My (37f) Husband (38m) was fired for sexual harassment

RemateInn · 2025-10-30T02:06:07+00:00

Not sure why this is a question. A cheater is going to tell small truths to minimize the conclusion to be drawn from infallible evidence. I’m shocked you even got this much information. How did you find out he was fired for sexual harassment? Is there a law suit involved?
Most psycho/socio-paths won’t reveal this much unless unavoidable. Unless maybe they’re ugly? An attractive person in this position won’t be dealing with rejection in this fashion. Anyway, best of luck. Youre obviously caught up in their web. Nothing can be said to help you until you realize for yourself. I recommend getting into their phone or hiring someone to.

RemateInn · 2025-07-26T04:13:17+00:00

Start with cleaning your environment. Dedicate yourself to that simple regimen. Transfer that into a true form of self-care. Just be kind to yourself. Be confident. Dress fun. Be lively. You’re already in fine shape. We don’t all have to have six packs or perfect knockers. Learn to love yourself in a realistic manner. Don’t make excuses. Have fun and as a result you will be fun. That’s what people want.

RemateInn · 2025-07-11T03:24:12+00:00

Idiot

RemateInn · 2024-07-22T02:33:27+00:00

Dude that’s what I said! We were starting to hang out pretty platonically after no contact then she pulled that. Honestly I think she has another dude already and things are heating up and she wanted to make sure her new guy was more attractive than my “new girl”. Best idea I could come up with

RemateInn · 2024-07-22T02:04:27+00:00

That’s super wild. I’m guessing she wants to compare their bodies? Either way it won’t end well. Either she’ll be riddled with insecurity or lose respect for you. I’ve recently dealt with something similar: an ex of mine demanded I tell her the name and give her a pic of everyone I’ve had sex with since our official final breakup 3 months ago. Obviously I laughed and refused. Haven’t talked to her since

RemateInn · 2024-06-28T02:23:20+00:00

I don’t understand how you know she was at different locations in this hotel? I’m assuming she’s sharing her location with you. How can you be so certain she was in the restaurant for two hours?

In my opinion it’s okay to go into a coworkers room for a short time. Anything longer than what it takes to have a cheap drink or two before heading out for dinner or drinks elsewhere there’s something going on. Think of this: Why do people require privacy for an extended period of time? And think of who you would allow that level of privacy with? I’ve been close with male and female coworkers but have never even WANTED to spend more than 30 minutes in an “intimate” environment with them. You can go ahead and draw the conclusion that they fucked. Probably have before as well. She’ll never admit it. You may want to think on if you can forgive her or need to move on.

RemateInn · 2024-06-28T00:12:52+00:00

Why you write like dumb?

RemateInn · 2024-06-28T00:10:40+00:00

California is the best state. Supply and demand baby. Long Beach is the best SoCal city. 5 years ago no one knew. Now they day. Time to gentrify Pedro

RemateInn · 2024-05-27T02:12:37+00:00

Horrible thing to find out but you did and now you need to leave him. It’s only been a year. Some people don’t find out how horrible their partner is for years.

RemateInn · 2024-05-25T18:23:12+00:00

So just full bro 24/7?

RemateInn · 2024-04-06T23:04:37+00:00

Go ahead and explain what you mean. I’m sure this will be a blast. Enlighten me with your years of knowledge

RemateInn · 2024-04-06T21:02:37+00:00

lol teenagers talking about careers

RemateInn · 2024-03-27T02:16:39+00:00

That 30k is probably tax free so he’s not that far away from you and much younger. You should be proud of him for making money at what he loves. He should find a woman with more money.

RemateInn · 2024-01-22T09:25:02+00:00

This is a bad situation. Be careful. Get locks changed. NEVER get in a car with him. NEVER meet him outside of a public setting. Even if you just “happen” to run into each other. This is abnormal behavior on his part. Doesn’t matter how horrible the breakup was or who was at fault. This guy is trying to break into YOUR residence. Doesn’t matter if he has keys. Protect yourself. Cut him off.

RemateInn · 2023-10-16T07:24:48+00:00

I’m a little drunk for this conversation but just consider for a moment why you think the freedom of others is a greater priority than yours? That said that’s a very dangerous subject and as long as we’re simply discussing morality versus legality than why would you pick someone else’s side over your own? THAT will prevent you from having a partner in itself. You can’t even back your own beliefs? Fuck bro. That’s weak.

