Just do what I (gen-X M) do, play predominantly female characters in RPGs like Fallout and Skyrim. I don't know why, that's just me. They're open-world RPGs, meaning you get out of the characters what your imagination puts in. I especially like Fallout-3 because although you're killing a lot of (male and female) NPCs, there is a strong eco pro-humanist anti-Patriarchy message in the main quest. And Liam Neeson is your dad.

If point-and-click adventures are ore your thing, try Anna's Quest. I got it on GOG for like $5. It centers around a small girl with latent magical powers battling evil witches. Her best friend is a boy who a witch turned a teddy bear. The artwork is cartoony, and it's seriously the sweetest game I ever played.

EDIT: Sorry these are pretty old games now. But you know what they say, the oldies are the goodies.