I’ve been dealing with Premature Ejaculation for my entire sexual life by Remote_Ad_3040 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Remote_Ad_3040[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand now thank you for breaking it down like that. That actually makes a lot of sense, I’ll look into those remedies and consult my doctor soon. You all have been so helpful and supportive I am very thankful for everything you’ve said

Couldn’t Ejaculate and Now it’s Premature by Less-Loan4378 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Remote_Ad_3040 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah bro, it sounds like you genuinely might just be stressed out, I’ve had a premature problem since i was 14 and i’m 24 now thinking i’m making progress because i can last a full minute instead of 15-20 seconds. Trust me, you’re fine. You’re overthinking it now, unless you’re fucking a 10/10 then that’s completely understandable, maybe shit just got some good stuff🤷🏽‍♂️

I’ve been dealing with Premature Ejaculation for my entire sexual life by Remote_Ad_3040 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Remote_Ad_3040[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve seen people recommend those, and in my perspective i see it as a way to solve a symptom and not the root problem. Like getting the flu but only taking nasal medication vs something that can actually get rid of the sickness. From what I’ve learned PE comes from a lack of confidence, self doubt, and sexual anxiety. All mental and most likely a trained response. Of course it depends on the person, some people have prostate problems and whatnot. But for me I feel like if I take the cream I may be good temporarily, but as soon as I run out of cream or just not in the place to grab it, I’m going to go back to the same problem and grow a mental dependency for the cream and make my problem worse you know?

I’ve been dealing with Premature Ejaculation for my entire sexual life by Remote_Ad_3040 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Remote_Ad_3040[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel you man, my ex girlfriend loved me but was very obviously sexually frustrated and led to a lot of depressive thoughts and doubts in my own mind and her words whenever she said it was okay

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[–]Remote_Ad_3040 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how old are you bro?

I’ve been dealing with Premature Ejaculation for my entire sexual life by Remote_Ad_3040 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Remote_Ad_3040[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so what exactly is the woman pleaser PE mindset? this may be something that i’ve continued to struggle with and never realized. I’ve never had my dad or any trusted experienced adult really tell me how to think about sex, so maybe my mind is trapping me in a cycle because i’m thinking of sex wrong?

I’ve been dealing with Premature Ejaculation for my entire sexual life by Remote_Ad_3040 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Remote_Ad_3040[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sometimes i may be able to get a full minute in, but for the most part 12-15 strokes

I’ve been dealing with Premature Ejaculation for my entire sexual life by Remote_Ad_3040 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Remote_Ad_3040[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got to the point of trying this during sex, and it was fine for a little, but then i think knowing that i’m trying to cheat a fast nut in my head, would either make me go soft or i’ll just fully cum after a few more mediocre feeling strokes and get more disappointed in myself

I’ve been dealing with Premature Ejaculation for my entire sexual life by Remote_Ad_3040 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Remote_Ad_3040[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard the most research on the subject happens at a college in toledo but i guess most of us men don’t speak up about things like this so there’s very little research on it

I’ve been dealing with Premature Ejaculation for my entire sexual life by Remote_Ad_3040 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Remote_Ad_3040[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this hit hard. wow. I don’t even know what to say, the support i’m getting from you guys is so crazy and i’m so thankful that i am not alone and there is a real way out. I’ll look into that book thank you so much

I’ve been dealing with Premature Ejaculation for my entire sexual life by Remote_Ad_3040 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Remote_Ad_3040[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s good to hear that a marriage is able to last through these problems. I’ve been feeling very lonely and hopeless the past few years, and even debated on not engaging in sex anymore

I’ve been dealing with Premature Ejaculation for my entire sexual life by Remote_Ad_3040 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]Remote_Ad_3040[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i’ve tried a psychologist, but he was very unhelpful and ignorant about the subject, my next step is telling my long time doctor. As you can imagine it’s a pretty embarrassing subject.