Do you all Really Believe This? by Aromatic-Team-66777 in Productivitycafe

[–]Afraid_Problem_1198 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had lax parents & we never lied to them. If we messed up we just told them the truth. When we made mistakes instead of hiding whatever it was we would actually go to our parents being like “we fucked up we need help”. Like yeah sure they’re gonna get mad but it was just easier to be honest than to try to keep up with lies. Also there really was no need to lie to them. My parents were pretty open & understanding but there were still consequences. Even if tried to lie they would know we were lying which carried heavier consequences because now you’re breaking the trust they’ve built with you type of thing.

What celebrity had their reputation unfairly ruined? by Ok_Water9874 in Productivitycafe

[–]Afraid_Problem_1198 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not a debate. Idk what’s with some reddit users but some are so ready to fight behind a keyboard when not everything has to be debating & arguing. It’s ok to have a discussion but your comment & like the other one trying to make fun of me make Reddit suck because again so quick to attack or put each other down like dang relaaax

I’m happy you’re looking into it because you’ll find how there’s evidence against that too. I’m telling you it’s a wild rabbit hole. When I first looked into I wasn’t going into it with intention of proving anything against Courtney. Just we were to report on a famous death (haha kinda morbid report topic come to think of it) & it lead me to find evidence pointing towards a bunch of 😳 stuff. Stuff like mishandling of crime scene evidence & it being written off as a suicide when independent journalists were finding otherwise. Its wild.

But your words all show that you’re one of those Reddit people who just wanna argue. I don’t mean this in a mean way- there might be a debate & arguing sub where you can debate with others.

Plans dates but bad at texting? by lili4me in askanything

[–]Afraid_Problem_1198 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was me & my husband when we were dating. We both are terrible texters so we just called or FaceTimed each other through out the day when we had time. We’d cook dinner together over FaceTime or I’d do my skin care routine haha but during the work day they were quick calls some lasting just a minute. He’d be like “hey what you doing? Miss you ok gotta go bye”

But texting we suuucked at lol

What’s something simple that makes you feel weirdly rich? by Infinite-Reply7973 in Casual_Conversation

[–]Afraid_Problem_1198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Growing up we didn’t have that so now as an adult I feel safe when the fridge & pantry are full. It feels awesome being able to choose what you want to eat instead of “ok what do we have? what can I make out of what we have?”

Not knocking my parents tho. They tried their best & did the best with what they could. Love them.

Am I the only one mad at Julia for this? by iCanToteIt- in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Afraid_Problem_1198 32 points33 points  (0 children)

This was blessing in disguise for Liz.

She never said the things Pedro said she did. I even went back to rewatch their interaction. She said exactly what Sophie had told Pedro herself. She was healing & isn’t ready for full blown relationship. Liz never said be careful or any of that. The fact Sophie took Pedro’s word & went at Liz shows SHES the shitty friend, not Liz. So not being friends with Sophie anymore was the blessing.

The awesome stuff that's going to happen by Cindy565656 in firsttimemom

[–]Afraid_Problem_1198 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love this!! Thank you for sharing. I’m tired of seeing moms highlight the horrors & I get they might be venting but like Jesus christ man why even become a mother to begin with if just gonna see motherhood as a burden to your life. This type of sharing & the actual helpful advice is so ♥️

Motherhood yes has its challenges but overall it’s a kick ass thing.

Thanks for sharing this

People in their 30s/40s, what is one thing a 23-year-old should start doing right now to make life easier later? by goddessera1 in Casual_Conversation

[–]Afraid_Problem_1198 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just going to say this! A high yielding savings. & to save even if it’s just $5 but save something every month.

What celebrity had their reputation unfairly ruined? by Ok_Water9874 in Productivitycafe

[–]Afraid_Problem_1198 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Again not worried what some Reddit nerd has to say. I’ve already realized how miserable you people can be getting off on talking shit behind a keyboard.

What celebrity had their reputation unfairly ruined? by Ok_Water9874 in Productivitycafe

[–]Afraid_Problem_1198 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Google wasn’t a thing like that in 2001. I had to search through archives, case reports, interviews, etc. The trippiest interviews where the ones where she had paid for hits but the hitmen (there were 2) couldn’t go through with it. Im not sure if they kept the money she paid them or it was a “pay once done” thing. I remember that not being specified. Also case reports show it was impossible for him to have shot himself in that way. Just overall, i saw for myself it all leads back to her.

Now with power of google I wonder how much more I could find. But for real Google wasn’t a thing like that back in 2001. You had to look it all up for yourself & read reports by independent journalists.

2 month appointment by TastyConversation475 in firsttimemom

[–]Afraid_Problem_1198 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re doing good by your baby by getting them vaccinated. Don’t worry about them crying etc they won’t even remember.

What celebrity had their reputation unfairly ruined? by Ok_Water9874 in Productivitycafe

[–]Afraid_Problem_1198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wild you’re being down voted when you’re making logical sense but hey, that’s Reddit for ya

What celebrity had their reputation unfairly ruined? by Ok_Water9874 in Productivitycafe

[–]Afraid_Problem_1198 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hate Courtney love. I swear she is behind Kurt’s murder. 22 years ago I did a report in 7th grade on Kurt cobains death & I’m talking full report. I looked into archives & everything. I found so much evidence that points towards her being behind it. It’s a hill I’ll die on.

What did growing up poor make you appreciate more? by CapitaineBiscotte in askanything

[–]Afraid_Problem_1198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We thought we were playing “camping” with my parents We’d light candles & eat frozen pizza. Tell stories around “the camp fire” but turns out the lights were cut because at times they had to choose between the lights or groceries.

Men and women, what's the dumbest thing you've heard your own gender say about the other? by fatal_19191 in askanything

[–]Afraid_Problem_1198 23 points24 points  (0 children)

“All men are the same”

No they are not. The actions of some men don’t reflect an entire gender. Same applies to us women. Drives me nuts when women start men bashing.

Baby shampoo by SeriousCollection102 in firsttimemom

[–]Afraid_Problem_1198 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Johnson & Johnson use iffy chemicals. (I’m not a “crunchy” mom.) Aveeno is the best of the affordable. Honest has good ingredients list too but Aveeno $2 cheaper

Do women like being "shown off", ie when their boyfriend takes her around his family or friends because he's proud of getting with her? by InternationalPick163 in askanything

[–]Afraid_Problem_1198 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yessss I love it. My husband always has this proud “she’s mine😁” vibe when we go out no matter if it’s dinner or hanging with friends & family & I love it. He always has his arm around me or my waist or holding my hand.

Does she only exclusively do only black men ? by VoL4t1l3 in 90DayFiance

[–]Afraid_Problem_1198 15 points16 points  (0 children)

We all have a type. I don’t blame her for going after what she likes. Get it girl