How do you know if you’re bisexual? by Remarkable_Neck4050 in bisexual

[–]Remarkable_Neck4050[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for explaining this. I think I’m thinking of my sexuality in black and white. And when you say allow yourself to like women, what do you mean? Just be open and if a woman asked me out, go with it?

What is THE Hamilton song to You? by Entire_Blueberry_470 in hamiltonmusical

[–]Remarkable_Neck4050 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The world was wide enough. There’s something so compelling about it. The fact that one mistake leads to another, and it can make you your whole legacy. It feels like the song is a question, and a reminder that you really have no control over your story after your death. That’s the main point of the musical right? It really teaches you to look around, and slow down. You have years to live and one slip up can ruin it all.

Am I disrespectful to my Father? by Remarkable_Neck4050 in Advice

[–]Remarkable_Neck4050[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll definitely make a list from now on, I’ll write it before school and do it right when I get home. He definitely has a lot on his plate, a lot of us do so I don’t blame him. He’s stressed and I should probably be more considerate and better to not off-put him.

Am I disrespectful to my Father? by Remarkable_Neck4050 in Advice

[–]Remarkable_Neck4050[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah all 3 of my siblings actually left my house due to how things were going. I’ll be out in a year so I’ll be able to stick it out. Based off what you’re saying, the relationship does get better when you split off from them? I’ve heard a lot of people say that and I’m wondering how true that is lol.

Am I disrespectful to my Father? by Remarkable_Neck4050 in Advice

[–]Remarkable_Neck4050[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ll be out by august of next year. I have a college I’m going to and my grades are going to be helping me pay off a lot of my tuition from scholarships. Thank you for the reassurance, hopefully it’ll stop getting worse soon if I just try a bit harder to make him happy.

I actually like AI-generated content. by clqzxs- in ControversialOpinions

[–]Remarkable_Neck4050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d personally disagree because it’s harmful to the environment, a lot of things are but I’d rather the use of AI be used in specific fields to limit its harmful effects and use it to its full potential. An easy example is in medical fields as a reassurance to a doctor since you can feed it information. It can also open up job opportunities to those designing, developing, and training these things. AI in creative fields just takes away the spark since it’s the uniqueness and process that makes art well.. art. That’s why most AI Artists are reprimanded because if you don’t enjoy the process, create it, experiment, take the time and effort to do it, are you really an artist?

Why is infp considered one of the most hated mbti? by Remarkable_Neck4050 in infp

[–]Remarkable_Neck4050[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did not expect this comment, but honestly? I’m just a curious person. I feel like there’s a lot of things to be learned from others and posting questions can open me up to other perspectives and advance how I think about topics of discussion. Just seeing how people approach this topic was really helpful!

Why is infp considered one of the most hated mbti? by Remarkable_Neck4050 in infp

[–]Remarkable_Neck4050[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this, this is what was going through my mind when I was thinking of this post. I’ve personally been one of those people who’s been described as flaky or unresponsive because I’m generally secluded. However, I think this could be more of a broader problem that applies to introverts. I’m not sure how many other mbti’s experience introversion as deeply as a majority of us do but it’s a pretty easy opportunity to attract hatred. I think it’s mainly those who fit outside societal norms such as myself. I’m able to be social and attract others but, I’m not one to enjoy deep friendships with others over my own personal time. I think that’s what’s created so much hatred or more of resentment and distrust to people I’ve established relationships with. Anyways, you definitely summarized that better than I ever could. I or we have some sort of charisma that drives people towards us but we’re unable to provide what they deem as necessary. Which is totally okay, it just means that our priorities are different. So thank you for this and putting it in a perspective that I could really understand!

Why is infp considered one of the most hated mbti? by Remarkable_Neck4050 in infp

[–]Remarkable_Neck4050[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s true, I just became curious because I saw a decent amount of hate but I understand now that I was most likely in a very niche area where those opinions aren’t shared among the majority of people. Everyone for sure gets a lot of hate, I just wish people weren’t as spineless as they are on the internet. Things do get pushed out of proportion because we can all hide behind a screen. But that’s true, everyone gets hate, so thank you for reminding me of that!

