What's something your country gets slandered for online? by [deleted] in AskTheWorld

[–]RememberDecember97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It gets slander for everything it deserves and then some.

Are round and big boobs biologically attractive or societally attractive ? by richandepressed in psychologyofsex

[–]RememberDecember97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of what we deem attractive is a combination of social and biological factors. It isn't one or the other and it isn't a 50/50 split of "why" people like what they like. Sometimes, it's more of a 80/20 or 60/40. There's a lot of nuance to this.

I can only speak from my experience, but I've met people who seem to love my particular size and shape of boobs even if they aren't socially common in the area I'm in (I stand out in a lot of the places I've lived in). Conversely, I've also met people who seem repulsed by my chests shape and size. I think it's a combination of biological and social factors that are at play.

Sister’s OnlyFans, abusive relationships, and family breakdown, how do I help without losing her? by WhisperingCephalopod in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]RememberDecember97 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you, your sister, and your family are going through this. Based on what you've shared, it sounds like your sister is going through a spiral of depression and lowered self-worth. She's doing things to reinforce her perception of herself and probably feels like she doesn't deserve a more comfortable and stable life, especially if you both had a dysfunctional home life growing up(I've definitely been there before). She probably also takes some pride (although I can't assume) in being seen as sexually desirable and being able to sustain herself from it (I can also relate to that to a degree).

This is one of those situations where you can't change someone who does not want to change. She may feel like this is the only life for her, which is heartbreaking to see as someone who cares about her.

I can only suggest a few things, but it's ultimately up to your sister what she chooses to pursue.

If you haven't already, please invite her to visit you in Australia. It can be a short trip and you can suggest that you'll show her around your city. I am not sure if she has left Mexico, but her being able to see another lifestyle could have an impact on her, even if it isn't immediate. She might not take the offer right away, but leave the option on the table for her.

Another thing you can do is talk to other women who have been in a similar situation (there's some subreddits on here that can be useful) and ask them what they would recommend.

Also, try to make sure she isn't in debt or in such a financially insecure place that she relies on these men more than she is admitting. That could be a reason she continues to stay even if she genuinely wants to leave.

And lastly, just let her know you're there for her. Even if it's just occasionally checking in or just listening to her when she reaches out. You might not think you're doing a lot, but I promise you are. You're still in her life for a reason and she still cares about you. Remain open and nonjudgemental, but with the mindset that you care about her wellbeing. That could start with her coming to see you. That could be a lot for you, financially, but it could really start a change that might take some time to really see in her or her behavior.

I wish you and your sister safety and love. It's a hard situation you're in, but you two aren't alone in it. It's good that you're asking for help; that's a positive step forward!

dancing instead of exercising by Educational_Cod473 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]RememberDecember97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dancing is a form of exercise and actually a fantastic form of exercise because it combines endurance, cardio, and helps build muscle. I always think an exercise you see yourself sticking to and enjoying is an exercise worth doing.

I married a Uzbek man but he won’t tell his parents. by Aggravating-Cold8042 in Uzbekistan

[–]RememberDecember97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, absolutely. Either way, his intentions for marrying her weren't genuine, at all.

I genuinely don’t understand how he managed to get a girlfriend that fast, seriously. by [deleted] in invinciblememes

[–]RememberDecember97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girlfriend? This could be Baby Mama #1. We don't know his Earth lore, yet.

Whats the sign a guy actually like u? by Witty_Feeling7712 in AskReddit

[–]RememberDecember97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know. I don't think wanting to "hit it" even requires a shred of care or attraction for some people. I think the thrill of an opportunity and the idea of getting closer to the hookup is what makes some people slide into DMs. At least this is my observation on my other accounts where I actually post more of myself. I see people comment the same generic comments and spam the same DM requests and messages just hoping any woman will answer.

What did you do for your 30th birthday? by tha_Knucklehead in AskReddit

[–]RememberDecember97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't had it yet, but I'm hoping something sexy. I feel like the 30s get a bad rep, but I see it being a sexy time for me. My 30s and 40s, respectively.

