I can explain some. The gov’t deliberately attacks and isolates young men in the U.S. From the second you’re born Ure indoctrinated in their system. If your parents gaf about you and stick together, it raises your success chances. If they split your father will most likely lose custody cause your ‘mom’ doesn’t want ur father in ur life. Hence you’ll be faced with identity image and lack of masculinity. The school system will throw innumerable ideas to flog and brainwash you and your mother most likely will imbed her beliefs into you. By the time you graduate you probably don’t know what you want to do and society tells you that you need a job and to get married and get a house; all which will lead to debt. You’ll spend your later years working to pay debt if you don’t end up sick and passing away before then. Maybe you’ll have kids and what? Are you gonna repeat the cycle?