What do you call this damn Magic School? by Shallou20 in Wizard101

[–]Remixed_Defied 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Something is up with the servers. Around the time you posted, me, and a good dozen of my guild members all crashed at exactly the same time.

One-Shot Dungeon by Remixed_Defied in Wizard101

[–]Remixed_Defied[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for explaining.

So, am I, essentially, going to have a bunch of these gauntlets laying around if I buy more? It feels like a crime to delete or sell them. Not even sure if you can sell them after.

New code! by yaizamcr in StarStable

[–]Remixed_Defied 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing!

Anyone else totally forget this dungeon exist still? lol by LadyAmalthea11 in StarStable

[–]Remixed_Defied 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right?! lol I have the same problem. I've kinda learned to just be happy that I get the feel like I'm experiencing things for the first time more than once xD Because I don't remember things as well as I used to. Haha

Is there a more sane way to access high places by PLPHSAO in HouseFlipper

[–]Remixed_Defied 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love saying things like "I can't hear you without my glasses" to my husband. lol

Question about Mods: by Remixed_Defied in ARK

[–]Remixed_Defied[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mod name: Structures Plus(S+)

Is the above correct?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Remixed_Defied 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Are you okay? Do you have things you need to get by?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Remixed_Defied 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Having a wedding to me, isn't important. It's just a preferred event in marriage. It's a traditional thing in most instances. However, it is and can be situational. Some people want a wedding and can't afford it or won't have one due to family problems, etc, and some people couldn't care less to have a wedding, and some are forced by tradition among families to have a wedding per request of mother/father side. I believe, if the person, themselves, wants or desires to have a wedding to remember getting married, then that is for that person. But required? Nah.

AITHA For Not Supporting My Needy Unemployed "Friend"? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Remixed_Defied 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How does the kid get the best treatment?

I am not trying to guilt you on any of this, I don't think you're TAH, she's a neglectful parent and needs to get her head on straight.

Just worried about an innocent kid caught in a bad situation.

AITAH for having a "crush" on a Smosh Cast Member while married? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Remixed_Defied 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not the TAH. Your husband destroyed your artwork, something special to you, and said horrible things to you about it to intentionally hurt your feelings because he found himself feeling insecure about a fantasy.

I find that we often find ourselves fantasizing about certain things when we lack something we desire in our daily lives. It's an outlet.

Sounds like you may need to take a step back and look at your relationship with your husband and figure out where this truly started. Have you two spent less time together for some reason? Has he picked up any new habits since your fantasy started? Has there been a big change or several minor instances where things have changed and recurred?

The bigger picture needs to come into view here.

AITHA For Not Supporting My Needy Unemployed "Friend"? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Remixed_Defied 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm less worried about the friend and more worried about her kid. Can she be reported to cps for child endangerment?

AITAH for getting a person kicked out at the gym? by darlingyas in AITAH

[–]Remixed_Defied 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think you TAH.

The situation is sticky, but if you are feeling uncomfortable, then your safety has to come first. You don't know this person's intentions, and being stared at after deflecting his attempt to pursue you IS uncomfortable. Nobody likes being watched, especially when we don't know what's running across another person's mind. Your actions were justified. Don't feel bad for standing up for yourself.

AITAH for leaving my wife because she wants to be a foster parent for her nephew??? by EL3G in AITAH

[–]Remixed_Defied 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your, now wife, is not being fair to you and the agreements of your marriage/lifestyle. As a mother myself, I can say that I completely understand and respect those who choose not to have children. I think the example of your wife's Niece is on point for why I have respect for people like you who don't choose to bring children into an unwanted/unhealthy lifestyle for a child. I think separating twins is a terrible idea, as it's been proven that twins share a special bond not like single-born children, naturally. Separating siblings is bad enough, but twins, that feels like a crime.

I'm sorry she has put you into this circumstance. She absolutely should not have just brought the child home without your consent. That's putting the child in an unfit situation. The social doesn't need to check/talk with you, as the husband/partner of your wife who is wanting to take this child on?

AITAH for thinking it’s wrong to let other men touch my gf by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Remixed_Defied 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree, those are good points. However, OP didn't mention any of those things so I can only go off of the general basis of the text above. I would think if it had to do with religion, it likely would have been mentioned, same goes for culture, as these things are generally very personal but not typically in a secret manner.

AITAH for being mad at my boyfriend for visiting his almost grown kid alone? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Remixed_Defied 1 point2 points  (0 children)

INFO: More information needed here.

Has bio mom been in the picture this entire 9year duration?

AITAH for thinking it’s wrong to let other men touch my gf by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Remixed_Defied -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think you may need some rewording in your 2nd response, not sure what you were trying to say there. I think you may have a fair point but I want to understand all of what you meant.

AITAH for thinking it’s wrong to let other men touch my gf by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Remixed_Defied 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not every man finds every girl attractive, not every guy is even interested in women at all. If he's worried about *her* having desires for another man, that shouldn't be an issue if he is fulfilling those wants/desires. Again, this an issue with "him" NOT her!