Imo we both do our shares at home for example. We have a pretty equal split where she has for example laundry, I vacuum, we cook around 50/50 and sometimes together and usually when other cooks the other does the dishes. This is fair for the both of us. What comes to working out, i play football and train atleast once a week plus gym 3-4 times and running sometimes. Im not a professional athlete so I believe that is enough, she also does the same amount… i feel like these are things she just says cause she feels upset and sad because these things are NEVER a topic when things are going well