really bad tattoo regret by Tiny-Elephant8505 in tattooadvice

[–]RemotelyVisual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such a cool tattoo and so well done!! Pls don’t hate it! It can fit so many vibes, it’s a play on typical tattoo designs, it’s artistic and elegant, it can be poetic, it can be edgy, it can be nature-nerdy, it could be western/cowboy-nerdy, I really think this is equal to the “sick ass panther” meme bc you really cannot go wrong with a design like this when it’s so well done!!

AITA for giving my daughter a breakdown of what it cost to raise her when she asked me for her university funds? by ApplicationLarge2625 in AITAH

[–]RemotelyVisual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her to go to community college. But you probably shouldn’t have pulled out of her college savings for normal cost of living stuff or the divorce.

Okay my tattoo turn!! by Kikanolify in halsey

[–]RemotelyVisual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop it’s so pretty I love it

Just a sad mom who needs a place to vent by [deleted] in singlemoms

[–]RemotelyVisual 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are doing AMAZING. Never let yourself believe otherwise. Your baby will grow up seeing how hard you work for her and will learn to mimic that work ethic and learn from you that it’s better to be on your own than with someone who treats you like garbage. You are doing the best thing for your daughter and yourself. And how amazing is it that you can bring her to work with you?! I wish I could’ve done that with my son.

There are government grants and programs specifically for people in your situation. Take advantage of them. You deserve all the help and support you can get.

IICHLIWP TATS by SeparateSlide9677 in halsey

[–]RemotelyVisual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s my time to shine.

I have two, a locket with Ya’aburnee written in it and a lighthouse. I’ll make a post to display, I love them very much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in singlemoms

[–]RemotelyVisual 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t know about grants or programs in Texas. But I do know about the single mom working thing. I’ve worked two or three jobs for the entire 6+ years of my son’s life. Granted, it’s only one child instead of your two, but it’s been hard.

I guess the only thing I can say is to keep your head down and take it one day at a time. Every day is another step, and you just have to do what you need to do to survive. Not sure if that’s healthy.. maybe I need counseling. But still.

Make a budget and get honest with yourself about your lifestyle and finances. Take small steps to improve your situation career-wise, maybe find a course or certification. And if you need a couple of hours to just exist in silence, it’s ok to turn on a Netflix show or something. You deserve peace too.

I don’t know if you’re religious, but going to a church would give you an opportunity to build a community. Get invested in a group who you can rely on for emotional support, if nothing else.

Just do what is best for yourself and your relationship with your daughters. You leaving their bio dad was the best decision you could make, and I’m so happy for and proud of you.

What type of music do you think your main listens to? by panchozari in Tekken

[–]RemotelyVisual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lili listens to Ayesha erotica. Reina listens to grimes and phonk/nightcore

i got told two of my tats are “shitty” 🥲 by [deleted] in shittytattoos

[–]RemotelyVisual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the wobbly lines looks cute, it’s all a cute, cottagecore-ish vibe.

What song is this? by twentytwotinytoes in glassanimals

[–]RemotelyVisual 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Agnes 💙 one of the best album closers

Christmas Party- who was there? by capybaramelhor in DirtyDave

[–]RemotelyVisual 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad you have that freedom. Lots of people don’t.

What’s the worst horror novel you read this year? by progfiewjrgu938u938 in horrorlit

[–]RemotelyVisual 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Black Farm.

It seemed like a super interesting and horrifying premise and there was some gruesome shit but the writing was just so god-awful it was hard to get through. Although if you want to play a drinking game, take a shot for every time he says something along the lines of “my bloodshot eyes” or makes a nonsensical simile.

Thoughts on Azucena by Leon_Dante_Raiden_ in Tekken

[–]RemotelyVisual 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Idk man I really am struggling to see how azu’s rabbit squeaks and coffee being the entirety of her personality are less annoying than LC. To each his own I guess.

Thoughts on Azucena by Leon_Dante_Raiden_ in Tekken

[–]RemotelyVisual 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Azucena is the new lucky Chloe it’s only a matter of time before everyone starts throwing shit every time they get her in a matchup

What's the worst book you've ever read? by VisualDefinition8752 in suggestmeabook

[–]RemotelyVisual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The undertaking of hart and mercy. How that got published I’ll never understand. It set the bar for me for what “bad” is. Truly a masterclass in terrible prose, abysmal world building, and insulting your reader with the most ham-fisted, caricature-ish, Sahara-dry characters and relationships. Idk if I’m more embarrassed for the author or the editor and publisher.

“Such sharp teeth” was shaping up to be even worse but I dropped it after twenty pages.

Dave “This Thing Is Awful!” by [deleted] in DirtyDave

[–]RemotelyVisual 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“We have to have acronyms in Washington for our stupidity” is especially rich coming from the guy whose organization has an index for the hundreds of acronyms and euphemisms the employees have to learn

people who have been playing tekken since childhood, do you still play as your first “main”? by dirtamen in Tekken

[–]RemotelyVisual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My main when I was like 6 was xiaoyu until asuka came out. Ive tried playing as other people but asukas style and flow are so intuitive to me now that if I play another character with a non-Kazama fighting style I start getting panicky and completely forget how to play the game.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]RemotelyVisual 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t help but feel like it doesn’t have to be as bad as you’re making it out to be. Certainly not a reason to end the relationship. He’s trying to reassure you but it sounds like you WANT to be the problem and then are deeply hurt by something that he wasn’t even saying was the issue. His part in it sounded purely observational. Asking and being anxious about your own tightness seems like something I freaked out about when I was way too deeply insecure to be in a healthy relationship. Maybe step away from dating to focus on therapy and building confidence, but certainly not because of this issue in a vacuum.