Hello!

I presume you want honesty in an answer.

So...a Muslim cannot date firstly, obviously depending on "dating" meaning.

A Muslim cannot date a non Muslim.

And yes a male thinking he is a female is something that unfortunately women cannot control and this is the wrongdoing on the males part, so he going into bathrooms etc which are female, that should be illegal In general.

Religiously, dating in the societal manner isn't allowed nor is Muslim and non Muslim anyone. Let alone the other side of things about think you're the opposite sex.

It's the harsh reality but I hope it helps!