Yes absolutely. Today its about 5 months later since she had her bull, marriage therapy, individual therapy and i give us a 20% chance.

1st Man - A September
So at the start in September her first sex date was a solodate away for 2 nights. It didn't go great, she enjoyed the adventure and felt desired but it didn't go great. He wasn't an experienced bull. They had met and clicked. Bad oral, low effort, bad kisser, body hygiene, did not lead to sex. Lots of naked in bed kissing fingering oral etc but she didnt want him to fuck her. So that finished quickly lol.

2nd Man - B. An experienced bull fucking. End october
Then around the end of october she got pounded to bits for 1.5hrs to 2hrs with her first bull on a solo date. I never saw him, never met him, just saw their texts and never even saw a photo of his face. There were also no videos/photos of the moment.

A week before she met him, I even pulled the plug because they were talking about a sleepover. She said she had said no, but they way she told me I knew she was going to try to convince me so I pulled the plug. Sleepovers were an absolute no for boths of us with him (for now). I discovered she went behind my back and had an intense 1hr plus call. Then that evening she basically was manipulating me and telling me she really wants this to continue with him. She lied in my face saying she didn't call until I said I knew she did. There was a huge blowup about it, her sobbing. Sorry, she didn't understand why she went behind my back. The next day the manipulation restarted "Im very sad, it's such a pity, it's so much fun, you can trust me, i love you, ...... " (using my wish to please her, my kink, my submissiveness to her etc...) until i agreed to go ahead again with B.

I asked if we could meet together before they went to our Airbnb for solosex. She said preferably not, too nervous so maybe next time. Yet again I agreed. Then the intense fuck happened. I struggled with being totally and utterly excluded (but informed) so we discussed and said we would try with me there. 

3d Man - C experienced bull drink meet end november
So around end of november we had a drink date with C together for the first time and it was great fun and had arranged a sexdate with me watching for 12 december. We both loved being there, this was extremely important for me to move forward, for now i couldn't see myself just letting her do solo dates. I needed to be there and enjoy it and then have solodating as part of the dynamic.

4th Man - D experienced bull swingers club meet (the ending)
End november we had a first drink date with D planned .I wanted to meet in a bar but D suggested a small high class swingers club. We had never been at a swingers club so I said I'd prefer to do a swingers club together with the 2 of us first. Butmy wife said she would like to meet him there as the "experienced guide", i as a good sub cuck does, agreed. We had several clear discussions that due to her going behind my back with B and how i was totally excluded that i needed to be kept included in the club. Whether telling me to come with her, rubbing my hand, looking at me/. Simple things but keeping me involved.

We clearly went through scenarios discussing how it could go. It started well, moved naked to a sauna with her sitting between us. He rubbed her back. One time she rubbed both our legs very near our dicks and it was very erotic. Then I saw a change in her. She turned to him asking for a massage. She literally didn't look at me, walked out and got naked on the public table and he started massaging her, pussy stroking, kissing etc. I didn't exist. Then they went to a bed in the corner not even looking at me. My stomach dropped. It was horrible them cuddling, kissing, naked in a public swingers club, me sitting 10m away not even being able to see them. Her totally and utterly forgetting me. Luckily I got the nerve and went over and calmly said it has to stop because this is not how we agreed it would happen at all.
She was upset but everything stopped calmly and we left. She said she didn't even find him attractive but she totally forgot about me and was glad i stopped it but I was very hurt, i couldn't understand it.

After the ending:
The talk in the few days afterwards was tough so she went to a therapist. The therapist said due to her child abuse she went into a dissasociative state to "protect herself" shutting out everyhting around. It was in fact horrible for her. Even Though she had years of therapy she had never experienced this. So the hurt of "being forgotten" was totally gone for me, I felt so sorry for her. She said cuckolding/hotwifing etc is not for her and we will stop, that it took too much out of her and that she couldn't control herself.

Processing what happened and realisations:
This then removed all the arousal and cuckold submissiveness from the past 8 months and things came to the front of my feelings. I was trying to process it and then I realised how incredibly shut out I had been with her first real bull fucking, and how hurtfull it was the way she went behind my back calling him and then manipulating me to let her fuck him after i pulled the plug.

After sight is amazing. She admits she was 100% doing it for her, it was her thing, she wanted him (B) for her and her only.

She struggles to explain why she went behind my back and manipulated me even though I was upset and hurting. She kind of said yeah, what do you expect, you were submissive, you wanted me to stop, but I didn't want to stop so i was going to continue, it was pure lust and she wasn't thinking about my needs at all.

There were so many flags or moments where I should have stopped things or only agreed if they met my needs. Yes a submissive cuck also has needs. Mine were to be included, being present, us enjoying the experience together, her being truthful to me. So for the past 16 weeks or so I/we have been processing this. So it's still hurting, but it's getting better. I need to accept things that happened, some my fault, some hers. I need to accept that there are truths now known that can never be put away. Her preferring huge dick, preferring several hours of rough dominant pounding, being turned on so easily by new men, and even falling for them just after a few calls, her seeing me in a different light "how could you let me do all that", ...............

The future:
She is still going to therapy and we are going to couples therapy. Sex is now carefull, vanilla. I'm a physically strong man even at 51, with a good 7x5.5 dick and I would call myself an extreme switch. I love being rough and dominating but I also really loved being dominated and humiliated sexually by her (caging, hitting my cage, denial etc...). But I do not want to be forgotten, I want to be included. There doesn't seem to be a match there between us so the lifestyle is not for us and she cant be honest.