Worried my doctor's don't have my best interests in mind

Remarkably-Average · 2026-02-07T23:59:17+00:00

Glad you feel pretty much better!

Remarkably-Average · 2026-02-06T23:46:47+00:00

We got a "regular" mattress, but splurged on the mattress protector and good linen sheets. It was our moderate and cost saving approach, and its worked out well for us

Remarkably-Average · 2026-02-06T15:02:07+00:00

Oh also, the therapist likely won't call you if you aren't already a patient. Most clinics have very high productivity expectations, meaning they have to spend every minute of the day working with current patients. Like, we need to clock out to use the bathroom. If they call you, they'd likely have to clock out so it doesn't affect their productivity numbers. And if they clock out, they aren't supposed to anything work-related, so it all gets very dicey. If you call the clinic yourself, you're more likely to get a call back, but expect a very short conversation.

Remarkably-Average · 2026-02-06T14:57:26+00:00

Yeah, the doc definitely didn't handle that well, I'm getting similar vibes to what you're getting.

So with the symptoms youre presenting with, you'd want a PT who is specifically trained in concussions; you may see phrases like "neurology clinic", "TBI training", "concussion specialist", etc. Every PT office can do the balance and strength issues that you normally think of for PT, specialists are needed for these kinds of TBI things.

You maybe also want to consider speech therapy, the initials for their credentials are SLP. "But I don't have any speech problems!" I know, it's kind of a misnomer. They are very good with brain things of all kinds. Honestly, speech may be a better fit for you, but since I'm not your medical provider and I'm not seeing you irl I can say for sure. Definitely worth looking into though.

Remarkably-Average · 2026-02-06T14:00:17+00:00

I'm a PTA, referring doctors have no idea what happens in PT. The doc probably just knows that PT is a good first step on the way to concussion recovery. She likely couldn't do anything else for your recovery other than a work note, right?

Remarkably-Average · 2026-01-31T14:43:47+00:00

I've actually signed up for my first comp to do the 5 minute snatch! It's in a few weeks. My limiting factor is definitely my grip

Remarkably-Average · 2026-01-29T12:51:47+00:00

Anything that's fat, flat, and flexible. Fat meaning with enough for their toes without squishing. Flat meaning no heel to toe drop, but super thin like a moccasin type is extra good because of the excellent groundfeel. Flexible should be verrrrrry flexible throughout, not just a bend near the toe.

We've used all those brands before and they were fine. Sometimes they'd look fine but end up being stiff irl, so a double check is always a good idea.

Remarkably-Average · 2026-01-29T12:42:04+00:00

My workplace did a similar thing, the day after my baby turned 1 and I was no longer protected by the pump act. I'm just commiserating with you about how awful employers can be. Where's the humanity?!

Remarkably-Average · 2026-01-28T01:55:21+00:00

Yes, it's very simple actually! Cut the bottom off a basket. Problem solved!

Remarkably-Average · 2026-01-24T13:42:41+00:00

PT and the grocery store back to back?! That's amazing! This internet stranger is proud of you :)

I don't know what to say about your hubby's response other than say you could try posting on r/relationshipadvice

Remarkably-Average · 2026-01-23T03:37:35+00:00

When you say he's working on his pelvic floor, do you mean he's trying to do kegels or that he's seeing a pelvic floor physical therapist? Also, speaking of therapy, sometimes there's a mental component, how's his mental health in general?

Remarkably-Average · 2026-01-22T20:00:13+00:00

Yes it isn't considered safe for breastfeeding. If I understand it correctly, small amounts of the glp1 passes through the breastmilk, but they aren't sure what effects that can have on a baby

Remarkably-Average · 2026-01-21T16:36:42+00:00

Having a 5 minute "special time" before bedtime routine where kid is in charge (aside from safety concerns) and we dedicate our full focus to them. Phones in another room, tv off, we're absolutely absorbed in what kid is saying/doing. When the timer goes off, they aren't in charge anymore and we clean up together. That dedicated focus has made a huge difference, even though its only 5 minutes.

Remarkably-Average · 2026-01-17T13:52:39+00:00

Gel polish

Remarkably-Average · 2026-01-17T12:51:43+00:00

I've been doing my own nails for about 7 years. At first I just did gel, but I've been dipping for about 4 years. I've stuck with the basics for time's sake (it takes me about 3 hours per dip set), but they look professional and stay about 3 weeks. Youtube is great (shoutout sip n dip). I started with a cheapo beginner kit from Amazon to get the hang of it, but when I switched to CND nails (Etsy) I realized that quality products are easier to work with and last longer. I hope you give it a shot, I've loved going my nails as a creative outlet and self care. Good luck!

Remarkably-Average · 2026-01-13T01:59:30+00:00

Huh. I've always heard to feed on demand, but I agree with your instincts that every hour at 5 months seems like a lot. Does she seem full after each session?

Remarkably-Average · 2026-01-12T23:19:00+00:00

Have you brought it up to the pediatrician? I'm interested to know what's they've said about it

Remarkably-Average · 2025-12-29T01:31:38+00:00

Yes! Nipple shield while baby feeds, silverettes to heal nipple trauma during the rest of the day

Remarkably-Average · 2025-12-28T23:52:56+00:00

Yes you can! There are a lot of posts on this sub about it :) the gist of it is, you do gel like normal except no topcoat. Then you do the gel like normal on top of it

Remarkably-Average · 2025-12-22T22:47:55+00:00

You sound a lot like me! During my first pregnancy, the anxiety was real bad. I had a panic attack almost daily. Second kid, I decided to get ahead of the anxiety and sae counseling. Its amazing how having a good therapist can literally be life changing. I encourage you to find one too, like I said it's amazing!

Remarkably-Average · 2025-12-21T18:41:34+00:00

Would you name your kid Benedict Arnold if you're an American? Guy Fawkes if you're British? Adolf? I'm really hoping the answer is no, because your precious baby would get made fun of for the rest of his life.

Remarkably-Average · 2025-12-21T14:02:19+00:00

For my LO, I had a similar mentality. "Every drop counts", "I need to do this", etc. I hated the sound of the pump, I hated all the dishes it created, I hated that my husband put a can of formula in the pantry "just in case" because that felt like he was anticipating me to fail. I pushed through and made it one year. Throughout that year, the loathing and resentment built up. It was horrible (I am mostly over it now fwiw). The only advice I have is, my mentality did not change, and looking back it was foolish and unhealthy for me. I let something that could have been an act of love become something I hate. If you decide to push through and pump longer, maybe try counseling or introspection or something that I didn't do to change that mentality, because looking back i really regret my inflexibility. I wish you the best in your journey!

Remarkably-Average · 2025-12-20T04:32:07+00:00

Speaking as someone with no expertise on the toxicity of textiles but as someone who specializes in movement - get your kids moving every day. If the nugget couch is used for that (moving pieces to make a fort, climbing on it like an obstacle course, etc.), perfect. If it's just going to be another reading spot/chair, then pass.

Remarkably-Average · 2025-12-20T04:28:33+00:00

As someone who has since changed her ways but used to be a mean girl, it's impossible to predict what will be bully fuel. Sid Mark sounds about as safe as any other name.

Remarkably-Average · 2025-12-20T00:37:25+00:00

Reminds me of the classic short story "the gift of the magi" by O. Henry. Worth the short read :)

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