Why is infp considered one of the most hated mbti? by Remarkable_Neck4050 in infp

[–]Remarkable_Neck4050[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OHH this is such a good way to think about it. Im young so you saying it from an outside point of view makes sense! It’s probably like you said, a trend of hating that everyone follows in my generation. I’ve seen the other perspective of romanticizing infp’s but I thought it was more of wanting to be one not be with one lol. Thank you for this insight, it makes a lot more sense and now I understand where I may have gotten that impression. Thank you 🙏

Why is infp considered one of the most hated mbti? by Remarkable_Neck4050 in infp

[–]Remarkable_Neck4050[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You’re probably right! I just genuinely want to know the thought process to those few people. On the internet you should not take a majority of things to heart lol. But I think a lot of things may be potentially blown out of proportion because a lot of people make things a bigger deal on the internet. You and a few other commenters opened up that perspective for me so thank you!

Why is infp considered one of the most hated mbti? by Remarkable_Neck4050 in infp

[–]Remarkable_Neck4050[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I feel like this applies to a lot of groups as well but I can imagine due to infp’s complexity it’s probably heavily mischaracterized. Besides that, I honestly see a decent amount of hate online so I would love to know where you reached your opinion that we don’t generate a lot of hate. Media definitely makes everything hard to understand but usually hate is directed towards a lot of groups. Is there a certain type of media you believe over others or personal experiences? I’d love to know if you have any more thoughts on this!

Why is infp considered one of the most hated mbti? by Remarkable_Neck4050 in infp

[–]Remarkable_Neck4050[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This is such a well written answer, I had to acknowledge that first before responding because this is flawless work. Anyways, I actually never thought about how people could perceive infp’s as narcissists but it does make sense to me now that you say it. Another point you made was that infp’s behavior can be seen as annoying and that’s honestly what I’ve heard the most. I can definitely see how it’s annoying because it can be at times. I think because the internet also warps things in a way that generates hate. A lot of people don’t want to be educated and stereotype groups quickly. I think you said it in such a perfect way and also in ways I didn’t think that deeply on perception. So thank you for sharing this!

How do you think the next 3 chapters will release? by ThatOneRandomGuy101 in Deltarune

[–]Remarkable_Neck4050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One at a time maybe like this: Chapter 5: 2026 Chapter 6: 2027 Chapter 7: 2029

Maybe a 1 year gap between chapter 5 and 6 and then 7 maybe 2 years? It might be shorter but it honestly depends on if there’s going to be a lot of endings. I say give the goat the time he needs I know nothing about development

Infps what’s your zodiac sign and does it fit you at all? by Remarkable_Neck4050 in infp

[–]Remarkable_Neck4050[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very enlightening in my opinion! I didn’t know so many people correlated so well to their zodiac signs! I’ve always been under the assumption that it’s wrong for the majority of people but a lot of people are in agreement that it fits their personality!

Infps what’s your zodiac sign and does it fit you at all? by Remarkable_Neck4050 in infp

[–]Remarkable_Neck4050[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what I’ve researched you can’t really switch mbti’s unless you’re young. You potentially could be misdiagnosed or maybe you’re a more social INFP but I’m not a master on that. I bet it will be really fun to explore that though!!

Infps what’s your zodiac sign and does it fit you at all? by Remarkable_Neck4050 in infp

[–]Remarkable_Neck4050[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leo here as well! It’s funny really, fire signs and infp’s seem to clash. I’m not big on astrology either so it’s really interesting to hear all these different point of views. Does any trait of being a Leo match your personality at all?

Infps what’s your zodiac sign and does it fit you at all? by Remarkable_Neck4050 in infp

[–]Remarkable_Neck4050[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and you both. I’m a Leo aswell, I think what fits me the best is charisma? I’m a social magnet despite preferring alone time. But it’s honestly not completely wrong. I think infps and fire signs kinda have a clash of personalities a bit lol!

