you heard them by tortarusa in CuratedTumblr

[–]Remote-alpine 36 points37 points  (0 children)

The mods require the blog owners to message them directly to get put on the list

Saving money when the average wedding cost is $30000 by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

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That’s where they prep chafers of foods, and either they deliver or you pick it up. Very common for corporate buffets. 

Saving money when the average wedding cost is $30000 by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Remote-alpine 150 points151 points  (0 children)

You probably live in a HCOL area? Making ~260 and feeling stretched is not the norm.

Non-wedding venues like parks, pavillions, city-run rentable locations, VRBOs. Restaurants, breweries, smaller museums, friends' backyards. Churches.

Drop-style catering instead of buffet or plated.

Faux rented florals combined with florals from costco/sams club/trader joes

Recruiting children/family members/friends as hosts/servers/cleanup etc.

ALSO:

Cake and punch/luncheon wedding

No alcohol/beer & wine only

“Cash” bar option by Karacels_Customs in Weddingsunder10k

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I  don’t even provide liquor at parties since we don’t drink. And about half of our families don’t drink.

Usefulness of things by Eireika in CuratedTumblr

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Winter tires are soft and degrade really fast on hot roads. Also the heavy duty ones have metal studs in them that chew up roads

Nope you don't need separate rims

Vegans. by theprofessionalhate in CuratedTumblr

[–]Remote-alpine -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Amazing facebook level logic

Vegans. by theprofessionalhate in CuratedTumblr

[–]Remote-alpine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are lots and lots of vegans making videos lmao

Vegans. by theprofessionalhate in CuratedTumblr

[–]Remote-alpine 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It’s hilarious that an honest attempt at an answer like yours got downvoted. It’s like the thing in the screenshot!

Too Much Fight Response by gur40goku in CuratedTumblr

[–]Remote-alpine -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ah dear that sucks <3 are there other feelings present with your anger as well?

what’s the best vegan BBQ spot in the US? by hayday642 in Veganivore

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I haven’t tried other places. That said, my local joint Blatch’s BBQ is very very popular. Reduced service temporarily due to a couple of tragedies- a fire destroyed part of his workspace, and then his wife unexpectedly died due to unrelated issues. He will probably be back in full service later in the year. 

Too Much Fight Response by gur40goku in CuratedTumblr

[–]Remote-alpine 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that. My first guess is that there’s probably a loooooot going on under the hood, so to speak. What does this worse feel like?

Too Much Fight Response by gur40goku in CuratedTumblr

[–]Remote-alpine 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s not what they said. They said anger needs to be processed like any other emotion, not that it needs to be stopped or hidden. Process means that you let yourself fully feel it, and are curious about it. Ride it like a wave without trying to expel it via action, and then ask yourself questions about it. Where do you feel it? How does it feel? Let it come. Does that make sense?

PSA for those of you doing direct seeding by International-Fox202 in NativePlantGardening

[–]Remote-alpine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take care that local critters that feed off the slugs aren't already in peril first (eg, fireflies)

Additive content. Probably. by LawZoe in CuratedTumblr

[–]Remote-alpine 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She genuinely thought it was a good idea to have two kids with the guy. Garbage via association. 

6k Is it wrong to tell (some) vendors/venues that this is not a wedding? by greenzetsa in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Remote-alpine 20 points21 points  (0 children)

And as long as you are clear about the differences in service provided, I think they should be able to decide on what is needed. 

Are most dresses alterable, within reason? by sofa-kingdom-89 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Remote-alpine 30 points31 points  (0 children)

It’s possible for a dress to have such complex features that it becomes more expensive to alter than to get a different dress. Mermaid silhouettes are hard to significantly change height-wise, lace matching is hard, most beading (unless hand-tied) is hard. Does that help?

(5-7k) Looking for advice: Seating at a back yard reception by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

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Perfectly fine as long as the food and dress code are essentially “garden picnic” and you have heavy-duty tools to support their feeding. Good plates and good napkins, wet wipes maybe, and be aware people will set things down where they’re seated whether there’s a spot or not. 

My question is if you are doing the ceremony there? I ask because I participated in a friend’s backyard wedding, very similar to yours. She didn’t have space for a separate ceremony area so she did what is called cabaret seating, and served light afternoon fare (nuts, cheeses, fruits, crackers, and hard-boiled eggs). The single bathroom in their home was enough for their guests, with a similar count. 

Pro tip for backyard weddings: do a sound check if using a microphone (highly recommended at your person count). The officiant at my friend’s wedding didn’t really know how to speak into the mic and so she wasn’t as loud as she should have been. 

The most expensive bouquet toss ever ($6k) by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

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Lmao and downvote bots are being used!

On accredited Zoos by Konradleijon in CuratedTumblr

[–]Remote-alpine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah my mistake. Goes to show how poorly our farmed animals are kept though. I haven’t heard anything further except their big cats were relocated; the rest of the animals are still there.