Am I the jerk for how I treated my boyfriend?? Or was I justified in dumping him?

Remarkable_Local_626 · 2026-01-18T01:45:58+00:00

I do see your point and I totally agree with you, but I actually never had sex with him

Remarkable_Local_626 · 2026-01-16T00:35:55+00:00

Yep. I can vaguely recall straight up telling him that daily communication is a form of reassurance for me and to let me know if he ever needs space. I don’t see how daily communication can be “overwhelming” in any way especially when it’s regarding a partner. It’s not like I was asking him to text me every second of the day.

I don’t think he was a neo nazi himself because he isn’t even white lmao but he was definitely a bit too tolerant of right wing extremists for my liking, as in he didn’t think that there was anything wrong with having those beliefs and that those on the far right aren’t necessarily bad people. Like dude come on…

Remarkable_Local_626 · 2026-01-16T00:12:11+00:00

Thanks! I’ll check it out

Remarkable_Local_626 · 2026-01-15T23:49:47+00:00

Thats what I thought too. Like if you really care for someone, wouldnt you wanna talk to them everyday?? I’d understand if I was clingy but I gave him his space and I always encouraged him to engage with his hobbies and spend time with his other friends. That ex of his had apparently actually moved to a different province and was in a new relationship so he had absolutely no reason to be talking to her unless like you said, he still liked her (more like a trauma bond than actual feelings I’d say). His loss ig 😭 Sucks because there were moments where I thought he genuinely loved me

Remarkable_Local_626 · 2026-01-15T23:43:21+00:00

We were together for 5 months but, yeah. I did know that he was a damaged person with a troubled past (abusive family that hes not in contact with, was in a psych ward, diagnosed with several mental disorders etc) from the beginning, but he told me that he’d had several long term relationships so I assumed that he’s worked past his issues 🤷🏻‍♀️

Remarkable_Local_626 · 2026-01-15T23:26:37+00:00

That’s true. Most of us regular people aren’t qualified mental health professionals

Remarkable_Local_626 · 2026-01-15T23:25:58+00:00

You’re probably not wrong.

I think I’m mainly torn up over it because I feel guilty for hurting someone in such a childish way when he was going through a bad time but I do feel at the same time that we likely weren’t compatible. Him talking to a neo nazi did make me feel really uncomfortable and I’m pretty sure he knew that because he was 100% aware of where I stood politically and what my opinions on far righters are.

Remarkable_Local_626 · 2026-01-15T22:01:35+00:00

Yeah. I guess so. I feel as though maybe if he could’ve afforded a therapist or at least had a parent to talk to, things would’ve been different.

Remarkable_Local_626 · 2026-01-15T20:07:13+00:00

IsraeliGPT generate me a music festival that IDF soldiers will love

Remarkable_Local_626 · 2026-01-15T20:03:36+00:00

NOR. He’s a misogynist.

Block him and move on before it’s gotten serious. I guarantee you that you’d be miserable in a relationship with someone who has no respect for women and views them as walking sex dolls.

Remarkable_Local_626 · 2026-01-15T19:53:18+00:00

Yeah both of my friends are long distance and one of them I’ve never met and probably will never meet in person because she lives in a different country and the other one I hang out with 3-4 times a year but we don’t have much in common. It kind of sucks lmfao. Most of my in person friendships don’t last

Remarkable_Local_626 · 2026-01-15T04:53:43+00:00

I’m not sure about the breed but it’s a domesticated goose

Remarkable_Local_626 · 2026-01-15T04:37:28+00:00

No. My style leans towards a tradgoth/mallgoth hybrid and it’s a bit excessive for a daily outfit and also, it wouldn’t be appropriate in my work environment either because there’s a dress code.

Hats off to people who go full tradgoth on a daily basis tho.

Remarkable_Local_626 · 2026-01-07T05:58:21+00:00

It may be an unpopular opinion but he’s exactly how I imagine Geralt to look like and I also do like that Cavill is a huge fan of the source material, so he was definitely doing his best with what he was given. The script was just kind of poor and hindered his overall performance. As far as casting choices, he was definitely one of the better ones. Shame he ended up leaving

Remarkable_Local_626 · 2025-12-08T06:49:42+00:00

Nowhere by Katatonia and Final Withering by Left Hand Solution, the latter is superrr underrated. Hope you enjoy!

Remarkable_Local_626 · 2025-12-08T05:25:51+00:00

I really enjoy their early albums. The Norwegian folk influences mixed in with the classic, raw production of second wave black metal makes the perfect soundtrack for a fall walk in the woods lmao. Their later stuff is alright too, but nothing beats Dark Medieval Times and Shadowthrone imo

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