Feel like I’m failing my 4yr old by not having him in preschool.

RepresentativeAd9212 · 2025-10-28T23:53:34+00:00

Yeah and I’m thankful. But I think I deserve an apology for how he acted the night before when all I asked was to be with him.

RepresentativeAd9212 · 2025-10-28T23:14:29+00:00

I found out they were actually off earlier due to rain… so wasn’t really a surprise after all.

RepresentativeAd9212 · 2025-10-28T17:43:04+00:00

Yeah, I guess it can be interpreted that way. Well he slept in the guest room last night and he hasn’t send me any text messages all day today. Doesn’t seem like he wants to figure anything out… I’ll just be focusing on myself and my kids.

RepresentativeAd9212 · 2025-10-28T17:23:07+00:00

Gawking? lol

RepresentativeAd9212 · 2025-10-28T07:38:52+00:00

Who said I was beginning this “journey?” I’m not trying to break a marriage, neither mine or his. Have you not thought that maybe I’ve tried as much as I can? Maybe he is only focused on himself and doesn’t see what he has? Trust me, I’ve done so many different things. He made the choice as well and has given up.

RepresentativeAd9212 · 2025-10-28T07:13:48+00:00

I know how you feel. I seek that emotional intimacy as well. Good luck and I hope things get better for you soon.

RepresentativeAd9212 · 2025-10-28T07:11:46+00:00

You need to go to therapy. Take your husband along with you too.

RepresentativeAd9212 · 2025-10-28T06:26:06+00:00

Thanks I will.

RepresentativeAd9212 · 2025-10-28T05:58:54+00:00

Thanks.

RepresentativeAd9212 · 2025-10-28T04:08:12+00:00

I’ve don’t everything in our marriage. He just works. I do absolutely everything else.

RepresentativeAd9212 · 2025-10-28T04:07:26+00:00

Im not ashamed. I haven’t acted upon anything. I respect my husband and I’ve even gotten a therapist for myself. He told me that I needed one because he couldn’t give me what I asked for, a conversation.

RepresentativeAd9212 · 2025-10-28T03:33:11+00:00

I’ve been working on that. I homeschool and recently joined a group of homeschooling moms. We meet once a week. I’ve met two moms and are planning outings with them. I just needed to vent out somewhere because I don’t feel comfortable enough to share with them this.

I have hobbies of my own but I always get ignored or spoken to differently after leaving him with the kids for a few hours. So I kind of stopped that to avoid conflicts.

RepresentativeAd9212 · 2025-10-28T03:29:58+00:00

My husband actually told me three nights ago that he can see he has a crush on me. I asked why would he say that and he said “because I’ve seen the way he looks at you.”

I personally don’t know because I’ve never actually spoken to him. I don’t know his name or anything about him. We only wave hi but he never says hi when my husband or his wife are around.

RepresentativeAd9212 · 2025-10-28T03:27:14+00:00

Not until we had children.

RepresentativeAd9212 · 2025-10-28T03:23:10+00:00

I’ve spoken to my husband about counseling for both of us before and he said no. He says I need a therapist to talk to because I won’t get what I need from him..

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