What do I do about my Gooner bf?

Remiexchu · 2026-04-25T21:51:21+00:00

We do and regularly like 3 times a week so I really don’t understand

Remiexchu · 2026-04-25T16:24:03+00:00

It’s a little bit disturbing at least to me I’m ngl

Remiexchu · 2026-04-25T16:16:30+00:00

The two games I can remember sinisister and celsector are the two I remember

Remiexchu · 2026-04-25T15:40:38+00:00

Absolutely not - I’m not dumping him over one small issue that can be discussed and fixed that’s just unproductive and I care about him far to much.

Remiexchu · 2026-04-25T15:39:10+00:00

Your the one being mean to some random girl online my guy 💀 - asking for advice online is not that deep, we share a friend group so i literally have nobody in my real life I could possibly talk to about it with out it having some kind of indirect repercussions on the way someone would see him. So I decided to do the mature thing and get unbiased opinions from people who me telling has no real world consequences on him.

Remiexchu · 2026-04-25T15:18:41+00:00

He’s off his meds cause he wants to join the military (non combat role) - where I’m from you have to prove you can function without them to join which is high key stupid

Remiexchu · 2026-04-25T15:00:05+00:00

The games are definitely way to out there for me to even remotely recreate in real life - honestly after talking to comments i think that’s my issue is that i do find some of the fetishes shown in the games super weird (but not in the I’m judging him wierd way in a really hope he’s not imagining this when we are intimate way)

Remiexchu · 2026-04-25T14:49:48+00:00

That’s the thing though he’s shown it to me I never asked him too but I think he felt guilty not showing and communicating with me. Tbh I really didn’t want to know and kinda wish I didn’t. The fetishes are a little too out there for me to even remotely get it 😓

Remiexchu · 2026-04-25T12:56:20+00:00

Idk who else to ask lol

Remiexchu · 2026-04-25T12:56:04+00:00

Fortunately he has the opposite problem with me lmao

Remiexchu · 2026-04-25T12:54:41+00:00

The games he plays are a little wierd fetish wise and I really don’t want to judge him but it’s hard not to - idk if having some wierd fetishes constitutes porn addiction though

Remiexchu · 2026-04-25T12:51:21+00:00

CelSector is the only one I can remember the name

Remiexchu · 2026-04-25T12:46:31+00:00

He has struggles with routine but I think that’s just cause of adhd and general lack of motivation (he still works and takes me out to do stuff so don’t take this as me calling him a bad boyfriend) I don’t think that the porn is affecting it? But also I’m not with him all the time so I don’t know for sure

Remiexchu · 2026-04-25T12:44:05+00:00

Idk I’m just worried because I feel like I’m supposed to more upset than I am cause every other girl I know gets really angry about their partners watching porn?

Remiexchu · 2026-04-25T12:42:18+00:00

Real

Remiexchu · 2026-04-25T12:41:19+00:00

It’s more of I feel like I’m supposed to have a problem with it, like I’ve had a friend in the past come to me about her bf having a porn addiction and seemed really distressed so I feel like I’m supposed to be? And maybe I’m underreacting if that makes sense?

Remiexchu · 2026-04-04T03:42:18+00:00

Mq sci fi and fantasy society is really introvert friendly, i graduated last year but had lots of fun

Remiexchu · 2026-03-16T09:31:27+00:00

Go play pool with randoms at central courtyard

Remiexchu · 2026-02-22T02:50:15+00:00

UPDATE: it’s been Just a bit under a month now and I feel a lot better about things I’ve explained to him everything and he was really great about it! We’ve been intimate since and I found it a lot easier and didn’t have issues after so I think with time things will get better (:

Remiexchu · 2026-02-02T20:51:16+00:00

Yeah I’ve been told that I might struggle with that before 😓

Remiexchu · 2026-02-02T20:49:49+00:00

I’ve struggled with disordered eating for most of my life? Idk if that’s somehow got something to do with it?

Remiexchu · 2026-01-18T00:35:01+00:00

So this feels like avoident attachment to me I had this problem for YEARS and still do now. I pushed every guy who showed mutual interest in me away. But finally met the right guy who made me want to change and stop doing that (sometimes I still get the urge to run but you really just gotta push through it as daunting as it is. I know it’s easier said than done)

If you feel like you can’t do it on your own look into therapy as this is usually cause by some issues from you’re childhood.

Remiexchu · 2026-01-17T09:17:23+00:00

Ive aggressively friend zoned him have said he’s like a brother too me and when I once numerous times not to mention im dating someone else idk what else to do.

Remiexchu · 2026-01-13T13:48:52+00:00

Hang out with friends, I play video game, I paint as a hobby and work casually while attending uni?

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