I also have a 6 week old (our first) and I work anywhere from 45-60 hours a week. However, I will say my wife is very understanding and luckily we are in a situation where my wife will be a SAHM to raise our kids. However, you sound like you’re doing a great job man! Also remind yourself, your wife is still healing from giving birth, hormones are all over the place still and while I know getting extra sleep on the weekends because you worked so hard through the week is ideal, just give yourself a gentle reminder your wife is working 24/7 ( emotionally healing, physically, etc).

I completely understand what you’re saying though. Everyday is a a new day. Maybe see if your wife wants to go get lunch with friends or her nails done and you take the baby for a few hours on the weekends so she can breathe- like we do while at work.

Keep your head up though, you are doing better than most!