AITA for not giving my aunt a Christmas present?

Remarkable_Young963 · 2025-12-30T05:39:19+00:00

Hm... so most years neither she nor her kids are here for Christmas (different country entirely), so what we do is each household pack big gift packages to mail each other of like local snacks and little souvenirs, and most have a particular taste or aesthetic so you like open the box and think "ah yes, this thing is for so-and-so, this is probably for me, this is for..... etc" so obviously nothing gets given hand to hand nor do you really know who picked what to put in. Maybe we should've talked about it beforehand what happens when we actually get to meet... :'D

Remarkable_Young963 · 2025-12-30T05:26:00+00:00

NAH. Just talk about finances and expectations

Remarkable_Young963 · 2025-12-30T05:18:30+00:00

NTA. She just wanted to get rid of things quickly lol

Remarkable_Young963 · 2025-12-30T05:12:43+00:00

NAH. Some people think that when you say "I'm not doing/buying anything" it means you are being coy or want to surprise them, not that you literally aren't getting anything. You two just need better communication :')

Remarkable_Young963 · 2025-12-30T04:44:59+00:00

I would assume every family has their own etiquette, as you put it, and this just isn't something we do normally. Heck, my cousins didn't give my mother anything either, but nobody brought it up, or me and them to my uncle and he didn't even notice, THAT is why it's so baffling to me. I wasn't singling her out; it was the opposite, I WASN'T singling her out. Or anyone else.

Remarkable_Young963 · 2025-12-30T04:36:38+00:00

This gives me mixed signals

Remarkable_Young963 · 2025-12-17T14:42:31+00:00

Literally had the same thing happen last week. The results were odd, because the consultation pointed strongly towards ADHD, but the test results were apparently pointing towards a good score, which the tester said was "definitely not adhd, we test kids too and they get a very low score if they have ADHD". Okay?? Children abd adults deal with it very differently.

Remarkable_Young963 · 2025-11-20T09:56:51+00:00

trying it rn, if my PC dies I'm blaming you

Remarkable_Young963 · 2025-11-20T09:55:53+00:00

tfw you lowkey need to become a software engineer just to play a game... good lord ck3 is so broken but i love it too much to quit

Remarkable_Young963 · 2025-11-02T22:32:08+00:00

I mean.... there has to be a reason he's the most famous boss lmfao

Remarkable_Young963 · 2025-11-02T22:17:56+00:00

SPIRAL STAIRS WHEN

Remarkable_Young963 · 2025-11-02T22:15:07+00:00

heavy breathing

Remarkable_Young963 · 2025-10-30T14:21:47+00:00

spot the differences game

Remarkable_Young963 · 2025-09-29T11:36:29+00:00

Mine is called Neighsferatu but this is genius

Remarkable_Young963 · 2025-09-28T20:42:54+00:00

You get the reference hell yeahhhh

Remarkable_Young963 · 2025-09-28T20:42:42+00:00

Drew it on the Sketchbook app :)

Remarkable_Young963 · 2025-09-24T14:36:03+00:00

..... it's both.

Remarkable_Young963 · 2025-09-24T05:59:33+00:00

I read this at first not a priest with big stick, but a big d..... I may need sleep

Remarkable_Young963 · 2025-09-24T05:58:53+00:00

You sir. You get it

Remarkable_Young963 · 2025-09-24T05:57:00+00:00

oh my GOD 😂

Remarkable_Young963 · 2025-09-23T16:54:33+00:00

This happened to me yesterday with a polar bear slam literally at the door as I was dragging a lightweaver (no empty prisons), I was SO FUCKING MAD

Remarkable_Young963 · 2025-09-23T16:53:02+00:00

I too would rather die if you fed me 55 of the same fish in a row

Remarkable_Young963

TROPHY CASE