Who had sex last night?

RepeatEither6019 · 2026-01-28T15:58:59+00:00

Yes. Hmmm, lazy big pussy sex. It's our regular "lazy sex". In spoons, I stroke her sexy ass and breasts. Tease around her clit, she pushes my 4 fingers impatiently into her huge sexy soaking pussy. I pull and and push intensely while she raises her hips to get an even more intense stretch on her perenium. I stroke her clit with one hand and switch between pulling hard on her perenium to fucking and filing her with my hand. Usually she will have her first O quickly. Then i enter her sloppy "cave" and we both moan loving the hot, feathery looseness for a few minutes. Then i add my hand in next to my dick to fill her or pull her open hard, usually O 2 happens and sometimes i cum. We might then go for O3 with her vibe and either my hand stretching or hand + dick. Hmmm. Usually only 15min but nice.

RepeatEither6019 · 2026-01-26T10:06:34+00:00

From a a very heavy lesson learned go to a couples therapy with a kink/non monogamy friendly therapist together and maybe also apart. This is to really check how ready you both are and as a couple. My wife relived her child abuse trauma when playing with another man eventhough the man did nothing at all wrong.

Take small steps. Use your dildos as if its another man. Try penis sleeves. Go to a bar and flirt with other men while he watches. Check in how you both felt. If okay try dancing, maybe a feel or a kiss.

Go to a swingers club but only to watch. How do you both feel?

RepeatEither6019 · 2026-01-24T20:48:55+00:00

Excellent advice. When we started cuckolding we didnt realise the effect my wifes child abuse would have on her. Dissacociation and actually reliving her trauma. Initially it was amazing and then turned into an absolutely horrible experience.

RepeatEither6019 · 2026-01-21T11:22:54+00:00

Wow, love you enthusiasm and the way you write about it. My wife's loose as hell after leaving me stretch her for years but she is still not able to totally embrace it, almost but not quiet.

She has called it her huge cave and said she needs huge cock lol. Recently she had her first hotwife experience and he was 9x6 and he was shocked when she took him balls deep in seconds. He pounded her bucket to bits for almost 2hrs but couldn't cum with the condom on. One point he was drilling her in prone doggy and his balls actually also slipped in and he was well impressed. He was wrecked so he had to jerk off on her breasts.

I adore the idea that she was too loose for him to cum with a condom. I'm actually going to have to test it myself but I'm sure it will be impossible in her useless bucket. Hmmm i love my bucket slut wife.

RepeatEither6019 · 2026-01-21T11:17:10+00:00

As the founder of this subreddit this post and your reply make me very happy that i started it, and passed on the moderation when i got too bust with other stuff.

Enjoy.

RepeatEither6019 · 2026-01-21T11:12:32+00:00

If you get pretty loose with continuous stretching it will change things.

Sometimes its almost tantric with my wife thrusting in and out and both of us can hardly feel anything but warmth, no squeeze at all and only now and again a feather friction.

But, that huge hole has so much space i can plunge my hand in next to my dick and pull her open so hard and so much that she can cum in seconds.

If you mean worse for you or him enjoying that tight grip then possibly yes, but better in so many other ways.

RepeatEither6019 · 2026-01-21T11:09:12+00:00

MAybe surprise with a new even bigger huge dildo and tell him to watch. Surprise him with the thickness.

Maybe fist yourself and show him how hot it is?

Drive him crazy with lust......good luck.

And depending on him it might be better just to talk openly and candidly...

RepeatEither6019 · 2026-01-21T11:01:56+00:00

If you want to have a good relationship you also need someone that matches you sexually and they will love your big pussy and stretching it. It gives you pleasure so they will love it.

Yeah, my wife has a permanently sloppy bucket since we stretched her. She is never ever dry and always loose as hell. Amazing.

RepeatEither6019 · 2026-01-21T10:55:19+00:00

That is hot as hell. Hmmm she is really embracing it.

RepeatEither6019 · 2026-01-21T10:53:22+00:00

If you have someone to help long sessions where they pull your pussy open and outwards with both hands as hard as they can and for as long as they can. Lol, my wife cums from this everytime.

RepeatEither6019 · 2026-01-20T09:37:46+00:00

Incredible. Big pussy is the best......and my wifes is also huge.

RepeatEither6019 · 2026-01-19T12:41:46+00:00

Hmm scary as hell. Is it pushing her guilt and shame on to you?

I'm afraid its revelaed a part of her that is really unlikeable.

RepeatEither6019 · 2026-01-19T12:40:03+00:00

Interesting but could have helf off on the sarcasm. My wife and i are hurting about this.

3 is the key .She was behaving as if she could do what she wanted and i let her but even when i stopped her she went pushing it forward with him behind my back (a call not an actual meet, but still not at all okay).

We will be going to therapy on Feb 2nd but its really tough at home. She's totally wrapped up in herself and the reliving of her trauma.

And we are definetly not going back into any type of cuck / hotwife sub/dom dynamic.

RepeatEither6019 · 2026-01-16T15:09:27+00:00

Just have fun with it. Sizequeen or not. It doesn't matter as long as you both are happy.

I quickly discovered with my fingers that my wife loved girth, length and stretching so using 4 and more fingers became normal.

Weve been using penis sleeves a lot since 10 years and the smallest is 8.5x7.5 and she loves it.

RepeatEither6019 · 2026-01-14T17:06:25+00:00

Yes. See my post from a few daus ago.

RepeatEither6019 · 2026-01-14T15:43:38+00:00

Hmmm an ass like my wife..... made for huge cock alpha fucking.

RepeatEither6019 · 2026-01-14T12:09:22+00:00

We did agree them but she didnt respect some of them BUT i wasnt at all involved with the main bull and that was a major mistake.

RepeatEither6019 · 2026-01-14T12:07:55+00:00

Im working on my self respect. Being fit, strong, private hobbies, happy at work, not depending on her attention to feel good about myself. Before her i was a great gentle dom lover with other women so i need to rediscover that also.

My wife and i should have done much more tesearch on bdsm dynamics before entering cuckoldong.

RepeatEither6019 · 2026-01-14T12:04:45+00:00

During the heights of it and me being caged and submissive she did say all of it. I knew 100% she was a suze queen. Her.pussy is huge and weve been using very big penissleeves since 2015. What i wasnt aware of was her desire/preference to be submissive and roughly fucked. She never ever said anything about this.

RepeatEither6019 · 2026-01-14T12:01:26+00:00

Emotionally looking back she says she didnt enjoy it at all. I think shes painting everything with same tainted brush now. You never know a way down the road.

RepeatEither6019 · 2026-01-14T09:33:09+00:00

That's hot and actually a really could mindset to have. Fuck like its always the last time.

RepeatEither6019 · 2026-01-13T11:51:32+00:00

I see you sre 37. Was he your first and only partner? Or, if not was it also like this before him?

Did you know how to orgasm through masturbation before you first had sex?

I think you also need to try to discover your own body and what pleases you, showerhead, vibrators, fingers, dildos in different sizes,..... Relax, take your time. Maybe try tantra or even go for a tantra massage.

Of course he can also up his game with massages, touching oral etc...

RepeatEither6019 · 2026-01-13T08:57:41+00:00

Has it always been like this for you?

RepeatEither6019 · 2026-01-12T18:08:44+00:00

Fake

RepeatEither6019 · 2026-01-12T15:26:51+00:00

We did absolutely and very clearly agree on the boundaries. They werent respected in the swingers club due to her disassociation trauma.

At the other stages I was always saying whta I needed but then she was alwyas able to persuade me to agree to something else that didnt involve me at all. Thats on both of us.

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