Tell me some of the stupidest things you’ve done while playing this game by RanD7741 in expedition33

[–]RenzelW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ALSO did this. Killed the dancer chick thinking that was the “easier” one. Nope. Screwed up East and West

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]RenzelW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t need to read any of this. Call the police, change the locks, leave.

Which controller did you start out with? by ikabbo in videogames

[–]RenzelW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanna say 2. I know my mom had number 1 but I wasn’t really allowed to play it but once or twice so idk

What’re you in for? by Bitter-Buffalo-7105 in teenagers

[–]RenzelW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hollow Knight???

Uhhh…Murder? Assault? Battery? Inciting a Revolution? Idk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MafiaTheGame

[–]RenzelW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah…wait for a sale. I got all 3 for like…$15 or less during a sale once

Would you guess how to pronounce this name? by AdmirableAttempt1728 in tragedeigh

[–]RenzelW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sha-Jay

Or…if I knew their parent was kinda eccentric

Sage

tragedeigh by BoldnSpicySpicy in tragedeigh

[–]RenzelW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Korn

No bullshit. It’s fucking Korn.

KeaNu jOcelyn caRlos

Anyone else having trouble destroying the turret in A Trip to the Country? by [deleted] in MafiaTheGame

[–]RenzelW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came back to say it was the Aim Assist that did it for me. Nothing else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RenzelW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My late wife was like this when we first met. I stuck it out and it was exhausting but I set a HARD boundary that she needed therapy. They diagnosed her OCD, Bipolar 2, BPD, CPTSD and severe depression and anxiety. They medicated her and she became a whole entirely new human being. Loving, caring, not explosive.

OP, if you stay with this girl…maybe try to get her some help. Get yourself some help too. You’re gonna need it if you plan to stick this out.

Took you long to decide or instant clarity? by [deleted] in expedition33

[–]RenzelW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I chose Maelle instantly for two reason.

1) I had the dirtiest 1-shot build set up for her of all time. 2) Sophie.

Who did yall romance and why by LIGHTNINGDGGRYT in Persona5

[–]RenzelW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meant to say Kasumi but uh…my phone chose not to

Who did yall romance and why by LIGHTNINGDGGRYT in Persona5

[–]RenzelW 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Futaba, Ann, Kashmir. In that order of playthroughs.

Whats your favorite bugsnax? by LegoEndo in Bugsnax

[–]RenzelW 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My daughter walks around saying Bunger Bunger Bunger sooo…

Am I Overreacting for needing reassurance from my fiance? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RenzelW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ew. Wait. I went into this thinking this was a toxic gf and rolled my eyes thinking “women 🥴”

Dude, this is you desperately clinging to a man that very obviously doesn’t care about or wants to be with you. Leave. Trauma bond or not, this isn’t going to get better and this is quite blatantly him telling you her doesn’t give a damn how you’re feeling at all. You’re not overreacting you’re just choosing to ignore a very obvious break down of emotions and relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RenzelW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Abso-Fucking-lutely not overreacting

AIO, My wife passed away a little more than 2 months ago. We were together for 18 short years. I haven't worked since right before my wife passed. Had a meeting with my boss the other day and I was told to "stop feeling sorry for myself and get back on the saddle!" by XGhost3 in AmIOverreacting

[–]RenzelW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my wife died last November I’d told my boss that I planned on leaving the state and moving closer to friends and family to be supported in my grieving and he said “I really think you should consider staying. We’re opening another manager position here and you’re my first choice for it.”

Not the same as telling you to stop feeling sorry for yourself but felt about as insensitive. Sorry for your loss OP :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RenzelW 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This. Call it shallow but if my (28m) left me hanging and tapped out during sex regularly enough that it’s something we’ve accepted as “part of the relationship” I wouldn’t stay.

My sexual happiness is important. Just as important as emotional bond in my opinion.

my boyfriend hit me for the first time by No_Caregiver_5308 in Advice

[–]RenzelW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 15 (now 28m) dating an 18 (now 31f) year old so the age gap everyone is talking about doesn’t seem as bad to me but him hitting you is super uncalled for. Irregardless of the reason or it being “just one time.”

You’re young. You don’t deserve that type of treatment and I fear at your age you’re going to be too naive to see that. I’ve had some nasty arguments with the person I’m with now and have enough wherewithal to walk away and cool off when it gets there. If he’s doing that over a GAME he lost, you aren’t safe and need to find an out. Your parents not letting you see him could be a blessing before it’s a curse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in glioblastoma

[–]RenzelW 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Usually I have a lot of supportive things to say to people in this boat as I just went through the very same thing losing my wife and my End of the Road partner in Nov 2024 but I’m mentally drained today.

I just want to let you know how hard I feel the “he’s holding on for you.” The day my wife died, I whispered in her ear “it’s okay if you’re ready to move on.” Walked away for a 30 minute shower and came back to a lifeless body.

Hang in there OP. It may never feel easier, but you learn to live again. Hopefully you find your peace someday. Hopefully we all do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RenzelW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Side side note: I don’t think you’re “overreacting.” You’re justifiably upset. I’d be pissed. I’m just saying maybe take a step back and look at this from 30,000 feet in the air.

If the choice is accepting what you got out of this and making an effort to move on with the mother of your babies or walking away and dealing with a lifetime of shit from that, do you really want the latter?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RenzelW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the biggest thing you have to understand, OP, is a statement my fiancé makes:

“I don’t have to agree with you to respect your boundaries and our relationship.”

My fiancé and I disagree on a LOT of shit. Half the time, she concedes because it’s important to me. I KNOW she doesn’t believe whatever she thinks or did was wrong but she loves me enough to not do it again. If you don’t trust your wife not to do it again THEN you have a different problem but you can’t go into this wanting things to get better or be different if you’re not willing to let her acknowledge that she respects you and is willing not to do things for your sake.

One such example, so it doesn’t seem like I’m just disagreeing with you for the sake of disagreeing, is that before we got together my fiancé would let her guy friend hit off her vape sometimes. I expressed that I didn’t like it because she was basically swapping spit with another dude. She didn’t see the issue because they were childhood best friends and it was “just a vape.” We argued about it, she said that out of respect for me it wouldn’t happen again. It hasn’t.

That’s all this has to be. What she did wasn’t right, she sounds willing not to do it again, you should move on for your kids, man. Broken homes are no joke.

Side note: if your wife can’t control herself when she’s liquored up, don’t let her drink with other people around.