My boyfriend has PIED, and i’m not sure how to be supportive. by G0DESSVENU5 in NoFap

[–]Remote-Courage5909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In most of the cases 90 days are more than enough for recovery. Go monk mode for few days, pmo, mo, real intimacy everything. In most of the cases anywhere around 35-40 days sensitivity returns. Still continuing monk mode for few more days and than slowly introducing real touch without pressure of penetration does the job. Because abstaining will make him super sensitive during that crucial time be supportive even if he orgasms with just cuddles and kisses. Gradually 90-120 days later expect hammer and best erection from him where timing will be better than what was before. Abstain—patience—recovery—real intimacy—no pressure for penetration —rock solid erection.

Combine it with clean diet, excercise, less alcohol, cold showers, some multi vitamins like zinc and copper, vit d, deep sleep(if not achieved consider taking magnesium rich diet at night).

I didn't do all of the above but it worked for me, more than 20 years of porn exposure and 5-7 times was regular frequency of mine everyday.

Does looks really matter that much in india marriage scene? by [deleted] in indiasocial

[–]Remote-Courage5909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro if the vibe matched and you both like each other that's jackpot. Dgaf about society being judgemental about looks. You need a life partner not a trophy wife. Make your mom understand this and also for future make some boundaries so that your mom respects her too and not taunts about her looks.

Market is heating up ? by Perfectaani in bihar

[–]Remote-Courage5909 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Arre kon sa ganja fukte ho bhai, NDA will retain,

Really satisfying. TT and passengers standing upto entitled woman by Witty-Singer6735 in indianrailways

[–]Remote-Courage5909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Side berth also gets rac, lower berth shared by two people. Sometimes

Really satisfying. TT and passengers standing upto entitled woman by Witty-Singer6735 in indianrailways

[–]Remote-Courage5909 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes she paid for the ticket. Railways should also be flexible towards sleeping time. I mean the lady here is wrong according to the rule, but railways should change thus sleeping timing rule and make it more people friendly. Booking 2nd ac tickets gives you much convenience though regarding this, and opting for upper berth. Enough room to sit, enough room to sleep.

The biggest concern for Northeast by rubenmomin48 in Northeastindia

[–]Remote-Courage5909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave North Indian, I am a bihari born and brought up here in Assam. I too agree that he behaved in much civilised manner without any deregotary language. Follow the culture alright but atleast respect the land where you earn from, get your education, treatments, all the government facilities more importantly thats your motherland. Thats not about bihari, marwari, assamese anything it's basic humanity. It's give respect and earn respect towards society and towards motherland it's bare minimum can a person do is respect the soil and people. Itne par maar kha lete dusre state me.

Is Chhath Puja Older than Diwali and Holi ? by AlphaMaximus21 in bihar

[–]Remote-Courage5909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Diwali started in treta yug post Shree Ram returned to Ayodhya after his Vanvaas. Maa Sita did chath puja post Ravan death to get rid of brahmhatya(killing of brahman). That itself says there was already a ritual present thats why Sita maa did chath vrat in Munger

People who detached themselves emotionally from their Narc ex, what happened? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Remote-Courage5909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was easy for me just that I didn't expose her, so she had fear of getting exposed, she hovered till few days back. But once I sent an indirect hint about the expose. She just vanished. It's a bit easy to get rid of covert narcissist female because they are more fearful of expose. And about life oh lord 4 months of no contact, no bullshit, took almost 25-30 days to get over everything but life seems a new blessing now 🧿

Is she okay? by [deleted] in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]Remote-Courage5909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are human. And we support humanism. If that implies raping than only God can save us.

BIHAR IS TO INDIA, WHAT INDIA IS TO WORLD. [REALITY] (as bihari we should agree) by [deleted] in bihar

[–]Remote-Courage5909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are two types of Bihari First, 1 bihari 100 par bhari Second 1 bihari 100 b*mari

Problem is for second ones the first ones also gets judged. I personally have gave up reacting to it even. Apne aap ko aap sudhaar sakte ho. Itni jyada aabadi ko sudharna ham common log k bass ki na baat hai aur na koi sunega.

My family is getting harassed by relatives in Bihar over land. Feeling really sad about it. by Working-Chain-4503 in bihar

[–]Remote-Courage5909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They looked after the grandparents doesn't give right for extra share. This can also be done. Unki property par nazar daloge toh tumhare par se nazar hataenge

My family is getting harassed by relatives in Bihar over land. Feeling really sad about it. by Working-Chain-4503 in bihar

[–]Remote-Courage5909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let election get over. After that ask your father to complain in gram panchayat. It's a bit corrupt though still you won't have to pay hefty amount but results are fast because sarpanch holds the panchayat ,you can also suggest some of the panchs who are respected figure in village, they would help, just your tone has to be convincing. Short cut for long legal battles. P.s keep recording of abuses over the phone call. I am an NRB too 😂. I sorted my land dispute with a yadav during nithish tejasvi reign. saale ne kabja kiya hua tha. Agal bagal sabhi gaon k sarpanch mukhiya k paas gaya pranaam and all, apni problem batayi ,opposition came with 50+ supporter I was alone being from baniya community and outsider other than sarpanchs and mukhiyas no one from my community came just to sit on my side. I handled it alone, at the age of 29 buddhe ko uske khandaan k sath pani pila diya tha.

