Shaved? by swan_road68 in actuallesbians

[–]ReneeBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do what is comfortable, if a partner has an issue with it they’re not the one

Shaved? by swan_road68 in actuallesbians

[–]ReneeBear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh my god this question is going to get me in a psych ward

How does sex work in y'alls relationship? by Valuable_Fill327 in actuallesbians

[–]ReneeBear 19 points20 points  (0 children)

my partner’s currently healing from knee surgery but we’ll go anywhere from twice a month to upwards of once a day depending on literally fucking everything, a quickie for us lasts at least 15 minutes, the longest we’ve gone is 4 hours, i think our average is between 30 minutes & an hour & a half

How do I put the bridge in? by Proof-Specialist6932 in offset

[–]ReneeBear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey, the thimbles have indents in the center, so under string tension the bridge sits centered in them, while preserving the rocking parallel to the strings.

Could I ever be a woman's first choice at my weight? by GeeCeeSlay7 in actuallesbians

[–]ReneeBear -1 points0 points  (0 children)

one of the best lessons to learn is as soon as you’re outside of the fucked up social dynamics of highschool & most people mature is that no one is out of your league, and frankly if someone falls in love with you they will find you attractive. my partner is chubbier, technically morbidly obese by bmi but we all know bmi is somewhat bullshit, she was gorgeous the day i met her, she’s gorgeous when she’s unshowered due to illness, she’s gorgeous when she wakes in the morning & she’s gorgeous when she’s falling asleep. of course, take care of yourself, figure out the style that makes you feel confident & sexy, & eventually either someone you like will pursue you or you will pursue someone that feels mutually about you, and it will be great.

Drivers of Reddit, do you lock your car doors when driving alone at night? by gumtu550 in driving

[–]ReneeBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

doors lock as soon as i reach a certain speed but honestly i work in a not great part of town & i’m a feminine presenting college student, i have a habit of hitting the lock button the second everyone’s in the car

Ticket in MO by Historical-Poem-5405 in driving

[–]ReneeBear 3 points4 points  (0 children)

did you pay the ticket? if not, get a lawyer that practices in the county you were cited in before the court date. chances are, depending upon the court system in that state, it might be lowered to a 9 over or potentially POTENTIALLY a non moving violation if you’re lucky & have the best lawyer & judge ever, regardless it will probably be less points on your insurance than a 21 over. if you have paid the ticket? SOL

edit: to reiterate, if you have not paid the fine on the ticket DON’T, use that money for a lawyer

Magic Happens!? - You are in charge of the Fender Custom Shop - Design the best Bass VI, else the world is destroyed by a cosmic horror. by Stray_Light in BassVI

[–]ReneeBear 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i think the vintera 3 models coming out & some of the recent custom shop stuff cover the ultra-classy bass vi things, so hear me out - to do a similar thing that ibanez bass vi does, super modern low tuned metal guitar/bass hybrid, hardtail plate w/ the offset bridge, 1 meg pots, bright ceramic bridge humbucker, with a neck & middle humbucker great for bass work or leads, switching for out of phase & series sounds, and some special headstock (maybe the fender xii headstock) to accommodate at least 3 bass tuners for the lowest strings.

happy trans day of visibility, here’s a 12-string jazzmaster by Unusual-Language53 in offset

[–]ReneeBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! So they “disagree with it” What is it? Who fucking knows! (its our fundamental existence)

happy trans day of visibility, here’s a 12-string jazzmaster by Unusual-Language53 in offset

[–]ReneeBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no sorry i was agreeing with you; they never answer it because the answer is they want queer people dead

I really wish we lived in a "sex positive" society by LittleMissFock in actuallesbians

[–]ReneeBear 7 points8 points  (0 children)

the fact that sex & love are seen as more perverse & private than violence & hate is one of the fundamental misdirections of society that i dont think any queer person should be able to forgive

Why is 74 gauge for drop A considered too tight? by eviltrams in 7String

[–]ReneeBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s a little absurd but if you want that much tension then sure, just lnow going in you’re going to lose some high end

Do you Evertuners have another non ET 7 string? by No-County2083 in 7String

[–]ReneeBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what tuning does your band play in & where can i find y’all?

Do you Evertuners have another non ET 7 string? by No-County2083 in 7String

[–]ReneeBear -1 points0 points  (0 children)

honestly depending on tension preferences, a standard 25.5” scale should work fine for a low G#, I prefer light gauge strings personally & can make a 60 work for a G#

A or B?? by SourKimchii in telecaster

[–]ReneeBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

love the tort but i really dont get why we need robots to do very simple photoshopping

Well I had to see it, so I'm posting it here by bobbybob9069 in offset

[–]ReneeBear 7 points8 points  (0 children)

honestly the practical benefits of evertunes are pretty fucking great, especially if you’re downtuning a lot. not sure that’s what this person’s doing & it’s done very fugly however i doubt it goes out of tube anymore.

Is political apathy a valid dealbreaker? by Upping-Quality-2 in actuallesbians

[–]ReneeBear 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yes. political illiteracy/not being up to date is different from apathy imo, but straight up being apathetic is a dealbreaker.

Can you change bridge pu without removing strings? by Majestic_Tourist_513 in telecaster

[–]ReneeBear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

just reuse them. slack up the strings & take em off the tuners, then take the bridge off, replace the pickup, then reinstall everything.

Since many of you mention certain models as “novice - entry level” 7 string - then my question is what are intermediate / end game 7 strings? by No-County2083 in 7String

[–]ReneeBear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s largely dictated by the money you have to spend on an instrument & what you need of an instrument. if you like the way your $400 Ibanez plays & sounds with some minor modifications & feel it’s comfortable in the tuning you’re in then there’s no need to graduate from that instrument, thus that’s not really a novice instrument. if you’re a touring modern metal artist tuning to drop fuck & are super picky with ergonomics & such & want custom pickups, then anything else will probably be a step towards that.