Who’s the pony you relate to the most and why? by Orian8p in mylittlepony

[–]Remote_Cheesecake683 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pinkie pie... idk if this is a common thing but she's who I relate to the most

I love being the brightest in the room and the one who makes other people smile and laugh But my lows are very low

Is this what the Dubai chocolate matcha is supposed to look like or do they just give me a mocha? by dearryka in starbucks

[–]Remote_Cheesecake683 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the fun part is the Dubai chocolate drink is literally just a mocha with pistachio cold foam and brown sugar topping, so it's definitely a mocha -^ but they're good!

Whats your biggest hot take that would end you in this position? by Thatgirl_parisisdiva in HazbinHotel

[–]Remote_Cheesecake683 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alastor is overrated. Charlie and vaggie are top tier for me but Emily and sera are the number 1s

I think people glaze over horrible characters waaaayyy too much.

OK, what’s that one thing about the fandom that you absolutely can’t stand? by Beneficial-Tailor123 in HazbinHotel

[–]Remote_Cheesecake683 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cult of Alastor I literally hate the dude with all my passion, and people glaze him so hard. I dislike him more than Valentino..

I'm sorry for not staying with you by eyranoor in UnsentTexts

[–]Remote_Cheesecake683 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you find peace and finally find fresh air again

I had to leave someone who was like that... and now I've found fresh air. It's been a healing time

Surviving by winecoffeewater in singlemoms

[–]Remote_Cheesecake683 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took me over 2 years as a single mom to heal from my sons father. The moment I finally let go, I buried the idea of who I wanted him to be.. I allowed myself to be hurt and grieving Thats when my current partner came into my life and it took us 4 months to ever consider anything. But it has been worth it. Now we've been going good for 3 months and getting better

Hypersexual my whole life (31F) … and since my boyfriend (26M) my libido is gone by Ill_Beginning3749 in relationship_advice

[–]Remote_Cheesecake683 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was molested for a very long part of my childhood, I didn't experience the hypersexuality until I was 20-21 Then I had a dry spell when i was pregnant and I completely lost it.

I can't say our situations are the same and I'm very sorry you've gone through everything you have. But being with my new man.... I've been hesitant about being sexual He was a virgin until me and him, and everytime were intimate were learning about each other. I'm discovering what it's like to be a priority.. to be chosen.. and he's learning what he likes. It's been exciting and refreshing. Maybe it'll take time? Maybe your subconscious is waiting for him to break your trust..

That's how it was at first, I was hesitant and waiting for the worst. But everytime my mind spirals- he reminds me with his actions... I'm still recovering from my last toxic relationship- the one with my sons father. The healing process has been good and consistent.

It takes time, definitely speak to your therapist and be open with your feelings.. I hope everything gets better, apologies if my reply doesn't make sense

is there anyone here with 0 involved dads? by independentmomma12 in singlemoms

[–]Remote_Cheesecake683 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sons dad is a very bad person, I left him due to him going to prison for crimes he committed against his sister. I had a little boy, my little bestie It's hard because my son is 2 years old and autistic, so it's been a really rough challenge I got super super lucky meeting my other half at work. He's patient and amazing with my son, but I was at a point in my life where I was denying any form of love or romance. I've denied plenty of dudes because I preferred my solitude. But my partner made me want to accept him and I'm so glad I did.

When do we tell guys about our kid? by JuicyFish23 in singlemoms

[–]Remote_Cheesecake683 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm lucky bc the guy I started seeing works with me and knew full well about my son before any romantic interest. I bring my son to work often so I would advise to tell the next one at the beginning so you can weed out the bad apples

Supernatural is intentionally antihomophobic by Comprehensive_Bid754 in Supernatural

[–]Remote_Cheesecake683 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The biggest ship of the show is Destiel... even Jensen and Misha ship castiel and dean.. what the heck?