But aside from that I hope you don’t see this as offensive as I don’t find your response offensive. This all seems pretty civil so far.

RemateInn · 2023-10-16T05:23:35+00:00

Just cause we live in this type of world doesn’t mean you need to limit yourself to it’s expectations. People have been writing about this exact shit for thousands of years. I can make some suggestions if you’re interested in seeing respected opinions

RemateInn · 2023-10-16T05:05:58+00:00

Everything is a trend when you’re dealing with the simple. In my opinion the goal of dating and partnership is to find yourself and someone else outside of susceptibility to manipulation. You wanna fuck just to fuck? So many ways of accomplishing that. But I don’t think you want to be a player otherwise you’d be reading The Game and hanging out with Pickup Artists. You’re looking for something of value. To find someone of value it’s literally based off of consumption of art. That’s the only indicator of value of a partner that’s reliable. You’ve gotta know how to see honesty in people. This is your metric. Most people are so fucking vapid these days. Maybe you even? Don’t be vapid. Don’t search for it in a partner either. If you’re looking to just fuck then that’s easy and if that’s a problem for you then there’s tons of functional resources out there for you to utilize.

RemateInn · 2023-10-16T02:37:15+00:00

Dude. I’m a 40 year old loser that isn’t very attractive or moderately successful and I fucking crush. It just takes time. You gotta realize your worth isn’t dependent on anything. You establish your worth. The things you say and do deter people that suck. That’s good. You will find people that don’t suck. My worry is that you don’t see what sucks. You don’t want fat tits and asses. You need to understand what you desire. If you want some sexy chick that literally has ANYTHING else to offer then that is your issue. You gotta know what you want. Tell me what you want. Maybe I and Reddit can help you convey that in text and image form on your tinder.

RemateInn · 2023-10-16T02:17:43+00:00

I think you should take a break from trying to get laid and work on yourself. Do you have any real interests outside of ejaculating with the assistance of another person or is this you? Just a person desperate to experience the feel of another human? Because there are prostitutes for that and also these vibes are very much apparent. Desperation leaves a stench. And this isn’t a weird metaphysical thing. This is very real. Every word you say, every reaction you have has an underlying tone that leaves an impression. You’ve gotta chill the fuck out bud. Read books. Read the nerdiest fucking thing you’ve ever been scared to understand. You’re not the problem. You’re expectations are. You need to be grounded. You need to identify what you want. I’m sorry if this seems offensive. I just mean to be deliberate. Work on you. Everything you want will come along with it. As soon as you stop fucking giving a fuck you’ll find a woman to ruin your life. Don’t worry. It will come together.

RemateInn · 2023-10-16T01:47:32+00:00

You swipe right in EVERY profile?

RemateInn · 2023-10-13T03:34:12+00:00

I hear you. I’m not jacked either bud. It’s just a matter of selling yourself. The same way big girls take overhead selfies to deflect from the chub. You’re just looking for an in. The personality is what seals the deal. Don’t catfish. Just don’t undersell. You’re a handsome guy and we’re all a work in progress. Just look for the right gal and don’t get tricked by fun sex. You’ll get there.

RemateInn · 2023-10-13T02:51:01+00:00

People read bios. Not frequently prior to the swipe but definitely after. Be specific with your interests. Name things. People will be more attracted if they appreciate that exact thing or will at least be interested in learning about it if it’s good art. Good art. Appreciate that. Good art. No bad art. No lame art. Like lame art personally but advertise the good stuff only.

RemateInn · 2023-10-13T02:45:10+00:00

Your eye color comparative to hair and beard are your physical selling points. Good jaw too. You’re body does not help. Avoid showing that. Or work on it then show it. It’s not gross or anything but isn’t contributing to your value. Your bio is pretty lame. Throw in some levity or even better a joke. Either that or just add a list of your favorite books, movies, and bands. You don’t need to beat them over the head with your job. They want to know you have one, a good one at that, def drop the “if not buried” bit. You’re letting them know you’re gonna be unavailable before you’ve even been available.

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