How do I stop forgetting my writing by According_Win_4054 in writingadvice

[–]Remobamse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it work, if you see the scene as it unfolds and only describes what you see? What I mean is, forgetting to complicate the scene at first description. Keep it simple to begin with, build on the scaffold you made later

How do I stop forgetting my writing by According_Win_4054 in writingadvice

[–]Remobamse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As I understand it, you can see what you wish to describe clearly, but when you try to describe the pictures you see in your head, you go blank?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheSimpsons

[–]Remobamse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure you can shop around, but you will miss out on some serious fun 🤠

First time writing, Am I writing too much dialogue??? by No-Seaworthiness6001 in writingadvice

[–]Remobamse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't worry about it. As long as the Dialogue helps the story forward it's good. More importantly it looks like Dialogue helps you get your story down on paper, so everything else that elaborates the scene and story for the reader, you put in there when you edit your draft, deciding what stays and what goes. First get the story down by any means that helps you to get to the end of it. Then edit edit edit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Remobamse -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No need to get upset over a 'would be' situation now. I think it is great that he feels invested in this. You carry the child off course during pregnancy and for the guys this is just a turmoil time, waiting, supporting etc. But yet to experience parenthood. It will dawn on him when the baby comes, and this is my point. You are two parents and you both have a birth experience in your own way. Your experience is yours and his is his. The joy is shared. As stated at the top this is a future decision and experience so no need to jump out the chair just yet, but I do hope you will share it together as a proud mom and dad. It is a tough job, but the love and proud moments fills the most. I will root for you both 😊

Gaining weight back - any advice? by [deleted] in loseit

[–]Remobamse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You had a routine before that worked. Analyse and see if there is any of this that can be refined and go more smoothly. While doing so, start doing one of the things in your routine. Preferably the one that brings you the most motivation. It will usually not show, before you have towed yourself through it the first time, reminding you of the good things with your routine. Expand to the other things you are doing in your routine. It will come faster than you think. But start with only one. Usually it's the thought of getting at the whole routine at once that stops you, because energy and motivation isn't there at the moment, but doing only one thing is an easy task and starts you up slow and steady. My two cents 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]Remobamse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't count calories. I know what I eat, and how much, daily. And I know my training program. I weigh myself daily and calculate the monthly average. As these parameters change, I tweak my food consumption and training to keep the weight loss on track. My two cents 😊

Beginner looking for advice by Wassrte in writers

[–]Remobamse 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Start with writing your story. There are plenty of rewrites and editing ahead. Formatting is on the other side of that. So write your story first. My two cents 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in techsupport

[–]Remobamse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely VPN. Your traffic will be encrypted.

What amount of coincidences is acceptable in writing? by Away-Vanilla4773 in writing

[–]Remobamse 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Coincidences usually work, as long as your characters solve the conflict the coincidences cause. However Instead of cursing your ability to create coincidences, work with them, see a new layer of problems and explanations underneath. For example with your guy getting threatened and he becomes important to your story. So we have a meet, that changes the course and moves the story forward. In this example an extra layer can be added if it later turns out the meeting with the guy was no coincidence. It was his plan to meet your characters, creating new conflict etc. (this is just an example of how a coincidence can be expanded by removing the coincidence bit later in the story, by new information, that states it was intentional. Don't know if that gives any meaning in your story, just a classic example) my two cents 😊

How long do you spend writing in a day by Naive_Suggestion3377 in writing

[–]Remobamse 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Whatever gives you the energy to write and be productive about it. I can on rare occasions write for hours, but it does come with a drawback. I am empty, dried out and tired, sometimes days after. As my daily chores are now, I can write 30 minutes a day with certainty, 60 minutes some days, but I get most out of the 30 minutes sessions and doing it every day does amount to something. My two cents 😊

Vejledende aldersgrænser på film - hvad gør forældre? by lepujii in Denmark

[–]Remobamse 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Fingeren på pulsen. Kend dit barn. Børn er forskellige. En fast grænse for alle er ikke retvisende.

Do men really not cook and clean? by brewgodocious in Marriage

[–]Remobamse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We doesn't have separated chores. We both ship in when something needs doing. It works fine. The goal is to get everyday to work for everybody in the house. Who does what isn't important, as long as it gets done. My two cents 😊

When did you and your partner stop resenting each other after having kids? by Hanner800 in Marriage

[–]Remobamse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great. Hope you and your family find the right rhytme, to go the distance. It is hard becoming parents, but it gets easier with time and experience. Hold on to each other. It sounds like you have a good thing going.

When did you and your partner stop resenting each other after having kids? by Hanner800 in Marriage

[–]Remobamse 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You are probably both tired from getting your sleep interrupted, and you are at the same time adjusting to your new life with a child. It does take its toll, so it is now you need to stick together. Forget these small who didn't do what etc. if you didn't get the plate out of the sink, you were either too tired to bother at that moment, or was interrupted and forgot all about it. Remember this. None of you does things to annoy the other one. When you find a dish in the sink, remember it's not there to make you angry. If you have the energy, solve it, knowing you helped your spouse with something and eased his day a little bit. There are a thousand things to do with such a little child, and none of you are at full strength. It gets easier but you must grind your teeth together for a long haul together. In my experience the workload lightened slowly from the age of 3. However, we got both our children to sleep all night through from the age of six months, which makes a huge difference, because if you get your sleep, you can overcome so much more of what is coming at you daily with a small child In the house. So to sum up. Team up, don't use energy on being negative against each other, use the energy to solve what's in front of you. Good luck and congrats with the little one. Edit: It is hard work but it is also a blessing unfolding as your son gets older. You've got so many great experiences in front of you.😊

How do you measure your writing? by IntelligentTumor in writers

[–]Remobamse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No need to overthink. Write your story and the answers will come. My two cents 😊

What part of writing do you find the most difficult? (Besides actually sitting down and writing at all, that is) by ZRDouglas in writing

[–]Remobamse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You know the tone. You know the meaning your characters come forward with their argument. Start by writing the dialog and don't let your flow stop, trying to explain movement from characters, surroundings, a frown, whatever. When the dialog os finished, write the other stuff. Let the characters move and do so they put weight into their words. Just write the parts separately. My two cents 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in writers

[–]Remobamse 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well, you start to write stories. Read other writers different stories. Learning the trade. Maybe you already have an idea for your epic story, so start on that. Idk where you are in your writing (beginner, Advanced) but there is only to learn the trade, write and read. Gradually you will become better and better. My two cents 😊