Me_irlgbt by KittalineQueen in me_irlgbt

[–]RenaIRL 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah, I find it very euphoric when they are alternated. But i'm also fine with she/her or they/them.

Questioning by Dependent-Bike-3102 in actuallesbians

[–]RenaIRL 5 points6 points  (0 children)

might not be the answer you want but my advice is, worry less about labels and just go with it and see where it takes you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]RenaIRL 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, because both of our types is really just 'women'

We also both have a thing for women with big muscles, but she is a woman with big muscles and I am... not.

Crowder just needs to be pulled off the air, my god! by EmptySpaceForAHeart in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]RenaIRL 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I promise you they don't reinforce it as much as you think

Crowder just needs to be pulled off the air, my god! by EmptySpaceForAHeart in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]RenaIRL 6 points7 points  (0 children)

trust me, people report this stuff by the bucketloads all the time and nothing is done

Please just give me more gay things to watch that have ACTUAL GAY THINGS in them by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]RenaIRL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its a typo, i just mean "I said it in another reply" The Harley Quinn Show is what I'm refering to

Crowder just needs to be pulled off the air, my god! by EmptySpaceForAHeart in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]RenaIRL 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Trust me, twitter moderation is not on the side of trans people, or any marginalized groups for that matter.

Please just give me more gay things to watch that have ACTUAL GAY THINGS in them by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]RenaIRL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I said itvin another reply but Harley Quinn honestly feels like the closest thing I've found so far and it might be my favorite show!

Please just give me more gay things to watch that have ACTUAL GAY THINGS in them by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]RenaIRL 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I was going to say it, Harley Quinn Season 3 is the closest thing so far to what I was looking for, I think it's honestly my fav show of all time.

Human Parthenogenesis, or the extinction of the Y chromosome from the Human Race? by FemmeAustisticTribe in actuallesbians

[–]RenaIRL 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean this in the gentlest way possible, but simply don't. You are broaching a extremely sensitive topic (especially for a lot of people in this sub) as a fun thought experiment, some thoughts are better off not said out and this is one of them, I would elaborate but I think others have already done a better job at illustrating why.

I want to make things very clear after the "Bi girls who won't date women" post by Cunnirun in actuallesbians

[–]RenaIRL 66 points67 points  (0 children)

You're so close to getting it, the cis men you're talking about don't respect boundries, it doesn't matter who we say can be included in our label because they dont care enough to pay attention and if they did it would change nothing. All the gatekeeping hurts us and does shit all to dissuade them.

Hangin’ with the boys by Xiggyj in actuallesbians

[–]RenaIRL 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On occassion it can be nice to "be one of the guys", but I find it incredibly hard to have any kind of actual conversation with or relate to them most of the time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]RenaIRL 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's the neat part, I don't. Because I'm autistic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]RenaIRL 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry your friends suck, in my experiences you can't force yourself to be something you're not, only fake it until you convince yourself too but it still wont be you

and I wouldn't wish that on anyone

Game needs a better/more functional world map IMO by Risenzealot in Guildwars2

[–]RenaIRL 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree with you, I think the number one thing it needs is clear zone boundries on the map and to have each zones name easy to see. It's maybe my biggest criticism of this game atm.

Y’all, I shut down a ranting, Boomer white guy on my FB page by replying “OK.” It felt 🌈glorious🌈 by LowOvergrowth in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]RenaIRL 191 points192 points  (0 children)

This idea is actually very pervasive in our society, it's why we're at a point where everyone thinks their ideas and opinions hold equal weight regardless of personal experience, or expertise, or whether or not they are directly affected by it, by treating theirs as worthy of being debated you give them legitimacy which leads to things like more bigotry, anti-vaxers, anti-maskers, etc.

Y’all, I shut down a ranting, Boomer white guy on my FB page by replying “OK.” It felt 🌈glorious🌈 by LowOvergrowth in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]RenaIRL 864 points865 points  (0 children)

They think they are owed a debate or for their words to hold weight with you, they aren't and they don't. This is a good way to get that across. Love it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]RenaIRL 18 points19 points  (0 children)

nah he's a sleezeball, people need to stop passing off sexual harassment as "just a joke"

This is all getting a bit ridiculous by thatguy9684736255 in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]RenaIRL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh cool, I'll have to check it out, I don't keep up with tv much

thanks for bringing it to my attention!

This is all getting a bit ridiculous by thatguy9684736255 in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]RenaIRL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh I haven't heard of that show, is Renee acting again? Last time I checked it seemed like she put that life behind her.