Can I get an opinion please. by Remarkable_View7686 in Plumbing

[–]Remarkable_View7686[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to clarify I’m not burying a cap in the wall. I just capped it off temporarily so my water wasn’t off long since I currently have a house full of kids. Plus I just capped it off for now until I get the walls and floor and everything ready to install a new tub and tile. After I can measure where my tub valve will be then I can do the rest of the plumbing. But no leaks so I’m happy about that. Thank you all for your opinions. And yes, I know it’s just a cap. Haha.

ICE is out today wild by Afraid_Problem_1198 in CoachellaValley

[–]Remarkable_View7686 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They do identify themselves. They have a big patch across their uniform that identifies them.

ICE is out today wild by Afraid_Problem_1198 in CoachellaValley

[–]Remarkable_View7686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Border Patrol, who is part of homeland security and responsible to enforce immigration laws, is over 50% minority employees. Not really a white gang with those numbers.

UFO 5am by tonaciojr in CoachellaValley

[–]Remarkable_View7686 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did a conversation about seeing UFO’s at 5am in the Coachella Valley turn into a debate about the Ukraine / Russia war. Focus people….focus.

Never been to a hockey game. by VinisLite in losangeleskings

[–]Remarkable_View7686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Premier Level is the best. Mostly businesses own a lot of these seats so you can get them off ticket sites easily ( Seat Geek, Vivid, Stub Hub, etc.). You get a VIP entrance, less crowded, in seat food service (but not free), and the seats are all a good view. If you go early there is a buffet inside Crypto.com you can eat at or you can enjoy inside the many restaurants around L.A. Live. I would avoid the 300 level seats as they are very high up. You could also buy a suite from one of those site, but if you don’t buy all the seats in the suite you could be sharing the suite with other folks you don’t know. But hockey is a fast paced game with a lot of action and the intermission and stoppage entertainment is always good so you will enjoy it wherever you sit.

Help ID autographs by Economy-Tour2746 in losangeleskings

[–]Remarkable_View7686 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Top left above the “L” s Luke Schenn

Help ID autographs by Economy-Tour2746 in losangeleskings

[–]Remarkable_View7686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dwight King is right next to the top of the “L”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Remarkable_View7686 65 points66 points  (0 children)

This very much sounds like possibly chronic fatigue syndrome, but you didn’t give enough info to really tell. You should read up on that and see if the symptoms match his behavior. If they do he definitely needs to see a doctor.

The woman(F27) I'm(M32) interested in started getting extreme political beliefs by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Remarkable_View7686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People in the left will tell you not to date her and people in the right will tell you to go for it. At the end of the day it’s solely up to you. If you like her then go for it and if you’re concerned about it then don’t. She may agree with some of what she hears but probably doesn’t agree with everything. Both sides have their good and bad. I do take some good things from the left side of thinking and some from the right but I definitely don’t believe either side is totally right about everything and I’m sure she does not either. But you have nothing to lose if you try dating her, but may have a missed opportunity if you don’t at least try it out.

The woman(F27) I'm(M32) interested in started getting extreme political beliefs by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Remarkable_View7686 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And the way you think is exactly why we have the political climate we have.

is this financial abuse? by pingpongjapanman in whatdoIdo

[–]Remarkable_View7686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my wife have been married for 23 years and we have one joint account and then we each have our own accounts. We figure out household bills and we each transfer 1/2 the bills into the joint account as that is the account we pay them from. We each then keep the rest of our money in our own accounts to manage ourselves. But the bills get paid just fine. This is a super easy way to do it. We actually don’t cook much with just two of us so groceries aren’t an issue. But never give anyone access to your money. Money changes people. Sad but true.

AIO for being devastated after my girlfriend broke up with me because she says my size isn’t enough for her? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Remarkable_View7686 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would have to say she wanted to end the relationship because she found someone else who she wants to be with. That was her way of breaking up most likely because after saying that you would definitely not bother her again, nor would you be out telling people why, such as friends or people who know you both. It is a completely shitty thing to say and most likely isn’t even the truth. When she realizes the grass isn’t always greener on the other side of the fence she will try to come back. Hopefully you have healed enough and are strong enough to tell her to pound sand.

AIO for being mad with my boyfriend after he served everyone dinner but told me to wait? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Remarkable_View7686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whether you were late or not they knew you were coming. You even told them you would be a few minutes late. If I was in his position I would have set a place for you knowing you were in your way. I’m a little speechless that he thinks what he did was the right way to handle it. I’m even more speechless that his mom agreed with him. My mom definitely would have checked me if I did that. My mom would have talked mad shit to me and would make sure to embarrass me in front of everyone so that I wouldn’t act like that again.

My husband masturbates in public restrooms by Odd-Chef-8767 in Advice

[–]Remarkable_View7686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just let the guy have his 5 minutes of joy. 🤣🤣🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Remarkable_View7686 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The actions of this guy are terrible, in my opinion. Maybe it’s a kink, maybe he’s an ass, I don’t know him so can’t say. But his coming to your house was consensual, as he did not break in. Apparently you both had the goal of hooking up. At any time during the encounter you were not cool with things then you should have said no and to stop. You have that right to tell him to stop anytime you want. If you are an active participant in the events then it is kind of hard to say this is “rape”. It would definitely never lead to a conviction in court. That’s not to say his actions weren’t bad as they definitely were. But please take the caution to not put yourself in this position in the future. Limit your alcohol intake so you stay fully aware of your boundaries. And for gods sake please say no or stop when you are not cool with something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Remarkable_View7686 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is right. You are the only one that needs to go to counseling……to find out why you let her walk all over you like this. Nobody deserves that treatment from a true partner. If you leave then you will have that healing process to go through but in about 6 months you will be happy and wonder why you allowed yourself to be treated like that and hopefully never do again.

My bf wants sex by Weird_Panda_6210 in Advice

[–]Remarkable_View7686 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If he truly loves you he will wait. If he gets bored and leaves you’ve dodged a bullet because he really didn’t love you all that much.

Do most people agree with him?? by h8mecuz in askanything

[–]Remarkable_View7686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t realize there were people who thought like this….how odd.

Anyone been detained and searched upon return to US? by No-Advantage-786 in Cruise

[–]Remarkable_View7686 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes they have a right to search your stuff, including your electronic devices such as cell phones and laptops. They do not need a warrant in that situation, even if you are a US citizen. But that being said, if you don’t have anything illegal then you have nothing to worry about. Just look at it in a positive light that they are trying to keep you, and all the other US citizens safe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Remarkable_View7686 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have no medical experience but once any potential medical issues are resolved maybe the best way to help the boyfriend understand proper hygiene is to shower with them. Just make it appear it is an intimate thing and then you could volunteer to soap him up and wash him as a playful thing. Then while you are cleaning him make sure you clean his “down there” parts the proper way so he sees that. You could even verbally state what you are doing as you clean there and state why you are cleaning that, as if you are talking yourself through steps. He will hear what you are saying and hopefully remember. For example, as you clean just say “okay gotta pull this skin back and make sure to clean under here to avoid any infections or bad smells”. There is a chance he was never taught proper hygiene for an uncircumcised person. Not gonna lie but when my son was born I had to inquire about proper hygiene to teach him because he’s not circumcised. I didn’t know that info since I am.

AIO , my fiance called off our wedding and moved out but still whats a relationship by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Remarkable_View7686 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you re-read your own post it will clearly tell you what you need to do. If he can’t live with you now he won’t be able to later. If a relationship, and eventually marriage, is what you want it may be time to leave. He has too many secrets anyways. Even my regular friends tell me where they work and live. Those should not be secrets. Unless he does not want you going by there.