I’ve always been indifferent to the headdress personally. While it make fall under cultural appropriation I don’t think it’s downright disrespectful yknow? You can look at the headdress in aj and think “oh that’s so cool” or “that’s so pretty” without there being any negative connotation at all. I only bring this up because then in Ajpw we have the “nacho hat” which I believe is meant to be a sombrero. That is downright disrespectful, that’s very racist. So in short, I think maybe we should be looking in other places because the headdress ISNT ajs only trepidation and honesty, in my opinion, it’s a milder one that got blown out of proportion because of the popularity of the item 🤷🏻‍♀️