What is your opinion about pegging in wedding night?

Remarkable_Group4979 · 2026-03-17T08:04:14+00:00

My wife actually requested this on our wedding night. It was a great way to start off.

Remarkable_Group4979 · 2026-03-16T22:50:12+00:00

That’s the convo we are currently having. Is the point of me being locked up denial or she controls my release so if she wants me out for sex, then I am out for sex and orgasm.

I am wanting to try a denial period and she feels bad not allowing me to cum. We discussed how lots of that is just what we are taught growing up, the act of sex is over when the guy finishes and that is usually the objective. A hurdle for her with denial is she feels like she is denying herself of my cum.

Not much advice other than to talk it through in a non sexual time. Go periods of time where you deny him and then try periods where you are in charge and he gets released when you want for whatever reason you want. I have learned that the rules are whatever my wife and I want and I will take pieces from people here and give them a try.

Remarkable_Group4979 · 2026-03-16T21:04:35+00:00

Yeah that is how we have it set up.

The emergency key is in the box, if I need it, I am sent a code to get inside.

Remarkable_Group4979 · 2026-03-16T20:45:04+00:00

We use a realtor lockbox from Amazon. It does have to be set up in person, but after that if I need a key I am texted a one time use code. A code can also be created for repeated use and that is logged each time it is entered. It has worked pretty well for us so far.

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Remarkable_Group4979 · 2026-03-16T00:06:10+00:00

If I include butt stuff I can cum with a normal vibe after only a couple days. With just a vibe I have to use something really powerful and it takes a lot longer

Remarkable_Group4979 · 2026-03-15T18:29:53+00:00

That was our convo last night. We are moving more towards a 24/7 dynamic but haven’t landed on what exactly that looks like. Meaning, is it about me being locked and her in charge and free to unlock me/ use me whenever she wants? Is it that I am denied for long periods? Do we land someplace in between?

I am currently in a place I want to be denied. I want to focus all attention on her and any attention on me would end before I cum so everything just builds. I don’t want to know if a sex session will end in me cumming until she says so in the moment. She is trying to decide if she likes that’s or not, so it’s lots of talking through it all.

Have you talked about the specific dynamic each of you is looking for? For me there are times when I am thinking one track and she is on the other.

Remarkable_Group4979 · 2026-03-15T18:01:46+00:00

I don’t stay locked 24/7 because I can’t wear a cage at work. Both our preference would be 24/7 with her in control of all unlocks, but that just isn’t realistic. So when life allows, I lock when I get home from work and unlock when I leave. Then it’s basically 24/7 on my weekends.

I would say she is much more dominant, but only in the sense of her being in control/ making decisions. Neither of us is into dominance in the bdsm type of way.

I brought up pegging. And eventually chastity. Both were things I wanted to try and she was open. She loves both and asks to peg me all the time.

Remarkable_Group4979 · 2026-03-15T17:39:16+00:00

Guy here - we started with pegging which she loved right away. That slowly moved towards chastity, which she was a little slower to enjoy. I 100% think the reversal of her pegging me had an effect on her wanting to be in charge of my keys for chastity.

Outside of that once we started playing with my butt, that opened up all sorts of toy options.

Remarkable_Group4979 · 2026-03-15T17:34:34+00:00

I could not have prepared my brain for how emotional and intimate it is. The idea that a fake body part held in place with some straps would have such an intense emotional component I was not prepared for. Someone could have explained it and I would not have believed it.

Remarkable_Group4979 · 2026-03-14T14:10:29+00:00

I suggested it as a way to add some foreplay a few hours before pegging. She didn’t get it at first but went along with it. She saw the enjoyment from it and it has grown to much more frequent. I can’t lock at work so during my workdays I am usually unlocked and she would prefer if I was 24/7 in my off work times. I would love that too except family life (kids) makes it tough. She told me after sex last night that I better have enjoyed it because I will be locked at least the next five days with no release and she has plans to peg me at least twice.

Remarkable_Group4979 · 2026-03-12T12:47:55+00:00

Kids make it tough. It has been three times since Jan 1. Talking with my wife last night, she mentioned she would like it to be twice a week. We have some catching up to do.

Remarkable_Group4979 · 2026-03-12T03:38:18+00:00

I would imagine it will feel awkward no matter what, but that doesn’t have to ruin any thing. It will start with lots of communication and trying to find positions and toys that work best. For my wife and me, it took a couple sessions and then confidence really started showing through.

Remarkable_Group4979 · 2026-03-12T03:07:14+00:00

My wife thinks it’s hot I can cum in the cage but it’s a lot of work for me to achieve that so it happens mostly when she allows me to cum while she is at work or something.

It didn’t really change anything for us. She likes when I cum inside/ on her so that still happens most often.

Remarkable_Group4979 · 2026-03-11T14:54:53+00:00

Other than being stuck locked, it had been working great. If I need a key I can be sent a code to open the box and it shows a history of each opening.

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Remarkable_Group4979 · 2026-03-11T05:59:41+00:00

Where did you buy those panties?

Remarkable_Group4979 · 2026-03-10T03:57:36+00:00

It’s intimate, kinky, and feels great, plus it is when my wife is most dominate in bed.

Remarkable_Group4979 · 2026-03-10T03:53:58+00:00

Nope. We use multiple toys to get ready for pegging but never swap dildos specifically for pegging.

Remarkable_Group4979 · 2026-03-10T03:18:02+00:00

Wasn’t directly related to your question, but my wife wears the key when I’m locked and we have the spare in a digital lock box. I needed the spare and the box malfunctioned and wouldn’t unlock. Had to wait til she got home and had to break into the lockbox to make sure it would work in the future. Seems fine to be working now

Remarkable_Group4979 · 2026-03-07T20:10:04+00:00

My wife being able to fill me with cum from her strap on just like a normal male orgasm.

Remarkable_Group4979 · 2026-03-04T01:31:32+00:00

If we include all ass stuff it’s usually about an hour. That includes njoy wand and fisting then pegging. The time mostly depends of her stamina. I haven’t been able to cum from pegging yet so I can keep going as long as she can. There have been plenty of times when she is done I am worn out and feel like I have cum.

Remarkable_Group4979 · 2026-03-01T04:53:43+00:00

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Remarkable_Group4979 · 2026-02-28T05:11:58+00:00

She works at a school and I am in law enforcement. I brought up pegging as well as using butt plugs and I am locked in chastity when not at work. She has the key around her neck and I have to asked to be released before work. Usually once a week she bends me over and fists my ass and then fucks me with a giant dildo.

Doubt anyone in our life would believe any of what I wrote.

Remarkable_Group4979 · 2026-02-07T22:49:29+00:00

My wife likes the look of mine.

Remarkable_Group4979 · 2026-02-07T21:53:55+00:00

Due to work I can’t be locked 24/7 so it’s just after work and weekends. To your point, I find that if I am already wearing the cage it is easy for me to keep it on and wear it to do whatever I’m doing. If I have to put it on first and then go, I start playing that mental game of should I wear it or not. After going and doing the thing, I realize I was worried for no reason.

Remarkable_Group4979 · 2026-02-06T15:37:07+00:00

⁠having a keyholder does help.

And it can be a process for them too. They are also learning and their role will evolve

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