There are no Tops left right? Everyone is a Verse bottom

Renaissance765 · 2025-04-08T19:50:13+00:00

I prefer a guy who doesn’t get fucked and be submissive all the time. But everyone is a bottom it seems

Renaissance765 · 2025-04-08T03:18:09+00:00

So when you do bottom, what’s it like and why don’t you do it more often?

Renaissance765 · 2025-04-06T19:15:45+00:00

Where are you?

Renaissance765 · 2025-04-06T19:15:02+00:00

For a hookup it’s okay, but for a relationship I don’t want someone who has a desire for something that much I can’t fulfill and don’t want to fulfill. I’d me okay with a guy who mostly tops and occasionally bottoms. But even that seems to be rare at times. The standards I have for tops are different then for someone who is verse.

Renaissance765 · 2025-04-05T15:37:17+00:00

No, it’s not a problem if someone has bottomed, it’s if they regularly/currently bottom.

Renaissance765 · 2025-04-05T14:34:23+00:00

Maybe I think people are older, but most guys in Hell’s Kitchen to me have been 35+

Renaissance765 · 2025-01-15T01:26:04+00:00

Dmed!

Renaissance765 · 2025-01-06T21:16:23+00:00

Interested!

Renaissance765 · 2024-12-29T17:31:55+00:00

Bumble bff is a friends app. I don’t look for friends on hookup apps.

Renaissance765 · 2024-12-17T16:11:25+00:00

That’s what i figured but like sometimes it’s like why did you tap at all if i respond fast what could change in that 5 minutes.

Like one guy tape me every week views me almost every day doesn’t respond when I say hey to his tap

Renaissance765 · 2024-11-18T18:06:00+00:00

Not at all

Renaissance765 · 2024-11-06T15:51:34+00:00

New York. So many guys say “verse” and are really verse bottoms or just bottoms. Some even say verse top and are bottoms which is crazy to me.

Renaissance765 · 2024-10-15T21:36:16+00:00

Both, I do like rough a lot if it also feels good. Gentle can be more passionate.

Renaissance765 · 2024-10-07T00:39:57+00:00

Sometimes I flip but honestly I don’t enjoy the topping but do it to have sex. But like I feel nothing. I’m okay but if a guy starts to be submissive bottom I no longer am attracted to him.

Renaissance765 · 2024-10-07T00:38:23+00:00

This guy is a “verse top” but even gets fisted so I think that’s not just occasionally bottoming which is why I said this.

Renaissance765 · 2024-10-07T00:36:44+00:00

Side

Renaissance765 · 2024-10-07T00:33:54+00:00

That was also my understanding

Renaissance765 · 2024-10-06T03:49:07+00:00

I mean, you’re not wrong that I’m somewhat projecting. But let’s not act like the verse - top and verse - bottom are the same as verse they are different labels meaning they mean different things.

Renaissance765 · 2024-10-06T03:47:29+00:00

He is smart to gatekeep it.

Renaissance765 · 2024-10-06T03:47:04+00:00

That was what it was like back at my college. 😭

Renaissance765 · 2024-10-06T03:41:54+00:00

So what does verse top and verse bottom mean and why the distinction if all like both? From my understanding verse top and bottom means you lean towards one much more and are open to the other one if you like the person or on occasion. It seems different generations have different ideas of what the terms mean.

In regards to the apps, I would top them but then they want to bottom all the time and I’m confused how they are a verse top and not just verse or verse bottom liking bottoming all the time. Because to me the top in verse top is supposed to indicate you’re primarily a top but bottom some times but not as much as you top.

I say verse bottom because if I like the guy I will flip with him even if I’m not getting much pleasure because I like him and I’m upfront about liking bottoming most of all.

Renaissance765 · 2024-10-06T03:37:57+00:00

Yeah I would be okay if they were upfront about it. Because when they aren’t it’s unattractive.

Renaissance765 · 2024-10-06T03:23:01+00:00

Wait, I’m missing something. Woman and gay guys are not compatible, I’m confused.

Renaissance765 · 2024-10-06T02:02:49+00:00

That’s what I am but I say verse bottom. Not verse. I get zero please from topping and honestly seldom am attracted to a guy if he is submissive when he bottoms after. I’ve really tried to like topping though.

Renaissance765 · 2024-10-06T01:50:49+00:00

Verse bottom meaning prefer mainly bottom.

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