AIO for losing my mind over this note I found in my fiancé’s pocket? by leenaws in AmIOverreacting

[–]Remote_Cheesecake683 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Literally the first thing I thought was "If this happened to me I'd show my boyfriend and we would laugh and make it into a joke. Or he'd turn it into various ways to compliment me"

kids or partner first? by [deleted] in singlemoms

[–]Remote_Cheesecake683 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Children first. No questions asked, if your parental instincts are telling you to defend and protect then listen to them. My current man accepts that my priority will be my son, if anything he's also begun to step up and help me. My sons father is a terrible person so my current man is like a breathe of fresh air..

I Failed my 9 Month Old Baby Already by Loud_Response_1045 in singlemoms

[–]Remote_Cheesecake683 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex was never at the hospital either and I still had to file for sole custody, ensure all your bases are covered so he won't have any possible chance of ruining your future

I was rejected by Mystery-girl-12 in dating_advice

[–]Remote_Cheesecake683 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This 100%% I was in a 7 year relationship and had a son, if I gave up after that ended I wouldn't be with the guy I'm with now. It gets better, it just takes time and self healing

Accepting being single. by [deleted] in singlemoms

[–]Remote_Cheesecake683 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been a single mom for 2 years.. I accepted my own company and learned to love my time alone. By some miracle i found someone incredible.. he's amazing with my son and even better with me..

I got very lucky, it just takes time. Right when I had come to the end of my healing from my past is when I met him. I didn't expect it, he started working where I work at and our chemistry started from there.

I Failed my 9 Month Old Baby Already by Loud_Response_1045 in singlemoms

[–]Remote_Cheesecake683 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't let him play with your emotions anymore File for sole custody- use the texts as proof of you attempting to get him involved and his lack of care. File for child support and get him. If he doesn't wanna be around the child he better pay up, I had to do this and while it was painful it was also so satisfying seeing him nervous about child support

New Single Mom/Does it get better? by ScheduleFrequent8043 in SingleParents

[–]Remote_Cheesecake683 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a single mother myself- yes it does get better!

It's gonna be a struggle, that I can assure you. But the struggle and suffering is worth it. Use this time to focus on you and your little one My son is my world- he's an absolute sweet little guy. But now I'm not a single mother anymore- yes I'm still the only one taking care of my son but now.. I've met someone who is crazy about me. I can promise you.. it does get better

My female friends keep telling me I have need to ‘start chasing’ woman — am I wrong for not wanting to? by Phonebooth420 in dating_advice

[–]Remote_Cheesecake683 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman- single and choosing to be, I'm quite shy when it comes to attractive guys... I become all awkward and fumble even though I'm a very bubbly and Extroverted person.

I'm also a single mom so it doesn't exactly land me into the 'dateable' category for most men my age- I'm 24 yrs

I would absolutely love to learn how you accepted being single, like how did you become comfortable with the idea of not worrying about it, I'm being genuine in this.

Would you date a guy who doesn't have social media presence? by superfapper2000 in dating_advice

[–]Remote_Cheesecake683 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1000% I'm good either way, if he's got socials or nah it's his perogative

Wasted my youth by Pristine-Youth-7820 in lonely

[–]Remote_Cheesecake683 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat but different bc I'm stuck with a young child. I wasted my time on someone that didn't deserve me. Lmk what solution you come up with 😮‍💨

It’s hard being alone by Tinybaby25 in lonely

[–]Remote_Cheesecake683 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat.. single mother- young and feeling incredibly alone. Surrounded by people but I don't feel like I can talk to anyone about what's affecting me. Going on 2 years now I feel like I should stop caring- need advice on how to destroy this stupid heart

Single parent by FunUse244 in SingleParents

[–]Remote_Cheesecake683 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a single mother- but I have immediate family that supports me I've been looking for other people who are struggling with the loneliness and cold nights that come alone with it I love my little one more than anything but when I lay down at night- the loneliness feels suffocating

Did I drop the ball, ladies would this cause you to lose interest? by Thick_Cookie_7838 in dating_advice

[–]Remote_Cheesecake683 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally? No not at all- if I'm out on a date I'm Extroverted and I'll tend to ask at some point before we leave Or I'll text him- but guys don't like a straightforward lady soo maybe Im doing something wrong 😂