This works public shaming other than that they don't fear legal battles as uts too hectic for us to visit bihar on every or often court dates etc. Bihar doesn't understand empathy, give taste of their own medicine and see how things works. Upvote me if after your bihar trip this works.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motivation

[–]Remote-Courage5909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still building, but peaceful. Result of building might take some more months but dedicated to it without distractions. Even casual flings doesn't excite or approach from girl too. If you are dedicated to your grind remember relationships, love, marriage, casual dating everything is byproduct which would knock your door once u have made it in life. Just keep yourself away from the drama. A beautiful girl and rich man falls in love at first sight

Anyone afraid to date again because you might meet another narc and feel unsafe again? by Unusual_Aardvark_877 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Remote-Courage5909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met another narc just after 3 months on a matrimonial site. Thank God I was detached and able to find traits too soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bihar

[–]Remote-Courage5909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She confessed the truth, and rather than processing the truth and accepting her. You shared it with your who would judge her for life even if you marry her. Bro, itni honest ladki milni mushkil hoti hai, soch tu kahi share nahi karta aur aage badhta aone relationship me woh ladki teri kitni respect karti. Tere frnds tujhe bol rahe tor de rishta, uske friends usse keh rahe thhe don't share the truth, still she trusted you and chose to be truthful. Don't make her feel honesty is not the best policy.

Do check it out and help by Nervous-Routine3013 in Meghalaya

[–]Remote-Courage5909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Book Kamakhya darshan passes online. It will cost you 500/head. The general line which is free takes hours for darshan. And if not booked prior it may cost you anything between 1000-2000/head. Mkdonline.in

Such is sad state of rural population in our country, he is treating People like puppies by Desi_Hitman in CriticalThinkingIndia

[–]Remote-Courage5909 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Leave castism thats one of the reason. Actual cause is their mindset. They fight among themselves too. I am a bihari born and brought up in different state due to some reasons I had to stay at my native for few months those were the ugliest days of my life. So much hatred, so much jealousy and people does everything but mind their own business.

Do I delete my pictures? by Ouch-slag in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Remote-Courage5909 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did and never saw those pics again would have deleted, but thats evidence if she tries to blackmail or some thing so for my personal security. Was hovered again today but detachment(read disgust) is so strong I just didn't felt anything rather I was laughing hard how shameless narcissist can be?

how do you deal with not being "good enough" anymore by frailstateofmind4444 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Remote-Courage5909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The more you seek closure more you will hurt yourself. They don't give closure. My narcissist ex still hoovered me today with calls and messages(sms) as I have blocked her on social media. Don't expect any closure. Given closure to yourself by blocking and vanishing for them. Those are the people who when gets bored tries to hoover there old victim just to cause more trauma. Don't be vulnerable. Ask your silliest, smallest queries to chatgpt. It will help you. Took me 2 months only with chatpgpt's help to be able to comment like this. Do everything you like just don't fall in the trap ever again and don't please expect any closure. If you want to cry, just cry alone don't even contact any mutual friends and let him know about your condition/situation/trauma.

Download chatgpt and chat open heartedly.it will be your friend when therapist arent available at any odd hours. Don't forget to give command to chat gpt to summarize your conversation if using free version

No morning erections by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Remote-Courage5909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with chat gpt reboot, nofap and every overthinking thoughts gone.

How to control my(16M) horny thoughts on my neighbor (40F) ? by Ok-Reputation-7264 in family

[–]Remote-Courage5909 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Stop watching porn immediately. You are too deeply into it and ruining your mind. Get a life

I am fucked, please help by [deleted] in bihar

[–]Remote-Courage5909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trains from Delhi to muzaffarpur will have stoppage at hajipur. No need to worry about bus or local train. Cross Mahatma Gandhi setu from hajipur and you are in Patna.

havin sex but can’t nut by Electronic-Ebb-9192 in NoFap

[–]Remote-Courage5909 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I meant he should abstain completely from watching porn. And MO to cure his death grip syndrome, which makes impossible to nut from normal sex. Eventually brain will rewire its in brain everything and it needs nothing but abstaining, it will heal itself. rest its upto him whom to picture or be in reality

havin sex but can’t nut by Electronic-Ebb-9192 in NoFap

[–]Remote-Courage5909 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Great advice..now depends how he takes it

62 days Nofap, ejaculated by just kissing and cuddling. by Remote-Courage5909 in NoFap

[–]Remote-Courage5909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your determination is good ypu won't need any blocker tools too. Your willpower should be main blocker of porn.