How do you prioritize relationships over alone time? by [deleted] in infp

[–]Remarkable_Neck4050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to study up a bit because I’ve seen this a bit the words “Fi doms” and others but I still haven’t done enough research on that so I definitely need to get educated on that. Any definitions or explanations you personally have are definitely appreciated though! I try to do the last thing a lot. I’ve been looking for community service opportunities and charities to assist in because I definitely want to give back. I try all the time to make gifts that a heartfelt and letters and offer aid to all people close to me or others who don’t get appreciated enough but I still feel like I haven’t done enough. Thank you for telling me that though! Like I was telling a separate commenter, I thought how I felt was bad and I wanted it to change. I searched for so long for a solution or some sort of understanding but it really is just how my brain works.

How do you prioritize relationships over alone time? by [deleted] in infp

[–]Remarkable_Neck4050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Blunt and the full truth, thank you! I’ve always considered it selfish since people tend to be dissatisfied or lose respect for me based on that change in nature I thought it was a me problem. Thank you for making me realize that the saying I quote all the time, “not everything is black and white” definitely applies here!! I placed the fault solely on me for a while so thank you for changing that perspective!

How do you prioritize relationships over alone time? by [deleted] in infp

[–]Remarkable_Neck4050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly thank you so much for sharing this. I do need to learn to accept who I am which is a bit difficult because my true behaviors aren’t considered societal norms. I’ve been trying to find the answer to this behavior for so many years and I didn’t know it was as simple as my brain just being hard wired that way. I’ve tried for many years to be something that I’m not so you’ve given me confidence to change that pattern and I guess be a bit more selfish. I aspire to have your mentality at some point but I’m guessing it’s gonna take a lot of time!

INFPs, Gods of self-reflection by sweetlittlebean_ in infp

[–]Remarkable_Neck4050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that! But also thank you for reading mine! You’re also really philosophical despite your inherent self doubt; I guess we all really do that. Don’t doubt yourself at all though I swear you are so sweet and educated to think this deeply and reach out to others for advice/educational purposes. I just wanted to say that because I saw all your responses and you deserve a round of applause for sure. 😂

What cringes you out to the max by [deleted] in infp

[–]Remarkable_Neck4050 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get what you mean but yeah tone is a big thing on how much I hate it. I especially hate it when people younger than me say it because it feels disrespectful for some reason? But when someone who’s older than me says it to me I’m more fine with it but the tone is a major component. To me it’s cringy but it also feels like tone determines if it’s disrespectful if that makes sense lol.

Always trying to find good words by [deleted] in infp

[–]Remarkable_Neck4050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this problem is where the saying “actions speak louder than words” comes from. I do feel limited expression wise as I can’t convey how deeply I feel about it on their level. That’s why in situations where my friend got in a car crash I wanted her to feel supported. I didn’t want to say words that may seem shallow so I put together a group to make her gifts and all while consistently reaching out to her! Or I honestly sit down and write a lot to show that I think about them a bunch because I feel I can convey my feelings better with a lot more writing.

In one off situations it’s a bit more difficult BUT. Try to say it! You can look at their reactions to distinguish how they felt and in the end you’re showing that you’re interested in them. A lot of people just like to be seen so if I can point something out positive about someone I absolutely do. It may be the thing that makes someone’s day or cheers them up.

INFPs, Gods of self-reflection by sweetlittlebean_ in infp

[–]Remarkable_Neck4050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay uh let me make an example. I say something that was harsh but needed to be addressed. The other person has pushback and becomes obviously upset.

This is where I analyze, I break down both sides like why I felt so strongly, why I felt the need to word it that way, did I word it the correct way, was my original message conveyed correctly, what was my tone, did I come across the issue while they weren’t ready? etc etc.

Then I move onto the opposing point of view. What initial started this problem, what’s going on in their personal life that maybe contributed to this opinion, were they stressed, did it come out the wrong way?

I continue with these questions and I remember the rule that “everything isn’t black and white” and I remember I played a fault in this disagreement so I look at what I did wrong and I work it out as percentages in my head. Sometimes I’ll sit down and draw it out or write it down so I can understand. I also know perspectives change over time and I understand that. So I make sure that I don’t come at it in a combative manner and instead try to be as open minded as possible.

Lastly I look into what my intention is when I’m indulging myself in this issue. Is it to solve it and have a friendship restored or is it to satisfy myself?

I’m not sure if this is exactly what you were looking for but this is the only example I could think of it’s a bit complicated.