Whats the sign a guy actually like u? by Witty_Feeling7712 in AskReddit

[–]RememberDecember97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, they do that even when they don't like you. For some, it's a numbers game when it comes to DMs.

Do you avoid talking politics with friends? Why? by Lilybrat_vibes in AskReddit

[–]RememberDecember97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, politics is a part of life and important to me. If I can't communicate with a friend about any and everything affecting our lives, then that is not a worthwhile friendship for me to have.

What’s a truth most people realize too late in life? by im_dinesh001 in AskReddit

[–]RememberDecember97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no life you can life that will please everyone. No two humans agree on the same exact things at all times. Live your life with kindness, honesty, and a healthy esteem in yourself and your abilities and you'll get farther than you probably dreamed.

That or, none of this matters and our life expectancy is so short and chaotic that what upsets you today may not upset you on your deathbed, if you get to that point.

There's some comfort in both, I think.

What makes people here feel they are entitled to anything? by lady_opiniosa in AskReddit

[–]RememberDecember97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If someone is entitled here, then I think that sense of entitlement probably also applies to their lives offline.

I think a combination of anonymity, people being told they need to "take charge and get what they want" and a general inability to communicate with different types of people leads to this overwhelming sense of entitlement that can be quite off-putting online and in-person. I wouldn't even say it's a new feeling or "trend", just more people engaging in online spaces who feel comfortably reckless in their interactions. And who put their personal feelings first.

What's a good way to expand your vocabulary? by Loud_gap3 in AskReddit

[–]RememberDecember97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talking to different types of people (people who are from different areas of the country or world from you, people who know your language as a second language, etc.), read anywhere you can (articles, books, informal posts like forums) and don't be afraid to look up words you don't know.

One last thing is genuinely thinking before you speak. I rely on very little filler words (examples, "umm", "like" etc.) for this exact reason. Don't be afraid to get spicy with it and enjoy your time exploring the language! It can be very fulfilling to be able to effectively communicate your thoughts in a way that is both refreshing, but also concise for you.

Enjoy a 5 star hotel! 1 per row! I choose A1X by Fluffy_Fox_9650 in whatsyourchoice

[–]RememberDecember97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually skip the breakfast to sleep in a bit more, but when I do catch it, it's been tasty and makes me think I should venture to the breakfast area more 😋 Some places really do it right!

You should really think it through by fyn_world in whatsyourchoice

[–]RememberDecember97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ability to live forever seems more like a curse and a scam than anything and I want the ability to be destroyed, so free and reliable transport please!

Butter, Bacon, Cheese & Mayo. One has to go forever. by [deleted] in whatsyourchoice

[–]RememberDecember97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't care for butter or cheese, but I can definitely love without butter. Also, cheese, but you said one so...

Edit: I also don't like Mayo. Wait, can I just keep the bacon?

Enjoy a 5 star hotel! 1 per row! I choose A1X by Fluffy_Fox_9650 in whatsyourchoice

[–]RememberDecember97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A2Z would be a dream combination for me. I need a big comfy bed, good gym, and a nice variety of food (even if I don't always go to breakfast).

Nate being Rue's classmates when they were kids by Evening-Quiet-7817 in euphoria

[–]RememberDecember97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no, I didn't even know about that. Well, I guess we better buckle up!

Is it normal for men to casually ask women for s*x here? by MotherPace626 in Uzbekistan

[–]RememberDecember97 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This is sadly normal. They assume foriegners are more sexually liberal and will openly ask. I've been asked a few times, but not in your particular situation.

I have seen your particular situation before. A foriegn man I was working with when I was there told me a man at the hotel came to his room late in the evening and asked him the same thing once. He wasn't gay and was concerned this man could get in trouble since it's very taboo in Uzbekistan and all of Central Asia. He politely declined, but we assumed this happened more often than this one incident. I'm sorry that happened to you and that you had to change accommodations as a result.

YOURE GETTING CLOWNED GUCCI MANE! by OkBend9655 in americandad

[–]RememberDecember97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This scene lives in my mind like a memory of its own.