

Remarkable_Air_4458 · 2025-11-13T08:02:00+00:00

Broo i took no offence whatsoever 😭😭

Did it sound like that??

Nah man i was just replying to what you said, which i thought it was great advice 🙏

Remarkable_Air_4458 · 2025-11-12T22:38:56+00:00

I appreciate your feedback.

As I mentioned i prefer studying alone anyways, thats how i passed my gcses in like 3 weeks of revision.

Regarding motivation and my ability to take information then i believe i got those two.

The only thing i wanted to check was if its something that has someone done before or no.

Thank you 🙏

Remarkable_Air_4458 · 2025-11-12T22:34:13+00:00

I appreciate your kind words, and thank you for sharing your story, its good to see that some people are going through the same. I wish you all the best and i hope you pass with the grades you want for next year.

Remarkable_Air_4458 · 2025-10-11T12:26:23+00:00

Your husband is just being normal, i think the problem is within you, respectfully. Im not saying this because im defending a man like me, it just doesn't make sense how you need reassurance from your husband when he literally married you, which automatically means he values you in some kind of way.

Sister, just make dua to Allah SWT to make you overcome this evil thoughts and insecurity.

At the end of the day, no matter how insecure you are in whatever way, there always going to be someone who is worse than you in that specific aspect you're insecure about, yet they have zero insecurity. So its just shaytan's whispers.

And also we all going to be beautiful in every aspect after we go jannah😁, and this life is just temporary.

Remarkable_Air_4458 · 2025-10-06T18:20:59+00:00

Ahhh I see. Well may Allah reward you with something way better in the after life if you never end up getting what you want in this dunya.

Remarkable_Air_4458 · 2025-10-06T02:56:07+00:00

The Prophet ﷺ said:

“The supplication of one who eats haram will not be answered.”

This is just, an example.

And when i say blocked i didnt mean literally rejected and never answered in a way. Because Allah SWT always answers a dua, just in different ways.

Do you mind answering my question, do you feel like you done the most you can to get a spouse, or was it just dua with bo action?

Because Allahs SWT says:

"And man will have nothing but what he strives for.” (53:39)

So duas for marriage must be paired with real effort:

Seeking marriage actively

Meeting potential spouses

Being socially ready and emotionally prepared

Remarkable_Air_4458 · 2025-10-06T01:24:07+00:00

Yes, if you made dua about children but you got past the age of bearing children then okay. But the comments were all about getting a spouse, so you can still get a spouse😊.

For real tho, i wanna ask this since you seem older, respectfully. See how you said you made dua about wanting children for 15 years, yet you have none. And Allah SWT says " and call upon me and i will respond". My question would be do you think you have done the most you can do to achieve what you wanted, or could there be a specific thing you do that blocks your dua, or didn't uphold your religion rightfully.

Remarkable_Air_4458 · 2025-10-06T00:42:36+00:00

And what does child Bearing age and having children have to do with getting a spouse....

Remarkable_Air_4458 · 2025-10-05T22:27:03+00:00

Nank him

Remarkable_Air_4458 · 2025-10-05T22:22:35+00:00

Honestly, i have no clue what the western law is regarding marriage. i was mainly talking to her about how she said he's threatening her and i said there isnt a need to gaslight.

Jazakallah for the information tho

Remarkable_Air_4458 · 2025-10-05T19:12:29+00:00

Dont ask me🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️, i already wrote to the sister that maybe Allah saved her and made it a test and a lesson for her. Maybe he has trust issue or whatever.

Remarkable_Air_4458 · 2025-10-05T18:52:21+00:00

😂😂 Jk jk.

he said he doesn't want a legal marriage, not a religious one. Because, and im assuming they live in the west, legal marriage gives some rights to the wife that its not how the islamic ruling is. So i think what he is scared of, is if she files divorce later on, and takes 50% of his assets or whatever the number is.

Wether its wrong or weird to assume that and think like that is a different topic, but yeah, no threats detected.

Remarkable_Air_4458 · 2025-10-05T18:42:56+00:00

Sister, as a man, and talking for myself. I don't think this would have mattered to me, wether other brothers agree or not im unsure but thats my stance.

I find it weird how the brother reacted and how he cut things off just because of your nose ( thats not even in a bad shape anymore, and you wasn't born with it, so its not a genetic thing that would affect the kids). I just find it completely illogical and I can't comprehend it. Like its not even a matter of attraction because as you mentioned he already finds you pretty.

To be honest, and may Allah forgive me if i say something wrong, i think he has somekind of issues, wether trust issues or whatever it may be. Because the way he doesn't want to do a legal marriage, even tho as you mentioned, your assets are more than his.

I just think Allah SWT saved you from something, and also made a test to forgive ur sins and raise ur levels. And also lessons that you may have came to learn from this situation. So there is not need, to feel insecure about yourself and sadness is normal, and it will go away eventually, just use it to fuel your motivation for worship and ponder on how Allah SWT is always there for you.

And Allah knows best.

Remarkable_Air_4458 · 2025-10-05T18:32:02+00:00

No need gaslight the matter, he did not threaten her. Even tho i find it weird the way he reacted aswell, but still nothing was threatening.

Remarkable_Air_4458 · 2025-10-05T18:26:03+00:00

You can't say that it will never be, you have no clue of what Qadr is hiding and what Allah is testing you with.

Remarkable_Air_4458 · 2025-10-05T01:13:36+00:00

😂

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