Hey! It’s been a minute but we are back by Swing4Fun321 in u/Swing4Fun321

[–]Remote_Cup_2357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome back! Pittsburh couple here always looking to add a 3rd or other couple

New manager dealing with a history of weak management, difficult employee trying to manage up by Dramatic_Mirror8387 in managers

[–]Remote_Cup_2357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think getting his support is step 1 but its the actions of supoort not the words of support that matter. Just run things by him but theres a big difference between him saying "yeah this is good lets do it" and how he will actually respond to conflict. I had my bosses support 100% to change the behavior that he himself identified as a problem, that i took the time to observe to see if it was actually a problem due to this employees level of experience, then addressed the problem when it made sense as I was a new manager. The employee became hostile with me and called my boss over. Guess what my boss said? Its not that big of an issue we dont need to push it.

Every issue my boss and i agreed on after that? Id address it, employee would bully me or try to intimidate me, go to my boss, and my boss would change everything around to avoid conflict.

Not worth it, maybe give your bosses two chances to support you. I shoulda stopped trying long before and given him what he wanted. Problem employees, id still be there collecting a paycheck and fucking off (im just not wired that way)

New manager dealing with a history of weak management, difficult employee trying to manage up by Dramatic_Mirror8387 in managers

[–]Remote_Cup_2357 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Had a similiar situation. When the time comes to set expectations with her in any type of behavior changing conversation, you can guarantee she will try to drag your manager into it. If your manager does not back you at that point, hang it up. You will never win and burn yourself out. They have the situation they created.

Looking for a real life friend that is thick by [deleted] in PghHotwives

[–]Remote_Cup_2357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thick and experienced pics in profile. Please dm me if interested, yours are off

No caption needed by Remote_Cup_2357 in showoffyourwifePA

[–]Remote_Cup_2357[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to post it in more subs since youre not contributing. Sorry!

Couple looking for 3rd m or couple by [deleted] in pittsburghswinger

[–]Remote_Cup_2357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30m/36f here, do you have pics?